We (the UK) don't have to rush into anything. Regardless of the bleating of our European 'partners' there is nothing they can do to make us trigger article 50 any earlier than we choose to. That's if it is actually triggered at all.
But the facts remain, Scotland is a part of the UK and despite the powers granted to the Scottish Assembly total and absolute sovereignty remains with the UK parliament. Also, the Scottish people knew this referendum was going to happen before your vote on independence and still chose to remain despite the possibility of a leave vote.