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[fountainhall]

My working live is now 20 years. I started immediately after graduating from University. My income is good, better than average here in the Netherlands. But I can not save 1000 EUR every month

You really are a man of some contradictions. You say you have been working for 20 years after graduation. So presumably you are around 42 or 43.

I must say I have a huge mortgage, house prices are expensive here; no partner, so all costs I have to pay myself; mortgage is 33% of my income after taxes

So you have no partner. Yet in July 2014 before your first visit to Thailand in October, you wrote this -

My boyfriend and I are first time travellers to Pattaya.

OK, did your boyfriend not contribute to your mortgage? OK, so perhaps he did not live with you. But on the same day you then wrote this -

We will be in gogobars, massage salons, etc. Won't use the beach that much. And with hopefully some hot boys in our hotel room :-)

So you were definitely going on a holiday a deux. Not sure about the nature of your relationship, but you sure seemed to forget about him in the posts you made after your return -

Was for the first time in Pattaya (Boyztown) and it is amazing. A truly gay paradise.
Nice, cute, friendly boys who seem really to like to have sex with you.
Of course I am no idiot, they do it for the money, I know. I know not many 20 year old boys truly lust for a 50 year old man. But yet they seem to enjoy it. Or they are very good actors. Even when payment has happened, they still hug you, kiss you. A European escort would never do that. After the sex he takes his money and goes away. Thai boys are different.

Funny how your partner is never even mentioned. Did you really mean we? Did you and he engage in threesomes? Why not mention that as others would be interested? And it appears you are actually 50. OK. That means you graduated at 30. Certainly possible, but when did you go to university and how did you finance yourself before you graduated? I am merely curious! And yet again you tell us what you did - but you did it on your own, not with your partner -

I for example took one with me to diner and another to a shopping mall (all besides the sex of course; which is the prime reason to have the boy in the first place).

So where was your partner during all this time, I wonder?

You saved for 18 months 1000 EUR? From a starting salary?

As stated above MANY TIMES, this and all your other questions are absolutely none of your business! Just as the questions in this post are none of mine!

[latintopxxx]

gee wiz fountain...what r u...a detective!!! well done.

[AsDaRa]

I had a boyfriend but we not lived together. We had our own place. The "50 year old" was an example, I didn't state it was my age. In fact you are closer to the mark where you infer I am 43/44. You are very close even, maybe even a 100% hit. It are no secrets for me. How can it be a secret for anyone? I thought age was something only women didn't like to reveal.

[fountainhall]

The "50 year old" was an example, I didn't state it was my age. In fact you are closer to the mark where you infer I am 43/44. You are very close even, maybe even a 100% hit. It are no secrets for me. How can it be a secret for anyone? I thought age was something only women didn't like to reveal.

Yet in response to a comment by a447 about how it's possible to cum 2 or 3 times a day, you wrote this -

Ok, what is your age? 40s? 50s?
Maybe you are right. The only reason I haven't tried it myself is, that I am afraid the next day I can't perform. So I will give it a try next time when I am there. I will then try to get 2 orgasm a day.
I do notice that the longer the holiday lasts the more I need to invest in foreplay to get aroused and an erection.
In the start of the holiday the boy only has to undress and I get hard, but after a few days I need foreplay to get myself into it. Also maybe because in the back of my mind there is that fear I can't perform. Maybe its only psychological. Also the 5th day you get hard as easy as the first day? Or you need longer foreplay also?

For a man in his prime, the observations about not being able to "perform" are extremely curious - observations that I'd expect a 60 or 70 year old to ask, not a man in early 40s visiting an exciting place like Thailand for the first time! But then it's none of my business!!!

[AsDaRa]

Huh? I perform quite well. 2 times sex each day in Thailand. And this means: two orgasms every day. Only at end of trip it takes longer and some times I only orgasm 1 time a day near the end. I think that is pretty normal for someone in his 40s.
More than two orgasms a day is very rare. No matter the age. Or am I wrong there too?

[latintopxxx]

i think AsDaRa is a447

[fountainhall]

Doesn't that depend on how long AsDaRa can keep going? As I recall, a447 is renowned for his stamina

[AsDaRa]

If I have to believe some members of the gay Thailand forums that I know about, they have no problem having 4 times sex each day. And when I ask: "Define sex, is this always with orgasm?" then they answer: "Yes". I find that hard to believe, no matter the age of the Farang.

But for some "sex" is just jerking off together, or blowjobs, without necessarily a resulting orgasm. In that last definition I can easily have 10 times sex each day, day in day out. In my definition however ("sex" is where you get an orgasm) I can do two times each day for a few days in a row. Since my holidays rarely last longer than 1 week in Thailand, 2 times each day is normal for me. If my holidays were to last say 4 weeks, then I would not be able to do that. For 4 weeks, every day two orgasms? No, I think it would be very hard. But my consolation is it would be hard for the average 16 year old teenboy also. Not because of my age which Mr. Fountainhall so correctly guessed. That gives me some consolation. That I am far from alone. That the huge majority of males share this with me, young and old.

a447 is very exceptional, UNLESS of the 6 times sex each day he only orgasms 1 or 2 times. Then he is quite normal.

[a447]

Doesn't that depend on how long AsDaRa can keep going? As I recall, a447 is renowned for his stamina

I think my so-called "stamina" is a bit overrated. On holiday I normally only cum twice a day. That's hardly exceptional.

Granted, the two sessions are full-on and I'm exhausted every time as they tend to be quite long. But I actually stop for a rest in order to catch my breath. Some of the guys who top me don't need to take a break - they can fuck forever. Now, that's what I call stamina.

AsDaRa, where on earth did you get the idea that I have sex 6 (!!) times a day??

In my dreams!

[AsDaRa]

The '6 times' was just a number, not to be taken seriously. But from your reports many get the idea you go from boy to boy to boy. I had estimated you to have more than 2 times sex each day in Thailand. So you are like me. In a one week holiday in Thailand I orgasm 2 times each day, but near the end it can happen there is a day where I cum only 1 time, or not at all.

'Stamina' as you describe it is phyisical condition (physical fitness). Sexual stamina is for me how often can you orgasm? Even very fit males find it very hard to orgasm 2 times day in day out for a prolonged period. Someone who can do that has sexual stamina. I can do it for about a week. Some say as a teen they could orgasm 4 times every day, day in day out, month after month. I find that hard to believe. But like some people are born taller, some smaller, it can be a matter of genetics. That the orgasm ability is in some bodies much faster restored. Some bodies just need longer time to get charged again. So DNA.