Two boyfriends ?

[justaguy]

Hypocritical? Oh dear! Where did that little non sequitur come from?

Sure a fair number of posters here and the other gay thailand sites are happy in the gay for pay business. What they are not into is the business of even thinking of getting close to and wanting/planning to again fuck the best friend of the guy who's been their boyfriend and partner for 12 years!

Oh spare me the melodrama. I am not planning some great conspiracy here, just a bit of sex. I just do it with someone I like instead of uttering the number of whatever boy I want to 'off'

[cdnmatt]

Ok, then do this. Ask your BF, "do I mind if I fuck your best friend?". If he's cool with it, then go right ahead. If not, then stay away.

[justaguy]

I already know the answer to that question. He made that abundantly clear.

You have made me realize that this cannot continue, so I will deal with it once I'm back in bkk.

I leave in the middle if I still have a go at him first.

[francois]

I must admit this has been one of the most provocative post in a long time.
Although the possibility exists that the OP is nothing but a troll having some fun.After all he has shielded his identity by claiming he is a regular poster but does't want to be known.

[justaguy]

I am not a troll, however a simple google search for my other user name (one which I use everywhere) would easily provide a result.

Not that I posted often on here, but I just want to be prudent. Of course an admin on this site can easily see which user I really am, as posting this from the same IP address..

Personally I am a bit surprised at some of the reactions over here. I was expecting more reactions like the one from latin.

Seems being monogamous is a virtue in the gay community nowadays. You learn something new every day I guess.

[cdnmatt]

What? Nobody here has a problem with hookers.

[justaguy]

What? Nobody here has a problem with hookers.

And this has relevance to what exactly ?

[bazzabear]

matt i do think you have a great way of saying things and you are spoy on

[Tobi]

What? Nobody here has a problem with hookers.

I do, 'hookers' is just so déclassé, I much prefer 'demimondaines', svp.

[Dodger]

I for one appreciate the fact that justaguy has been as open and honest as he has in this thread, and don't agree with the concept that to cheat is not to love.

I've only loved one guy since coming out 15 years ago and I cheated on him...got caught...he was hurt...I lost face...we mended and continued on. He cheated on me...got caught...I was hurt...he lost face...we mended and continued on. Does the fact that we both cheated on each other and got caught mean the love we had for each other was not real? Absoluterly not. It meant that we were not perfect, fell to temptation and used poor judgement. If it wasn't for the love we had for each other the relationship would have been un-mendable and would never have survived.

I don't think justaguy is a troll at all...just a guy who's sharing his honest feelings. What surprises me is how many people think that crucifying him for his honesty somehow erases the reality of their own inperfections.