Crikey lego! Your arrangements sound all very cloak and dagger and worthy of a plotline in a Jason Bourne movie. Lol!Originally Posted by lego
Having travelled all the way out here for the winter, IтАЩm not about to rent out another place for my sexual shenanigans. I donтАЩt know any of the neighbours in my condo. We have 34 floors in my apartment building and only occasionally do I pass someone on my floor or in the lifts. IтАЩve always brought guys from the go-go bars back to my condo. And at my time of life and given that I am operating on extra time, I am well past caring what my neighbours think of my sexual activities. The bellboys, some of whom are very cute, certainly know about my sexual preferences. They have all been perfectly polite and helpful to me. But again, I donтАЩt give a stuff if they approve or not. Two new bellboys have been employed since I was last here in April and one of them helped me up with my groceries on Sunday. Yes, I liked him, thought he was really cute, but I would never do or say anything that could be the cause of a complaint.
I certainly donтАЩt flaunt my gayness, never hold hands with any of the boys when approaching the condo or show any signs of affection in public. So in that sense, I do adhere to what I believe is considered acceptable behaviour. And, I behaved exactly the same way back in the UK in the days when I could pick up guys. (Lol!)
Guys that I meet on dating sites, some of whom I might see on a regular basis, I will usually meet somewhere neutral on our first date before bringing them back. In the early days, I did arrange to meet them at my condo, or more strictly, at the nearest Sky-train station, but quickly decided that wasnтАЩt such a good idea.
We have 4 or 5 security guards and 2 or 3 bellboys on duty at any one time. And to access the various levels a security card is required to operate the lifts. So, I have no concerns about my security. And in the 7-8 years IтАЩve owned a condo in Bangkok IтАЩve never had any problems.
In the last year or two, I was seeing a special guy on a regular basis. He didnтАЩt have a job when we first met and I supported him until he found suitable employment. But then I saw him only 1 day a week тАУ his day off. It was at that time I started visiting a lot of massage parlours, once or sometimes twice a week. It was easier and cheaper than bringing back a go-go boy to my condo with all the attendant trouble with laundry issues. Perhaps then lego, massage parlours played the same role for me as your secondary small serviced apartment.
Looking back to when I owned a house in Hua Hin, I always brought bar boys back to my house and never thought twice about it. Most stayed overnight, for those who couldnтАЩt stay overnight, I drove them back into town and to their room. There were times when groups of young lads, friends of a 'boy' I was seeing, visited and played around by the pool, having drinks, listening to music and generally enjoying themselves. Again no problems.
There were 12 houses in our soi and all were owned by fa-r├аng or fa-r├аng and their Thai wives. Not once did anyone comment on my personal life. I acted as treasurer on our homeowners association and played my part in soi life without any problem. But, if I lived in similar circumstances to you cdnmatt, with mainly Thai neighbours and given your past unfavourable experience, I think I might probably make similar arrangements to yours when seeing the occasional gik. After all, I wouldnтАЩt want the villagers turning up one night like some crazed lynch mob with burning torches as in those shockingly bad Hammer horror movies! (Only joking!)
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