Oh my God! YouтАЩve posted a photo of my boyfriend latintopxxx! The little bugger promised me heтАЩd return to the village, be faithful and not work in a go-go bar ever again!

Ok, all joking aside, it is not unheard of boys (or girls) to promise their fa-r├аng boyfriend that theyтАЩve really given up working in the bars or playing around on the Internet and have returned to their village. In the book Confessions of a Bangkok Private Eye, as told to Stephen Leather, many of the cases concerned suspicious fa-r├аng who didnтАЩt quite believe their girlfriend had given up the bar trade and asked the private eye to check up on them.

So, it is entirely possible for a member here or, perhaps, one of our wider readership, to find out the hard way that their boyfriend is cheating on them. Some may say, well, in that case, we are providing a public service. And, I dare say it is wholly possible for the photo to have been taken before the relationship began, so maybe we should be told how recent the photo is.

But to be serious, I am with Fran├зois on this one, I do think there are some ethical grounds for not allowing the posting of naked photos of our тАШconquestsтАЩ on an open forum. The only exception would be if the poster said he had the boyтАЩs permission to publish a naked photo of them on the Internet. In that case, of course, we would be relying on the honestly of the poster and would have to accept his assurances unless evidence to the contrary came to hand.