I finally did it-I managed to bottom!!
It happened at the 24 Kaikan sauna, about which I've posted a comprehensive report in the Global Forum.
I was lying on a lower bunk bed when I felt a hand run up my leg. He started playing around between my legs -I was lying on my stomach-when suddenly I heard the snap of a condom being put on.
" yamete!Dekinai!" I whispered (stop. I can't do that")
"Dekiru sa," he relied. (Yes, you can.")
I was panicking, as I remembered the pain I felt when the massage guy in Pattaya tried to fuck me. But I also remembered all the tips a forum member told me when we met in Pattaya so I asked him to take his time. "Yukkuri, yukkuri," ( slowly)
He inserted a finger up my arse -slowly as requested-and worked on me for about 15 minutes. He then did a very Japanese technique which is called "hachi no ji wo kaku" which means to move your finger/cock as if you are writing the number 8. The longer he did it the better it felt. I got to the point where I was about to ask him to stick his cock in. I reached back to make sure he was still wearing the condom and was surprised to feel a rather nice sized cock, hard as an iron rod. He must have taken that as a sign to get down to business. He managed to get the head in and then just remained still until I got used to it. He then asked me if he could proceed. Yukkuri, yukkuri.
He entered me and then it started to get quite painful, although nothing like my previous experience. He got in balls deep and then waited again before starting to slowly fuck me. It got a bit more painful but the pain was mixed with incredible pleasure. It was the weirdest of feelings. How can something painful be so pleasurable?
He then got into a rhythm and I found myself being fucked! At last!! I was yelping, moaning, oo-ing and ah-ing with every stroke, just as loud as the Japanese bottoms, but I didn't care. By the end he was fucking me like there was no tomorrow, deep and hard. He blew his load after about 20 minutes ( I'm guessing here, but it seemed to go on forever).
He thanked me ( this is Japan) and then gave me a soft pat on the bum and disappeared, leaving me begging for more.
I still can't believe I've finally succeeded and I now know why guys become bottoms; the pleasure is indescribable.
I only hope that I'll be able to do it again next time.
Losing my virginity at 24 Kaikan in Shinjuku ni chome - who would have thought!