Quote Originally Posted by Joe M
Some random comments:

- For a longer-term off, negotiate the daily off-fee. You may be surprised by the discount.

- Many boys will consider the long-term off a vacation. A couple I have known have gained weight while on their vacation. Regular meals, lounging around, extra sleep...and gettting paid for each day.

- Be sure to give you friend some space, you will both benefit and remember, he has friends and a life to live after you leave.

- Let him direct some of the activities and allow him to invite his friends to a few events (disco, beach, bowling, etc.). This is great for his status and you will likely enjoy the fun of the group and get into stuff you would not likely try on your own.

- Finally, he is a person with feelings. Treat him with the respect you would want in return.
Thats all good but I have another one.
If he stops having sex, cut it short!!!