Re: Free Sex in Thailand?
so many (25+) saunas in Bangkok. At least you are safer there. Maybe go for a drink or meal after (in a restaurant). Then you can ease out of it on good terms. A while ago I asked a guy if he wanted money. He thought that was very funny. I saw the joke (thankfully he didn't get upset) when we went back in his Audi to his upmarket condo. he was a doctor.
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I do not mean to be a critic, but I do not get the problem.
If you haven't asked the question directly, then when you meet someone from a country where so many young men and their families need funds, you should assume there will be a freely made exchange of money. There's nothing here that couldn't be solved by a little honest talk. I've been visiting the LOS for more than two decades and have found that in most situations I am dealt with fairly and honestly when I present the same. As a visitor I think it's not a good idea to make assumptions about the intentions of people in a very different culture and set of circumstances.
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I've been there and when the sex was over, they left and no money changed hands. I have met guys while checking into my hotel, sitting in a Internet cafe and just walking around in the day when most guys are hiding from the sun. If we went to bed and noting was mentioned a out money before it happened then nothing would be paid at the end of the fun.
But it being Thailand I'm prepared to come across that situation.
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probably 2/3 of my sex in Thailand has involved money....at Babylon its always free and I will do minimum 3 over a 7 hour period on a good day...and what I mean by "do" is I screw them.....dont count the other half dozen BJ..kissing and cuddles.....outside Babylon and in Pattaya its almost always paid...only ither place was DJ station where occasionally I'll pick up another tourist or local Thai....BUT I always check/ask if they want money if they are Thai....just in case...and I dont care if they are offended...
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In most cases, I can predict if he wants money or not. In the few cases where the demand for money was unexpected, I paid 500 to 1000 Baht, definitely on the lower end of the average tip (because he didn't say in advance that he wants money). So far, most of my sexual partner were physically weaker, smaller and lighter than I am. Even though I don't like violence, I think I would be able to get them out of my room against their will. I have never been in such a situation, not even close.
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The age difference alone speaks for it self , especially if you meet someone younger in Pattaya .
Just enjoy the sex and if he asks for money , do not get upset.
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loke....nice attitude you have...but I do prefer to know before hand...don't want to be "black mailed"into some outrageous amount....I simply assume that any Thai who approaches me is in it for the money...so I always check...and again dont really care if they get offended......simply a fact of life.
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Most of what is posted here is completely believable and I think accurate. Buck says he often does not pay and Christian says about 50% of the boys he sees are free. Both are younger men and good looking so that is no surprise.
It is, however, impossible to believe that a boy will choose to go for free with some farang who is 5' and 300 pounds and 60+ years old. I recently read that Gaybutton alleges that he gets sex from Thia boys free and I actually laughed at that ridiculous assertion.
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Just correct.
I have just been to Chiang Mai for 4 days, and met this nice guy.
Well, he was not in the 18 to 25 years range, but in the beginning of his 30ies, but looked a lot more younger.
I don't want to tell how handsome I am, but I am in the middle of the 50ies, slim and look younger. I have also heard on my trip, that I was different, funnier and special, when it comes to other farangs.
He made his work in the daytime, we seperated, but we had a lot of fun in the evenings and nights.
Did I have free sex, even if I paid our drinks when clubbing, and I even gave him a small Money gift in an envelope, the last day, as an appreciation for the great time we had together?
Yes I think so, because I knew he needed it, even that he worked hard, and also because there was no mentioning about money between us, and he did not expected it, he was in fact a bitt surpriced.
I felt it was almost like giving a gift to a friend, and I was happy to do so because his was a very nice lad.