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Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
Hi,
I had sex with a guy two days ago who, just today, told me that he ripped the top off the condom, stealthed me and is HIV+ and not on meds because 'he looks after his health'.
Obviously this wasn't great news.
Where can I get PEP on a Sunday as the Red Cross AIDS clinic is closed?
Thank you
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
Christ - I hope somebody help this guy he has very limited time for PEP to be effective
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
Check this out: https://www.pulse-clinic.com/pep/
Also Bumrungrad Hospital
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
(Manforallseasons got there before me)
This may be worth calling the number:
https://www.pulse-clinic.com/pep/
If no use I would try calling the major private hospitals, like Bumrungrad and BNH on Soi Convent to see if they would do it on a Sunday. Or just walk in to ask. I read one has to start taking the tablets within 72 hours.
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
Thanks to MFAS and Mancs for responding. I hope the OP gets access to the treatment that he needs ASAP. He might also want to get advice from the doctors at Pulse as to what he should do about the criminal act that has been committed upon him. They've heard it all before and would be able to give the appropriate advice - at the very least a police report, I should think.
Moses/Jellybean, perhaps you guys should consider collating info such as the above and having it pinned somewhere under "emergency healthcare" or something similar.
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
spaghetios
Hi,
I had sex with a guy two days ago who, just today, told me that he ripped the top off the condom, stealthed me and is HIV+ and not on meds because 'he looks after his health'.
Obviously this wasn't great news.
Where can I get PEP on a Sunday as the Red Cross AIDS clinic is closed?
Thank you
Spaghetios, hope you managed to get this sorted?
Hope you dont mind me asking, was the person you went with a MB?
If so, did you meet him at a bar or other place?
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Hope you got sorted Spaghetios
I know of one ex-Pattaya MB who has moved to Bkk and allegedly does this regularly...
Apparently he got HIV from his ex-farang BF and is keen to infect as many farang as possible for "revenge"
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
colmx
I know of one ex-Pattaya MB who has moved to Bkk and allegedly does this regularly...
Apparently he got HIV from his ex-farang BF and is keen to infect as many farang as possible for "revenge"
I also know a MB from Pattaya with HIV that has moved to BKK after infecting his falang BF and goes with many falangs that do not know his status....I wonder if it is the same boy?
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
Manforallseasons
I wonder if it is the same boy?
PM sent
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
Others should be made aware of such people to prevent others falling victim. Are we allowed to name on here?
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Blacktouch
Others should be made aware of such people to prevent others falling victim. Are we allowed to name on here?
I'm pretty sure the answer to that question is a firm NO! All too easy for someone with an agenda to name someone that they have fallen out with
By the way myself and MFAS have conferred by PM and the ex-Pattaya MB that we both know of is not the same guy... so this kind of thing might be more prevalent than most think
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
colmx
I'm pretty sure the answer to that question is a firm NO! All too easy for someone with an agenda to name someone that they have fallen out with
By the way myself and MFAS have conferred by PM and the ex-Pattaya MB that we both know of is not the same guy... so this kind of thing might be more prevalent than most think
Agree, naming such people on here is not practical or allowed. But these people who do these kind of things should be reported to the Police, so something can be done.
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
Hello,
Thank you for your responses.
I went to Pulse and got the medication I need. I have been informed by various sources that this type of thing is common and may not always be true however in this case, I believe it was.
The vermin in question was not a professional MB but MB'd on the side. I was not paying him for intercourse and that wasn't even discussed but he shared it with me.
I was off Prep for a month as I didn't plan on doing the deed for a while so, it made things slightly more panicky but at least I have the meds now.
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
spaghetios
Hello,
Thank you for your responses.
I went to Pulse and got the medication I need. I have been informed by various sources that this type of thing is common and may not always be true however in this case, I believe it was.
The vermin in question was not a professional MB but MB'd on the side. I was not paying him for intercourse and that wasn't even discussed but he shared it with me.
I was off Prep for a month as I didn't plan on doing the deed for a while so, it made things slightly more panicky but at least I have the meds now.
Excellent news that you managed to get the medication on time.
There are some real nasty people out there, and we must all be very careful.
I try my best to check the condom before it goes anywhere near my arse.
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There were 2 guys who are allegedly hiv+ working in a popular bar in Bangkok. I warned members at the time.
It was common knowledge among the guys in the soi.
Although I didn't mention their names or the bar concerned, some members did PM me for the information.
They were apparently still working there earlier this year. I don't know if they are still there.
No allegation was made that they were not practising save sex or that they were trying to infect others.
This thread has been a timely warning for us all. Thank God it appears to have ended well for the member concerned.
The question is, what, if anything, are the authorities doing about this guy who is deliberately spreading the disease? Have they been made aware of his behaviour?
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
spaghetios
Hello,
Thank you for your responses.
I went to Pulse and got the medication I need...I was off Prep for a month as I didn't plan on doing the deed for a while so, it made things slightly more panicky but at least I have the meds now.
I'm happy for you and thank you for sharing - somebody, somewhere is going to learn from your experience. Remember to take your meds as prescribed!:)
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Originally Posted by
a447
The question is, what, if anything, are the authorities doing about this guy who is deliberately spreading the disease? Have they been made aware of his behaviour?
The authorities can only take action if a police report has been made; in many jurisdictions, deliberately trying to infect someone with HIV counts as attempted murder. But reporting is not easy for the victim as he or she finds himself or herself in a similar position to a rape victim. The stigma, stress, fear of ridicule and not being believed may discourage victims from coming forward, probably more so in MSM situations. Hence incidents like this, like rape, are under-reported and the perpetrators get away scot-free.
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
spaghetios
Hi,
I had sex with a guy two days ago who, just today, told me that he ripped the top off the condom, stealthed me and is HIV+ and not on meds because 'he looks after his health'.
I'm actually wondering how easy it would be to "rip the top off the condom" anyway, and certainly without it being noticed. It's possible, perhaps more likely, that this is just a story that the guy told you afterwards for his own reasons.
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Originally Posted by
sglad
The authorities can only take action if a police report has been made; in many jurisdictions, deliberately trying to infect someone with HIV counts as attempted murder. But reporting is not easy for the victim as he or she finds himself or herself in a similar position to a rape victim. The stigma, stress, fear of ridicule and not being believed may discourage victims from coming forward, probably more so in MSM situations. Hence incidents like this, like rape, are under-reported and the perpetrators get away scot-free.
On top of that, telling the police that you had sex with a prostitute may put you in more trouble.
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
Brad the Impala
I'm actually wondering how easy it would be to "rip the top off the condom" anyway, and certainly without it being noticed. It's possible, perhaps more likely, that this is just a story that the guy told you afterwards for his own reasons.
Unfortunately, “Stealthing” is a real thing so I’m not sure. Either way, when someone says that it’s better to be safe than sorry.
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
For research purposes, I kept a condom after use, rinsed it thoroughly with water and let it dry. (I wouldn't want to waste a new condom for the following experiment.)
I found it impossible to rip off the tip of the condom with my hands. Or to rip it apart in the long axis. You can easily poke a hole in the latex, but I couldn't rip it in two pieces.
Biting off the tip, however, is easy.
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The story serves as a reminder to check if the top if using a condom, and if it's intact, when bottoming. Judging by the number of boys who offer to fuck me bareback, or who would get fucked bareback, use of condoms is in decline.
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
Yep. It is exceptional for a MB to use a condom unprompted these days.
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Originally Posted by
christianpfc
The story serves as a reminder to check if the top if using a condom, and if it's intact, when bottoming. Judging by the number of boys who offer to fuck me bareback, or who would get fucked bareback, use of condoms is in decline.
Could this be because of PreP, where more people who are on this are now having more bareback sex?
I doubt the MB's are on PreP?
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
spaghetios
Hi,
I had sex with a guy two days ago who, just today, told me that he ripped the top off the condom, stealthed me and is HIV+ and not on meds because 'he looks after his health'.
Obviously this wasn't great news.
Where can I get PEP on a Sunday as the Red Cross AIDS clinic is closed?
Thank you
I am a volunteer at an hiv testing site.
My suggestion. Go to the thai red cross and ask for a viral load test. It can detect an hiv infection as soon as 1 week after infection. It will cost you i am guessing 2000-3000 baht. But knowing your status and avoiding weeks of worry until an anti body test is accurate may be worth the price.
Just a siggestion on my part. Good luck. Share the goid or bad news if you are so inclined.
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
christianpfc
I found it impossible to rip off the tip of the condom with my hands. Or to rip it apart in the long axis. You can easily poke a hole in the latex, but I couldn't rip it in two pieces..
I'm guessing that (unlike most Thai guys) you probably don't have a razor sharp long nail on your little finger that you use regularly for picking your nose and slicing through plastic packaging! It could easily be used to puncture the teat of a condom...
Perhaps you should grow long nails as phase 2 of the scientific experiment!
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No need to grow 'em- it seems the whole world has Nail Bars on every main street these days.
Quite what they'd think of Christian crossing the threshold and asking for ONE razor sharp false nail to be glued on to a pinky as an experiment - is anybody's guess, but it would make a great blog post!
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On the good news front there’s a suspicion that HIV drugs may be effective in the treatment of Alzheimer’s http://www.newscientist.com/article/...at-alzheimers/
A “double whammy” for some of our members?
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
My first experiment - brute force - did not damage the condom.
No trying to cut it with my fingernails (I keep them short, less than 2 mm) did not damage the condom either. I guess the length of the fingernail has no influence on the sharpness.
But the puncturing would be done on condom as it comes out of the wrap. So I rolled the condom up to its original form, and then tried to puncture it. That's easy, but the hole is big and the sides are uneven. You would notice on first look that something is wrong.
More about condoms. You can blow up a condom to over 10 Liter volume before it rips, or pull it over your head. I tried. In biology class during sexual education we got a (one) condom each (I don't remember if only boys or girls as well got one). I found it very useful for wanking, as you don't have to pay attention where the cum goes. So I used estimated 5 years about once per month = 60 times until it finally ripped. (That does not mean I used to wank once per month in my youth, but those occasions where I used the condom were once per month. Afterwards I had to rinse it and dry it and keep it hidden.)
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
christianpfc
I found it very useful for wanking, as you don't have to pay attention where the cum goes. So I used estimated 5 years about once per month = 60 times until it finally ripped. (That does not mean I used to wank once per month in my youth, but those occasions where I used the condom were once per month. Afterwards I had to rinse it and dry it and keep it hidden.)
Is that a German thing?
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Re: Got Stealthed - Where can I get PEP on a Sunday?
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Originally Posted by
Brad the Impala
I'm actually wondering how easy it would be to "rip the top off the condom" anyway, and certainly without it being noticed. It's possible, perhaps more likely, that this is just a story that the guy told you afterwards for his own reasons.
This is no way implying what spaghetios did or did not do, but sober sex seems to be becoming more & more rare these days among the young & partying set. The bottom may not even be aware if the entire condom was ripped off if he was high.
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The perils of drink.
I’m glad I’m not an alcofrolic like you lot.
:drink:
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scottish-guy
The perils of drink.
I’m glad I’m not an alcofrolic like you lot.
:drink:
scottish-guy, non-sober sex could mean using other stimulants besides alcohol - we call it CF or chem fun here.
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Drugs now?
Good Lord - is there no end to the perversity of gay desperadoes on this forum - it’s like Sodom and Tomorra’
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There's always a tomorrow in Gomorra.
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gerefan2
Is that a German thing?
No, it's a Christian thing. Undoubtedly Lutheran.
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Actually I suspect it's just a teenage boy thing - if I revealed the things I did and the materials/apparatus I identified/devised/adapted as wanking aids it would read like a pervert's guide.
These days I am not just Vanilla, but as near to Brilliant White as possible compared to when I had hormones all over the place :D
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scottish-guy
These days I am not just Vanilla, but as near to Brilliant White as possible compared to when I had hormones all over the place :D
To the pure all things are slightly impure
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More fun with condoms. I blew up a condom (a used and rinsed one, I woulnd't want to waste a new one, anyway the new ones come lubed) and put it on a holder for balloons that I got from a festival (here again: used). Surprisingly clear, you can read a newspaper looking through two layers of latex. As you can see, it's not even fully inflated, there is still space at the closed end, but I needed space at the open end to connect it to the holder.
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According to Latinpoxonu that's close to his size. Hard to find, much less use.
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Smiles
According to Latinpoxonu that's close to his size. Hard to find, much less use.
And full of hot air.