"dating" web sights

I think I have seen a forum on this once but skipped it... What is a decent websight to hook-up with Thais? I know about Adam4Adam; Fridae; and such. But I'm looking for a sight that would be more for gays who live in Thailand. I am not interested in the young, go-go bar types, but into good looking middle aged Thais that are busy working like me and don't have the time to go to the bars every night (plus it is "same-same" with what's out there in Pattaya... girlie money boys. NOT INTO THAT ). When I meet BKK Thai gays in their 40's they think they're over the hill and ALL of us farang want the queenies!!??? (give me someone that has a career/ job and can carry a conversation- along with good looks).

How about the old standbys: www.gay.com and www.gaydar.co.uk ?

Thailandout.com

www.gayromeo.com

You have to give it to Billy.....a VERY keen sense of humour!

...thanks for the serious replies!