Advice from agony aunts sought
I live in London with my partner.
I've visited Thailand on 3 occasions. Firstly 20 years ago - the usual backpacking S.E. Asian overland route. Then the 2nd time 12 years ago as a stopover en-route to my home town Brisbane; and most recently in May for one week in the North.
I seem to prefer Chiang Mai and the north (maybe it reminds me of Brisbane somehow?). I've never been to Pattaya, and reading this forum I would like to one day give Pattaya a go, though I donтАЩt naturally gravitate towards beaches and/or hot humid weather. On my most recent trip I did not go into Bangkok.
I've found Thailand to be an ideal stopover to break up my yearly journey back home, and this is where the problem likes. When I go to Thailand try as I might I just cannot behave appropriately. On my most recent trip I took the most desperate step to travel with my moralising sister - and even that came unstuck!
I enjoy Thailand too much to discount ever returning, so please any advice will be most welcome.
I got that impression also ...
... seems that you're making a statement rather than asking for advice.
However, it seems to me also that Pattaya is not your place at all, you seem to me as if you like the cultural side of visiting countries (been and done that), unless of course I have you wrong and you like to seedy side of Thailand, then Pattaya is for you.
ADVICE, Hopefully useful.
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Originally Posted by kenc
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Originally Posted by Ripley1
....But ultimately it's the companionship I crave more than the physical aspect....
... and I'm trying to talk my partner into coming too for his first time ever...
hmmm. Seems like you do have the companionship already. What does your partner think of you "doin' the naughty" on the side? Hopefully he's broad-minded and you two can have a lot of fun together in Thailand.
I wasn't so lucky. My ex wouldn't think of any kind of open relationship and sent me packing. :crybaby:
But now I've got a new life so all's well that ends well. :flower:
Dear Kenc,
Do what the Thais do well......................TELL LIES AND GET AWAY WITH IT!
are you the same Ripley that
... made the first original post. Your first post sounded like you were a very inhibited and reserved, and led a sheltered life, then you "opened up" a little more, well a lot more.
First of all, get your ass out on holiday in Thailand, release it, let it go - get your partner to get his (and your) ass around Tawan in Bangkok, big bodies, little dicks (some but not many have big dicks) and Mary is their last name, even though the majority of them are allegedly straight. Otherwise go to Issan, see what you can get there.
Then think about what you want to do!!
Why do you think they have confession?
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We are both Catholics (me: Italian parents) though non practising nor believing. And we cannot deny the fact we were raised as Catholics. Could that partly be the cause of my 'holding back'?
Ripley, Don't hold back. Life is too short. Why do you think the Catholics invented confession? Enjoy your every desire.