I always thought it was DNA
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Originally Posted by
Declan
I have not been to Thailand in about 11 years. I am not interested anymore in young guy's. I am looking for older guys who do not work in the go go bars from about 35 up. Where would you meet these guys.
Thanks Declan
So people can change way into their adult life their sexual preferences? So people who say you are not born gay but it is a choice are right? Someone who has had gay sex from 16 till 50 can at age 50 turn hetero? Like you turned from liking younger males to liking older ones?
So strange for me sexual preference can change. I always thought it was DNA. Most human beings prefer bodies around 20 years old for sex. It is human nature. We have to like them else the species won't survive (well this goes more for hetero men, but we share a lot of DNA with hetero men). It is uncommon to prefer a 40 year old above a 20 year old.
I think you are the first human being ever, whose DNA mutated during his lifetime and not during conception. Please make yourself available to science.
Re: I always thought it was DNA
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Originally Posted by
AsDaRa
So people can change way into their adult life their sexual preferences? So people who say you are not born gay but it is a choice are right?
Someone who has had gay sex from 16 till 50 can at age 50 turn hetero? Like you turned from liking younger males to liking older ones?
So strange for me sexual preference can change. I always thought it was DNA. Most human beings prefer bodies around 20 years old for sex. It is human nature. We have to like them else the species won't survive (well this goes more for hetero men, but we share a lot of DNA with hetero men). It is uncommon to prefer a 40 year old above a 20 year old.
I think you are the first human being ever, whose DNA mutated during his lifetime and not during conception. Please make yourself available to science.
Please read about epigenetics.
You'll be surprised to learn that DNA and genes are not the end of the story. It is possible for the way a gene is expressed to change, without the gene itself changing. This is suspected to be the reason why out of a pair of identical twins; one might be gay and one might be straight. Identical genes; but slightly differently expressed.
And yes; the way a gene is expressed might change through life.
Re: I always thought it was DNA
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Originally Posted by
AsDaRa
So people can change way into their adult life their sexual preferences? So people who say you are not born gay but it is a choice are right? Someone who has had gay sex from 16 till 50 can at age 50 turn hetero? Like you turned from liking younger males to liking older ones?
I know these stories will upset your carefully nurtured view of a stable and unchanging world but here you go -
https://www.theguardian.com/world/20...under-proposal
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeands...hips-elf-lyons
- Gender is not binary - only male or female - nor even merely physical
- Sexuality is not binary - only heterosexual or homosexual
- Sex is often situational - at the extreme think prisons or boarding school. Was there much sodomy at your school by the way? I can remember playing "doctors and nurses" with the girl next door in my pre-teens (and how horribly disappointing that was when I found she had nothing to play with)
- As individuals progress through life they sometimes find new perspectives on themselves - social and sexual
The above is one of the many reasons why I abhor the current trend of "coming out". It sets a stake in the ground that assumes that ground won't shift from under you. The BBC recently broadcast two programmes about teenage boys coming out that I found poignantly sad. The "wholly gay" one (Ross) at one point posed the question (which he then ran away from at a million miles an hour) "Why am I coming out to my parents as gay when my brother never came out as heterosexual?". The bisexual one (Owen) had conversations with his peers who had previously "come out" as homosexual but subsequently found they were bisexual and felt they had to come out all over again. The bisexual's father's attitude seemed best - "I've been around the world, I've seen lots of things, nothing fazes me about sexuality" - and implied "why the fuck are you even telling me?"