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An obsession with Thai Money Boys
You know you are obsessed with Thai money boys when:
1) You check Sawatdeenetwork - GB - Others 3 to 4 times a day.
2) Your personal choice of wank bank material is usually a Thai boy.
3) You spend hours trawling the internet to find pictures of Thai boys in bikini briefs.
4) You can't help but compare money boys from every country you visit to those in Thailand. And Thailand is rarely if ever bested.
5) The words 'New go go bar opens' send you into a frenzy of lustful imagination.
None of the above applies to me. Cough cough.
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actually I'm simply hooked on money boys...dont really care about the colour or nationality. Priorities are that they have to be in good physical shape. Will swing from twinks to muscle boys to mature guys. Enjoy them simply because I have something they want...my money...actually get a kick when I know they dont like me and wish they were somewhere else.
Must admit that Thailand comes out tops but thats mainly due to sheer quantity and availability. Brazil is also great, but there is an element of danger and they are not as sub as the thais; another fav is small town america white trailer trash.
Dunno, am able to have very ordinary sex as in no money involved and the other guy just wants my dick...but i simply get a great kick out of paid sex. Actually all my holidays are planned around sex and even do my best to route my work trips via sex destinations.
So yeah..I have an obsession with MB.
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I don't know, I guess after Kim I went the total opposite direction. Now I have a guy who won't shut up about things like how it's stupid to pay for bottled water when they have a river at home, and keeps telling me how fun it is to forrage for things like bamboo and mushrooms instead of having to fork over money for food. :)
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Matt, the old saying applies:
"You can take the boy out of the country but you cannot take the country out of the boy." From my observations, it applies no matter which country you are in. :)
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Please. For once. Can we all stick to the fucking topic. THAI MONEY BOYS. Thank you.
Not that I'm obsessed in any way you understand. hehe
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I'm not obsessed with Thai MB per se; but I am obsessed with sex and the Thai guys just happen to satisfy that need.
But any Asian guy will do.
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Yraen
Matt, the old saying applies:
"You can take the boy out of the country but you cannot take the country out of the boy." From my observations, it applies no matter which country you are in. :)
Yep, and I wouldn't have it any other way in this case. He even lived in a temple for 7 years as a novice monk, because his parents couldn't figure out how to get along, so he's about as simple as they come. Good for me, because due to that I can trust my life in his hands like putty, as I don't really have a choice in the matter now since I'm blind. If he was a greedy money boy, he could have totally fucked me over by now, but not once to my knowleedge has done anything untowards.
There's definitely frustrations though. Try being blind and going grocery shopping with someone like him. Went twice now, and still haven't getten a full shopping trip in yet. I get too pissed off and frustrated, and decide it's best to get out of there before I do something stupid that lands me in a padded room with a strait jacket. Last time I didn't get manage to get cheese slices let alone tons of others things, because dumbass forgot the tablet, so I couldn't tell Google things like, "images for cheese sliuces".
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latintopxxx
actually I'm simply hooked on money boys...dont really care about the colour or nationality. Priorities are that they have to be in good physical shape. Will swing from twinks to muscle boys to mature guys. Enjoy them simply because I have something they want...my money...actually get a kick when I know they dont like me and wish they were somewhere else.
Must admit that Thailand comes out tops but thats mainly due to sheer quantity and availability. Brazil is also great, but there is an element of danger and they are not as sub as the thais; another fav is small town america white trailer trash.
Dunno, am able to have very ordinary sex as in no money involved and the other guy just wants my dick...but i simply get a great kick out of paid sex. Actually all my holidays are planned around sex and even do my best to route my work trips via sex destinations.
So yeah..I have an obsession with MB.
I want to try Brazil too. How do you prepare for that danger? What are your tips to prevent going with the wrong guy (I mean the guy who has bad intentions towards you; how you prevent dating one of these)?
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NEVER host if you live in an apartment block without a reception. I tend t stay either in hotels or if I'm staying for more than a week in apartments that have a reception, usually a sole guard. I always make a point of pointing out the security cameras in the entrance public areas so that the MB is very well aware that he is on camera.
I ask for his ID and photograph it and pretend to email it to a friend telling the MB that I have had issues before. I dont apologise to the MB I simply ask/demand his ID....let him know that I'm no fool, that I'm no cock struck tourist, that I'm in charge.
I make a point of befriending the guard, I dont hide my sexuality, even joke about my dates; make a point of greeting the guard when i enter with the MB so the MB knows that he has been observed.
Another very safe place is public toilets, Brazil is a great place for public sex, in some (not all) public toilets guys will engage in anything from hand jobs to full on anal, have spent many an hour participating or just standing around perving at the goings on. Lots of clubs have areas where sex is almost mandatory; sometimes they ask for cash, usually small tips.
Most dangerous times are when cruising the streets at night on foot looking for MB, keep away from unlit areas.
Brazilians are hot tempered and quick to anger so I gotta be a lot more careful when I bargain them down, but I love the element of danger. Had a situation where I met an 18 year old at a bar, we fooled around for a while in the back area and he agreed to come back to my place for 2 hours. However when photographing his ID he turned out to be 24, so I negotiated a dscount, MB didnt want to leave as he had already invested more than an hour in me so he agreed, but I could notice that he was not happy, kept saying that his age didnt matter because the sex was still good. But I insisted and told him either take it or leave it, took it but was trembling with anger and then got really angry when during the act I kept calling him cheap arse....
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Most dangerous times are when cruising the streets at night on foot looking for MB, keep away from unlit areas.
Gawd! Who woulda thunk?
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Brazilians are hot tempered and quick to anger...
Yep. And I bet the blacker they are the better they can dance. And the bigger the cock.
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sorry to burst your bubble...colour has nothing to do with it...in brazil big dicks come in all colours. As for the unlit areas just felt I had to point that out as Brazil is a very intoxicating place and its so easy to start off in a well lit area and then be lured into an unlit side alley. Great cheap sex is available in Brazil but its definitely not as easy or as safe as in Thailand.
In Sap Paulo there is a street called " Frei Caneca" commonly known as gay caneca. Its a very gay neighbourhood and its almost impossible to walk down the road withoiut getting cruised. Lots of cheap hotels in the neighbourhood. Shopping centre on same street is so cruisy that its almost impossible to actually take a piss in the toilets such is the level of activity in there.
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Also in salvador in brazil, is amazing for picking guys up.
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latintopxxx
sorry to burst your bubble...colour has nothing to do with it...in brazil big dicks come in all colours. As for the unlit areas just felt I had to point that out as Brazil is a very intoxicating place and its so easy to start off in a well lit area and then be lured into an unlit side alley. Great cheap sex is available in Brazil but its definitely not as easy or as safe as in Thailand.
In Sap Paulo there is a street called " Frei Caneca" commonly known as gay caneca. Its a very gay neighbourhood and its almost impossible to walk down the road withoiut getting cruised. Lots of cheap hotels in the neighbourhood. Shopping centre on same street is so cruisy that its almost impossible to actually take a piss in the toilets such is the level of activity in there.
The way you describe it makes me want to go see Brazil. Never been in South America. I will remember your safety tips. I like the idea of copying the ID card and pretending to mail it. This way the guy knows that if he does something to me, my friend will know who I was with last and that he will be the prime suspect. And it is a good excuse to tell him "I need to do this, because I was robbed a few years ago and since then I take this precaution". Very believable and easy safety tip which will work.
I assume that this highly visible gay activity, even in toilets, this is from the lower classes? I assume the middle class and higher up they are more discrete? The lower classes also need the cash more, so they will approach you sooner. In Thailand I have the idea that the lower classes are as well mannered and behaved and as socially conservative as the middle class is. But in Brazil I think the culture gap/behavorial gap between lower class and middle class is much wider. I just can't believe the son of the local phycisian having visible sex in a toilet with a gay man from Europe.
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Not so sure about the whole lower class thing, in public cruising areas everyone tends to dress down as not to attract attention from muggers, in most parts of Brazil especially the coast from Rio northwards its warm to stinking hot year round so casual clothes are almost a must.
Cruisy shopping malls/public toilets are busy all the time, peak flow depends on location, city center ones especially busy during lunch time , ones on school/uni have huge influxes of young guys at various times depending on opening/closing times.
Cheap paid sex in North east brazil is easy and whilst not as safe as in Thailand is a lot safer than Sao Paulo or Rio.Last time I was in Recife I picked up a lean twenty year old off a beach, looked like he lived here.
There was a group hanging around the public toilets all looking a bit feral.
Was staying in an aparthotel and agreed on EURO100 for 3 days (friday to Monday morning) next thing he dissapeared for about 30 min and showed up with a huge bag of washing that he needed to do. LOL.
Anyway he was perfect, did as he was told, eager to please performed very well in the sack, and no humiliation was to great. I didnt even have to buy him a meal, simply let him have my leftovers which he would devour in a few seconds. Nothing like a hungry young guy in need of cash. Only ended up paying him EURO 80 as I had to deduct some because he dissapointed me in some areas.
Only wish my work took me to South America more often.
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Oh, dear. The story was going so well until this :
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simply let him have my leftovers which he would devour in a few seconds.
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oh relax a447....its only part of the game...letting the " boy" know who' s in charge....like he has to ask my permission every time he wants a drink (can't have him raiding my fridge at will) or use the toilet. I pay so I'm in charge. Simple and its something they understand. U should try it one day. Major boner. and btw i do award little bonuses if he pleases me....its not totally a one way street.
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a447
Oh, dear. The story was going so well until this :
With tales of his bit of rent bringing his washing round and eating the leftovers from Latinotop's plate, I think he's getting mixed up between the boy and a certain member of this forum.
If he'd said the visitor also purloined the toilet roll and left a pre-prepared empty carboard core in its place - that would be the clincher !!
:lol:
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latintopxxx
. I didnt even have to buy him a meal, simply let him have my leftovers which he would devour in a few seconds. Nothing like a hungry young guy in need of cash. Only ended up paying him EURO 80 as I had to deduct some because he dissapointed me in some areas.
Oh,oh, did he forget to toss the salad for you?, latinotop?
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relax froggy...he not only tossed mine but his too upon my insistence. Anyway never fear...he got well used and I certainly got my money's worth. This was one of the few times I rented for more than a day, I've had house guests stay for weeks....but on holiday I really prefer to sample something new every day/several times a day too.
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...and since we have kinda veered slightly off topic...guess yes I am obsessed with MB, only reason I visit Thailand is for the sex...love the availability...the low cost....the huge variety.... if sex was as costly as back home then I woudnt bother...would switch to other locations.
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Some people are such a jerks it makes me feel sorry for the boys being involved with them.
Disgusted reading the above story to say the least.
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I agree..there are ONE or TWO in this forum who are obviously "low class men", who use and degrade the working boys..SAD
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Personally I am hoping that if enough members get fed up with Latin and approach Surfcrest with PMs that maybe he'll be banned. He brings this board down to a schoolboy reading a porno mag level. Is that what we want?
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arsenal
Personally I am hoping that if enough members get fed up with Latin and approach Surfcrest with PMs that maybe he'll be banned. He brings this board down to a schoolboy reading a porno mag level. Is that what we want?
The owners need eyeballs on site to justify its existence. Dropping someone who's a lively contributor won't help that. What are you aiming for - a core membership of active posters numbering not more than 10? I think we're already there.
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Lively contributor? Is that how you'd describe the endless trite? Read the posts he writes. A tiny percentage away from a confession to rape, that's what they are.
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Rape...really !!!
I've heard of people making mountains out of mole hills...but arsenal u really do take the cake. I always engage adults, no force is used, I negotiate price and activities before hand; and if and when they fail to deliver then I renegotiate.
And who r u to throw stones?? Vast majority of the world believes that gays are,not quite right.... to put it mildly, so who r u to judge.
I can assure u that the MB are used to being used....not everyone wants to treat then like equals and make tender love....some of us just wanna have a good shag and act out our fantasies be they self generated or porn induced.
I've been to some japanese organised parties that make my dates look very ....vey....vanilla.
Board members can have differing opinions but there is no need to make silly comments.
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Sexual deviant Latin: Either you do behave as you say in which case I maintain that your behaviour is as I have said. Or you don't in which case why write it. Either way you are the bottom feeding dung beetle of the Kalahari that is SGT.
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The "consenting adults" defence to treating folk like shit doesnt entirely wash with me.
Suppose you had a sexually deviant husband whose wife was totally financially dependent on him and by virtue of that financial dependence she was (I wont say forced)... obliged to perform sexual acts which were humiliating and degrading because she had little alternative as the husband's outlook was "it's my way or the highway"
Technically she's a consenting adult but what would the Courts call that?
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That doesn't wash. The boys are not "totally financially dependent" on latintopxxx and I don't recall reading that he locks the door and won't let them depart until they have performed vile acts of depravity with him. Hell, I don't even think he's "sexually deviant".
I do know what arsenal is, however.
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And what is that then frequent? Perhaps you enjoy reading this kind of stuff. There are probably websites (maybe hidden on the dark web) where you can view it to your hearts content. Ask Sexual deviant latin. I'm sure he can tell you.
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There are occasions when some of the guys we meet are anxious....basic things like paying the rent and even getting a decent meal can be difficult . Then there are medical expenses and the demands of parents back home that can be very troubling to a well-brought-up young man.
My concern is that in such circumstance, rare though they may be, the guys are persuaded to engage in unsafe sex as well as demeaning acts. A bad decision following a tearful message from Mama can have devastating consequences. And remember that some eighteen year-olds from the country are not very worldly-wise.
Nevertheless, Latin's fantasies (for that's what they appear to be), are a warning to us all to continue to act appropriately in our dealings with these guys. And from what I know from my boyfriend and others the vast majority of us do so.
What I find more disturbing about such fantasies of dominance, sadism and violence is that they are essential fascist. If you seek out Pasolini's "Salo" on the web (banned when it was released and even more notorious when Pasolini was murdered by a male escort, probably under government orders) and can endure its horrors, you'll see what I mean.
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arsenal stop being silly...u must be a tree hugging cardigan wearing vegan. So I like to play with my MB a little...no harm done. I've even had MB come back for 2nd dates. U really mustnt confuse love and friendship with paid sex. I have friends...lots actually...have regular fuck buddies too, but that only satisfies part of the need. Sex to me is not only a physical thing...its psychological too...the mind is the most potent tool when it comes to sex.
I revel in the freedom afforded to me when i engage a MB and the only thing that matters is me...my pleasure only...my needs...and I can drop the polite facade that we put on to deal with society in general.
How many times at work have u wished u could really express what you think but have to bite your tongue and phrase your response in such a way that " feelings" and " face" is not damaged.
Some people are into pain, whips, dildos, dressing up. Some like to be humiliated, role playing...masters/slaves...whatever. My kink is simply an extension of that....in my opinion a MB really has no dignity left, he's available to just about anybody who is willing to pay.
Sure my expectations may be a little high in that when i rent one for 3 hours i expect him as a profesional to be able to take the pace and if he doesnt then take a cut like anyone would if a job is not completed. Maybe u feel uncomfortable with the fact that I enjoy their discomfort in negotiating a discount for their services, that i will paw their body and complain that arse sags so I want a discount or whatever...its a game to me...makes me feel good...its my pleasure that counts. He's just doing his job. Or do you really think that the smile behind the mc donalds counter is real???
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Latins posts remind me of the guy in Mysterious Skin. The one who forces the rentboy to take drugs, rapes him and then smacks him round the face with a spanner. (He's the customer don't you know) His posts are so far away from every single other member here that I simply don't know how he remains.
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frequent
That doesn't wash. The boys are not "totally financially dependent" on latintopxxx and I don't recall reading that he locks the door and won't let them depart until they have performed vile acts of depravity with him. Hell, I don't even think he's "sexually deviant"..
1. At that moment in time I'd suggest the boy IS financially dependent - he is prostituting himself to fund his accomodation/food/life.
2. I never said LatintopXXX locked the door - but if the boy does not acquiesce in the humiliation/degredation and perform to LatintopXXX's entire satisfaction there is a penalty and he has been very open about that
3. If you do not think that LatintopXXX's peccadilloes are deviant (the infliction of maximum degradation and humiliation, the "riding like a pony", the verbal abuse "your arse is loose like an old woman", the throwing of the money on the floor) then you have a very strange idea of what average people get up to (clue: it ain't THAT)
The other thing I would say is that I'm increasingly sceptical of what LatintopXXX is telling us of his encounters. We all know the boys talk - there is no way his deviancy would not be talked about amongst themselves and his "business" avoided
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Latin is clearly a sexual deviant and he uses this board to further his fantasies. It's not the right place for them. There are websites dedicated to that kind of thing and that's where he and his drivel belong. Or as frequent calls it "lively."
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scotty and arseenal
Sometimes I really do feel like throwing my arms in the air and simply giving up. I simply want what was agreed. Example: not long ago...in fact less than a month ago i took in a boarder...english language student, from SE asia, money is tight, he's studying and working 2 part time jobs. lets call him BOY.
So i do BOY a major favour. Can stay in my spare fully furnished bedroom, full use of the apartment, all utilities free, can even help himself to the beer fridge.
In exchange he's mine for one hour a day. Thats right, he's mine to do as I please for one hour a day. Thats what we verbally agreed.
I even have a cleaner...so there are no house duties. Can even get his shirts ironed free if he hangs them out in the laundry room.
immediately we ran into issues, BOY doesnt like sucking my arse...something I love...so I told him to pack his shit and leave...his lips were on my rear lips so fast even I was surprised....he also doesnt like drinking my cum...now he loves it.
A week later a buddy of mine was over at my place for a beer, took a liking to BOY...so I told BOY I needed to collect my rent...problem..in his silly little mind we were like exclusive...again message was pack your shit and leave or service my buddy....he assumed the position.
He's free to leave...even has a key to the place...not like I'm home all day.
But like a month later he's still here...
Sure I love pushing the boundaries...see what I can get away with...like I msg him during classes and he has to meet me in the college toilets to get fucked...because I want my hour NOW. Didnt specify when the hour would be...his schedule is of no importance to me.
Arsenal..u call me a deviant...I think Im all good. Get my inspiration from sites like sketchy sex and machofucker and timtales.
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BTW I dont fuck everyday...some days Im just not in the mood or Im tired or whatever...on those days I get BOY to dance gogo style for me and jerk off. I tried to get a credit system going where I could accumulate unused hours but he argued that this is not what we agreed. Clever bastard.
And in case u r wondering this is not the 1st "boarder" I have had.
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My big question is, latin, I'm assuming you made him eat the leftovers off your ass cheeks, correct? Youdidn't actually give him the luxury of a plate, did you?
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...now u r simply being silly...
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I'm amazed that Latintop cant see that he's being abusive.
I fully understand that BOY agreed an hour of sexual contact a day in return for accomodation etc.
Perhaps if you'd mentioned that would include sucking your arsehole (how utterly fucking revolting by the way), gobbling down your semen, and making him do those things in front of an audience - he might not have agreed? Ya think?
He has told you he doesn't like those things but YOU have decided that these activities are required and mandatory in order to keep his room - or you'll throw him out on the spot (no talk of time to find alternative accom).
And Frequentflyer defends/supports this?