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A Question For Tourists
This is pure inquisitiveness. When you're on holiday in LoS, do you off a boy every night? Or meet someone on one of the apps? I don't know if I have a particularly low sex drive, but it doesn't bother me going 'home' alone after a night out. I'll have sat in a bar with a boy for company, buying drinks as appropriate, but I don't always off him. It's not a question of money. I just don't feel like sex. Am I odd? I know what NIrish will say!!!
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joe552
I just don't feel like sex. Am I odd? I know what NIrish will say!!!
He will agree with you!
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When I started going Thailand in 2014 I could easily do sex 2 times a day. And cum every time. Every day of my holiday. (About 1 week long).
Now 5 years later I can't do it anymore. I am thinking about Viagra. This last holiday I had a boy over every day, but didn't cum every day. The problem is that it can also be psychological ("between the ears"). Because if you have the bad luck that is happens ones to you that you can't get hard enough during a short time, the next time it is always in your mind: "I hope I can get hard enough for fucking". And having that thought can lead to feeling anxious and causing the penis not to become rock hard. So a vicious circle.
For fucking my cock needs to be rock hard and this I notice the last 2 holidays becomes problematic to have this every single day. Let alone 2 times a day. At the start of the holiday I am super horny. First day during my last holiday I had 3 boys. All 3 times I came. But after that successful first day it slowly goes down.
So I am now seriously thinking about Viagra. Or does anyone of you have some tip/trick to become rock hard easily twice a day?
Also if you are bottom it doesnt really matter if you can't get rock hard. But I am top.
Also during short time there is more pressure. You just can't take up lot of time trying to get hard.
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AsDaRa
Now 5 years later I can't do it anymore. I am thinking about Viagra. This last holiday I had a boy over every day, but didn't cum every day.
Welcome to the world of the senior citizen!
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gerefan2
Welcome to the world of the senior citizen!
I am 47. Too young for this. Are there tips? Else I go Viagra.
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Get an appointment with an urologist ASAP, who is in a better position to clean your pipes and clear up that area between the ears.
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dinagam
Get an appointment with an urologist ASAP, who is in a better position to clean your pipes and clear up that area between the ears.
digital (finger) prostrate exam isn't nearly as fun as it sounds...
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When I first discovered Pattaya 20 years ago I was like a kid in a sweet shop - I was a top with a high sex drive. During the three weeks of my first visit I had sex with maybe 20 + boys from the bars and gogos in BT and Sunee. Stupidly I mostly dispensed with condoms and even repeated this practice during subsequent visits in the next two years. I got away with it - no STD or HIV. I did change my behaviour and commenced safer condom sex, but cumming was much harder, whereas before 3 times a night was routine.
Also with the passage of years my drive reduced and I commenced taking viagra and it’s generics. These worked by improving my erection but the sex was less enjoyable and cumming harder, and about 8 years ago I started tentatively being bottom and now I am 100%, with no need for chemical assistance.
I would say that it’s important not to get hung up about your erection - relax in bed with your boy and enjoy body to body contact without the need to rush to anal sex. Restrict your consumption of alcohol and take some excercise. Don’t rush around trying to off every boy in town.
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I don't do anal sex - give or take. Purely a personal preference. I like to 'samoke' a boy and kiss. So being hard is not a big deal for me. My question wasn't really about the physical aspect of sex. More about desire.
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Some interesting posts on this thread, before you do anything take a simple blood test and check your testosterone level.
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joe552
I don't do anal sex - give or take. Purely a personal preference. I like to 'samoke' a boy and kiss. So being hard is not a big deal for me. My question wasn't really about the physical aspect of sex. More about desire.
The desire is there with me a lot. In Thailand with so many nice boys, I want sex as often as possible.
Only lately, certainly nearing end of trip, I dont get hard or hard enough anymore. Not even once a day. It is the pressure of short time (your time is restricted) and also the fact this has happened before you now think about it and psychological factors come into play. I had wished to receive some tips (besides Viagra).
There is no technical problem with me, because the first day of the trip I get hard in no time and even 3 times cuming that day is no issue. So with me the problem is non-technical. Somehow my body needs more time now to recover from sex. I dont need a urologist, but a psychiatrist or some tips from forum members.
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Daveuk
These worked by improving my erection but the sex was less enjoyable and cumming harder
I am thinking now also about going the Viagra route, but I not understand how the sex is then less enjoyable. Can you please elaborate.
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I just don't feel like sex. Am I odd?
No, not odd. Just different.
AsDaRa, if you can't get it up 3 times a day at age 47, I think there is more than just a psychological problem.
As for a way around the anxiety regarding whether or not you'll be able to get hard, there's an easy solution. Find a guy you are really attracted to and off him every night (and every day, too!). You will quickly get to know each other really well and what each of you expects in bed. You will soon be totally relaxed with each other and the pressure will be off both of you. If you are really sexuallly attracted to him, nature will take over.
In Bangkok I have a regular guy who I see every afternoon. I've done so for years and the sex is perfect. At night I off someone else from his bar or sometimes go to Screwboys or some other bar. That's when I get a bit anxious, as I don't know the guy and am not sure how things are going to turn out. But I can still get it up, as the desire is definitely there. But twice a day is enough when on holiday. I don't have sex twice a day at home.
I became a bottom a few years ago so now I'm versatile. Should (when?) the day comes when I can no longer get it up and be a top, I certainly don't be turning to Viagra - I will just become a bottom. Problem solved.
I think the desire will always be there.
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Make an appointment at Bangkok Hospital with a Urologist. They will give you an assessment and provide you with detailed explanations of what is going on and your options. If it is a Viagra like drug they are very cheap in Thailand. If you are in USA and want to try Viagra with out having to talk face to face with an MD try GetRoman.com they are a legitimate online supplier that will do a medical interview with MD and then ship directly to you discretely. Be warned Viagra is very expensive.
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a447
No, not odd. Just different.
AsDaRa, if you can't get it up 3 times a day at age 47, I think there is more than just a psychological problem.
Well it is psychological because on the first day I had 3 times sex and came 3 times. There is no technical issue thus to get it up 3 times. How you explain this? Looks to me that technically all is working fine. But after one week of daily sex I can't. Well not in a 5 minute time frame. I think if you take a lot of time (which you have during long time) it will happen. But I do not do long time.
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joe552
This is pure inquisitiveness. When you're on holiday in LoS, do you off a boy every night?
I have longer holidays of several months. Now over 50, I don't off a boy every day. When in Pattaya and Bangkok, I off at least 2/3rds of the days, but this can be much lower when travelling around elsewhere.
Hypothetically, if I did just a 2 week holiday, I would probably spend the whole lot in Bangkok & Pattaya, with a boy every day, although performance at the end would not be as good as at the start.
As for ideas about getting testosterone checked, that is merely diagnosis. Fixing it would be another matter.
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AsDaRa, you mentioned a 5 minute time frame. That's surely taking short time to new limits? Short time to me is around an hour.
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Short time period is one hour or more.
However, speedy Gonzalez could be spraying the bullets after just five minutes.
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After many LOS vacations the novelty wears off. Don't worry about it, just relax and enjoy!
Viagra will help with performance anxiety.
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joe552
AsDaRa, you mentioned a 5 minute time frame. That's surely taking short time to new limits? Short time to me is around an hour.
I should have been more elaborate. Yes I know short time is around 1 hour, but kissing for 30 minutes to get hard is weird. I don't even have the patience for that. Take giving blow jobs. In porn movies it can take 15 minutes. To be frank a few minutes blowing a boy and I have had it. It gets boring quickly (for me). Receiving a blow job is a different story.
So when I do short time and I want to go to the fuck phase I need to get hard quick. Giving a blow job focuses my mind on giving the boy a nice good blowjob, it doesn't harden my cock. Being fucked (those few instances where I bottom) doesn't harden my cock also. Kissing a boy and feeling a boy's body hardens my cock. But on day 4 of the holiday after quite some sex the previous days I dont get hard anymore (or better rock hard: the type of hardness needed for fucking) from a 2 minute kiss. I need more time. 3/4 hardness is no problem, but rock hardness becomes the problem.
So when I want to go to the fuck phase and I just finished blowing a boy (which doesnt harden my cock) I need to get ROCK hard in 5 minutes or so for the fucking to start. Why 5 minutes: Because I do not have the patience to go then hugging and kissing for 30 minutes in a row. While nice, it also gets boring after a while.
Now its my turn to ask if I am weird: Your guys really not get bored giving 30 minutes blow jobs in a row and kissing for 30 minutes in a row? Am I werid to enjoy these acitivaties only for a few minutes?
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NitNoi
After many LOS vacations the novelty wears off.
I think this plays a role also. Don't forget we belong to the 0.1% of humanity that has had more than 100 sex partners.
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I don’t know if you drink alcohol but most people when they are on holiday drink far far more than they do at home. There will be a cumulative effect.
Think ED and see a doctor as suggested above. He will have heard it all before and may be able to give you a simple answer. Why are you so against it?
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gerefan2
I don’t know if you drink alcohol but most people when they are on holiday drink far far more than they do at home. There will be a cumulative effect.
Think ED and see a doctor as suggested above. He will have heard it all before and may be able to give you a simple answer. Why are you so against it?
Because it is no technical issue. I would go to a doctor IMMEDIATELY if I couldnt get hard at all. The fact that on my last holiday the first day I had sex 3 times resulting all 3 times in cuming tells me the issue isn't mechnical. I had sex resulting in cuming some later days that holiday also. Why go to a doctor then? He will laugh at me when I complain: "I want twice sex every day and cum also twice every day and can only do it 1 time every day". If he doesn't laugh he will send me to a psychologist because clearly there isn't a technical problem.
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You say post #3 that something has changed. Get it checked early....you never know. It could be the signs of things to come.
Leaving it until you can’t get hard at all is just silly.
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When I came for holiday, I made plans to have one boy in the evening and another in the morning, but those plans rarely worked out and I got only one boy per day.
Now I spend most of my time in Thailand, and when I do a night of bar hopping (between 3 and 5 gogo bars) and don't see a clear hit, I leave it at that and go home alone. I know I have another night the following day, or can come back in a few weeks.
When I first came to Thailand at age 29, I got hard from a glimpse through the open door in X-Boys Bangkok. Now at 38 it takes a bit of foreplay to get hard (but if the boy is fatter or hairier than I like, I don't get hard at all).
Viagra, or rather the Thai generic Sidegra, helped me a lot to speed up that process, and stay harder for longer. https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/20...a-sidegra.html
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christianpfc
When I came for holiday, I made plans to have one boy in the evening and another in the morning, but those plans rarely worked out and I got only one boy per day.
Now I spend most of my time in Thailand, and when I do a night of bar hopping (between 3 and 5 gogo bars) and don't see a clear hit, I leave it at that and go home alone. I know I have another night the following day, or can come back in a few weeks.
When I first came to Thailand at age 29, I got hard from a glimpse through the open door in X-Boys Bangkok. Now at 38 it takes a bit of foreplay to get hard (but if the boy is fatter or hairier than I like, I don't get hard at all).
Viagra, or rather the Thai generic Sidegra, helped me a lot to speed up that process, and stay harder for longer.
https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/20...a-sidegra.html
Thanks. Also good remark about the difference when you live there and when you are on holiday. I feel the pressure that it has to happen now because there is no next week. Next week I am home again. That is why I want 2 times every day. And cum 2 times every day. Which at 47 now is less easy than at 42 when I first went to Thailand. And if it happens once to you, it stays in your mind and each short time I have in the back of my mind "I hope I can get hard for fucking". This adds psychological pressure which maybe so contributes that sometimes now it not gets rock hard. So it's psychological.
I am thinking about Viagra also. But someone made a remark above and said the sex is less good then. Why is that ?
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joe552
I don't do anal sex - give or take. Purely a personal preference. I like to 'samoke' a boy and kiss. So being hard is not a big deal for me. My question wasn't really about the physical aspect of sex. More about desire.
Yes it happens to me as well ,only if I meet stunning boy with a good chemistry between us I would take him to my room sometimes it leeds from ST to LT sometimes all my trip with the same boy, So there are many nights I don't find the right boy and come back alone to my hotel. It's not a bid deal for me I am not a sex addict.
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BOY69
... I am not a sex addict.
What the heck are you doing on this board then? :eek:
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"I am thinking about Viagra also. But someone made a remark above and said the sex is less good then. Why is that ?"
From conversations with boys and girls, the client bangs away too long. While Viagra etc gets you hard, it doesn't help with libido.
From experience, the result can be less satisfying :-(
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Regarding blow jobs, I couldn't care less if I never suck a cock for the rest of my life. Them sucking me is where the pleasure is. I only suck as some reciprocation might just keep him more aroused.
As for Viagra (more sensibly, Sidegra), if you have had too much sex, this helps to still get it hard but if you're taking a long time to come after 2 weeks of regular sex, I heard it does absolutely nothing to help that. Well, that's what they tell me.....
Whilst we are on the subject, I am amazed that apparently educated western tourists will just splash out 300 baht for a box of obviously fake Viagra on the beach. Such a poor fake, the box is visibly different when viewed at distance.
Meanwhile, they could buy a box of 4 x 50mg Sidegra from a pharmacy in Sukhumvit for 100 baht. Or less than 200 in Pattaya.
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I have never used viagra (or sidegra) but is a doctor appointment needed first? Or I just can buy it, without first consulting a doctor?
Following questions:
1) And how does it work? I mean how many hours (or minutes?) before the sex I have to take it in?
2) How long does the erection last? I assume after x minutes it will go away again or you will have a hard on for 1 hour in a row?
3) And can you just stop using it, or if you start using it you need to take at least ones a week such a pill? I mean with antibiotic you also can't just stop, you need to continue for a certain amount of time.
4) Is there a danger involved? I mean under which health circumstances better not to take it?
So what are all the rules regarding viagra/sidegra?
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1/ depends on what you eat just before/after taking pill. Normally pill starts to work in about 30 min (for Cialis generics) or in 60 min (for Viagra's generics). Exists special versions of the pills (usage: by placing into mouth under the tonque) they start to work twice more quickly. Also exists gel, it starts to works even more quickly.
2/ erection: you will not have erection with pills until time when you will have "object" in front of you. You need to see or to imagine for erection. Pills aren't "switch of erection" - pills are the pump for blood - for to fill penis by blood. Generics of Viagra work 12-16 hours, Generics of Cialis work about 24-30 hours.
3/ Dosage. You can use normal dose (50mg/100mg pills for Viagra, 10mg/20mg for Cialis) at day when you want your "adventure" or use small portion daily ( 5mg for Cialis, 25 mg for Viagra). Depends on how often you need effect, logically: if you want "adventures" 4-5 days in week, then better to take small-dosage-pills daily, if you want it once a week - take big dose at THAT day then).
4/ some, yes... Viagra/Cialis are incompatible with some other drugs, so check instruction before to use. Also they are incompatible with poppers - high risk to die because of low blood pressure.
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Moses
1/ depends on what you eat just before/after taking pill. Normally pill starts to work in about 30 min (for Cialis generics) or in 60 min (for Viagra's generics). Exists special versions of the pills (usage: by placing into mouth under the tonque) they start to work twice more quickly. Also exists gel, it starts to works even more quickly.
2/ erection: you will not have erection with pills until time when you will have "object" in front of you. You need to see or to imagine for erection. Pills aren't "switch of erection" - pills are the pump for blood - for to fill penis by blood. Generics of Viagra work 12-16 hours, Generics of Cialis work about 24-30 hours.
3/ Dosage. You can use normal dose (50mg/100mg pills for Viagra, 10mg/20mg for Cialis) at day when you want your "adventure" or use small portion daily ( 5mg for Cialis, 25 mg for Viagra). Depends on how often you need effect, logically: if you want "adventures" 4-5 days in week, then better to take small-dosage-pills daily, if you want it once a week - take big dose at THAT day then).
4/ some, yes... Viagra/Cialis are incompatible with some other drugs, so check instruction before to use. Also they are incompatible with poppers - high risk to die because of low blood pressure.
Thanks a lot.
Ok so I can take it in a few hours before I plan to have sex (say I take it start of bar tour) and then when I have the boy in my room the blood will flow easier to the penis. If I take the version of the pill which last 24 hours then I can even 10 hours later - on the same pill - have again an easy erection when a boy is with me?
I understand this correctly? So 1 pill (if it is such a long lasting one) can be used for more than 1 time sex.
Also I dont understand why for once a week you need big dosage and for every day sex small dosage. If small dosage is already enough for getting easy erection if you want sex every day, then why for once a week sex you need a far bigger dose? (If a pill were to last say 2 days and you want daily sex then I can understand you do half a dose each day, and a higher dose for less frequency, but since max working hours of pill is 24 hrs then I not see why for each day sex you need far less dosage.)
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yes, 1 pill = up to few actions within 12-24 hours
about daily pills: pill isn't like electrical switch on/off... when you got it to stomach is starts to delivery main component to blood (sildenafil or tadalafil - depends on what you took Viagra or Cialis)... you will get erection when concentration of component will be high enough for to "pump blood to penis" and you will see your "object"... you need 2 conditions...
BUT at the same time when component starts to circulate in blood, our kidneys and liver start to filter it from blood as not native component for our body... so big-dose-tablet delivers component not like "one time delivery" but like long lasting process for to keep concentration high enough for 12-24 hours... small-dose tablets what you take daily works on the same way - they keep concentration of component high enough but during whole week, but you should take in attention what you will get correct level of component in blood after second or even after third day... sorry, my English isn't good enough for precise explanation, so I use some "allegories" and simplifications...
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As far as I know, in Europe Viagra is sold only on prescription. In Thailand you can get it over the counter, no questions asked, multiple personal experience. For your other questions, read the information that comes with the box.
I started with 25 mg (a 100 split into 4), and had a good effect. Prices vary from 180 to 600 THB for 4x100 mg, see link to my blog in my last post here.
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oh, it worth to mention side-effects, most common are headache and colors shifting to blue end of the color specter - normal white you will see like light blue and light yellow like white... panadol will help against headache and sight shifting will stop when concentration of component in blood will be low...
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Moses
oh, it worth to mention side-effects, most common are headache and colors shifting to blue end of the color specter -...
Oh and in case you're prone to it it also it known to cause bloody annoying nasal congestion / sinsus problems ( as the same blood that's being made flow easier to your penis is will also be flowing easier to your nasal passages then too - so you may need to take a decongestion spray or steriod spray even to help with that - but NOT for longer than 7 days otherwise you risk settting off a chain reaction of nasal drip which can go on for ages / years even and that be a real pain ! ( as I know from sore experience)
Bottom line assuming that you're not taking viagra or it variants like sweets i.e every 1/ 2 / 3 / 4 hours etc every day then you're ( probably) not going to die from taking that ( yes yes I KNOW you "could" from heart issues and all sorts etc etc......but lets face it, in the bigger scheme of things "probably not".
Everyone seems to find what works for them in their own time just. Some people take one and that does them a while and then they take another. Other greedy people if on a shaggfest DO tend to take them like smarties and perhaps even too much ( especially if they're drinking and had forgetten when they last their took one and so take another just "to be sure" ( ha and then thinking FUCK did I just take on a minute ago ! lol .......I'm betting you know which camp I'm falling into here and I'm still here ! :)
Anyway my point is, dont over think it, pop one an hour or two before you want to shag, have a shag or two - and if HOURS ( like 6 / 7 hours ) later you want another one, fuck it, take it and if you get a sore head ( you probably will) take a paracetamol. All no big deal and you'll probably not come to any harm and you'll soon find what suits YOURSELF best re timings etc - there's no "right way", just suit yourself, ( well there probably IS a right way of course but fuck that who ever reads the labels on medicines - oh ok, so that just me then - ok ! :)
Oh but as Moses said - one thing - DO NOT take poppers when taking vigara - some people do but its very foolish - it lowers your blood pressure and the viagra also in effect is doing the same so you run a very resonable risk of collasping and not waking up again - so certainly eat away at them ( within reason) and without worrying too much - but make "but take no poppers with them " a golden dont ever break" rule maybe.
ENJOY :-)
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NIrish, if only we had people on the forum with personal experience they could share.
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I read it all in National Geographic ! Great magazines those, they cover SO many interesting topics I find ..... :-)
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You can buy Kamagra the Indian version of Viagra, in gel form, for 800 Baht/50 packets = 16 Baht per dose. Works great within 30 t0 45 minutes.