Who here is truly monogamous?
I'm curious, how many here in a relationship are truly monogamous? My apologies if I'm wrong, but it seems many gay individuals can't and/or don't want to keep their dicks to one partner. Many seem to want a partner, but only as long as they can have friends with benefits on the side. I've never quite understood that, as in my mind, it diminishes the entire relationship, and the entire reason of being together.
So anyway, I'm curious, who here is truly monogamous?
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Originally Posted by cdnmatt
So anyway, I'm curious, who here is truly monogamous?
Why not start out by telling the truth about your status? Many posters ask personal questions of others but don't reveal their own preferences. So Matt, are you truly monogamous?
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So Matt, are you truly monogamous?
100%, and I wouldn't dream of cheating on him. I'm about 98% certain he doesn't cheat on me as well.
I've been thinking about this lately. I've had a horrible month, and due to everything going wrong that could go wrong, I lost about 18 months of work. That hurt, badly. It also kicked me into gear, forced me to leave my comfort zone, and take risks again. I don't know, and maybe I'm just weak, but I couldn't imagine going at this life alone. Especially when you're an entrepreneur. All that uncertainty, all those risks, people constantly clawing at you like vultures trying to get something from you, and so on.
I need someone to share this journey called life with. I need to know that no matter what happens, everything will be ok, because every night there's always going to be that same person here to give me a hug, to cook dinner with, to sleep beside, to help take care of our dogs, or pay our bills, or go shopping with. Let's me turn myself off from all the bullshit life offers, and I need that to stay strong.
So why would I risk throwing all that away, just to have sex with someone I barely know? Not to mention, do you think we'd ever had great, passionate sex like usual, if either of us knew we were cheating on the other? Never.
That's love for ya.
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I've had a horrible month, and due to everything going wrong that could go wrong, I lost about 18 months of work. That hurt, badly. I'm just weak. All that uncertainty, all those risks, people constantly clawing at you like vultures trying to get something from you, and so on.
And that's also why I don't understand a good portion of the gay community. You seem to be completely missing out on what life offers, and what matters.
Since you admit your life is a nightmare, your rotten karma catching up with you no doubt, then why do you preach to others how to live? Do you honestly believe that any sane person would want to be in your shoes after all the crap you have brought up in your posts, once even telling us that your lovely boyfriend would castrate you if he caught you with another boy?
Why is it that the biggest dipshit fucksticks want to tell others what they are missing out on and how to live their lives?
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I agree with the comments of Thai Dyed above.
OP would you kindly try not to preach to others just because you are in a what you claim to be a monogamous relationship plus you appear to be slightly delusional as well. In my opinion much of of the excitement of the "gay scene"is being able to have a choice of multiple sex partners and the excitement of a new one often.
Monogomy et al is a concept from the straight world etc., and must be very boring.
Whatever the state of your business or work just remember that you are a walking ATM for your current Thai who is suckering you for all you are worth so you had better make sure that the rice bowl you provide to the Thai and the rest of his leeches is not empty.
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While I am in a relationship, it is an open one.
I get to play with other boys and he gets to play with girls. Just that nobody gets to sleep in our bed or sleep over.
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Originally Posted by homeseeker
Whatever the state of your business or work just remember that you are a walking ATM for your current Thai who is suckering you for all you are worth so you had better make sure that the rice bowl you provide to the Thai and the rest of his leeches is not empty.
I take it, making a comment like that, that you personnally know Matt's other half, and I would also presume that you have been taken for a ride more than once to be able to judge all Thais as only being in a relationship as long as the ATM is full? If you are a regular reader of this forum you will know that there are actually a few who post who are in long term relationships that do not revolve around the size of a bank balance! Matt is also young which unlike a great many who visit places like Sunee doesn't have to buy sex.
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Matt is also young which unlike a great many who visit places like Sunee doesn't have to buy sex.
Just where the fuck do you think Matt found his boy toy? He picked up a whore. And where? Haven't you followed his epic saga Combat? He has also posted in excruciating detail the sums he has already thrown at him. Don't you remember the stories about all that crap. And you really believe this is a free ride Matt is getting? OMG!
Do you think I give a shit about Matt having a monogamous relationship? He can do what ever the fuck he pleases, but I wish he would stop carping about those of us who do not want to follow in his benighted footsteps. He even knows that most gays are not the least bit interested in having a monogamous affair. He accuses others of not knowing "what matters".
It was Matt who said "And that's also why I don't understand a good portion of the gay community." Well, of course he doesn't. He's a self-centered pompous dipshit fuckstick who thinks his shit doesn't stink and expects everyone else to linger over his every pathetic comment born of his self-righteousness.
Matt said "You seem to be completely missing out on what life offers, and what matters." Oh... spare me!
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'Wow' if a person who posts can make you that angry Thai Dyed what ever are you like when they do it to you in person, it just doesn't bare thinking about? If he gets your goat up that much why don't you put him on ignore?
BTW Do you really think that all those who are in stable longtime relationships actually met their boyfriends in a Temple? I think not, and from your way of thinking "once a whore always a whore" how sad, but each to their own...