Originally Posted by
goodtimeth
It must be a question of taste, I guess.
I have had many very good experiences already, but the boys also don’t interact with eachother. I am also the « meat in the sandwich » but I like it. And indeed there is always one taking the lead. With me, the two boys I know who « recruit » their friends to join are the leaders. But it is normal because they know how to please me, and they say to the others what I like and how to do.
My opinion is that it’s better to let one boy you like search for friends.