That should read...…Sun Bar not Man Bar, although probably the same situation in Man Bar....
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I’ve never had a conversation with an Australian.
I feel I’ve had lots of converations with Americans - usually when they’re 500 yards away
:p
My last visit to the complex will be my last visit, as I walk into the soi passed 4T bar a creature in high heels about 6ft 3in grabbed my arm and uttered the ubiquitous “helloooo” then I proceeded further down as I looked at the “boys” with the exception of a few Cambodians it was as if it was a waiting room for a sex change clinic.
Have you never had anything to do with an Australian's "package"? According to the Australian press today "an Australian man was forced to wait two months for his package to be delivered"
I do hope what I have acknowledged about the “boys” in the complex serves those that are not looking for fem boys those that are affended will find the complex perfect for their enjoyment.
Leaving aside the gender issue, I have a different and utterly genuine question, asked with no hidden agenda: how do you know they're Cambodian? I often read reference to the Cambodian boys in Jomtien Complex. Unless they tell you so, how does everyone know that these boys are Cambodian? Or Lao or Burmese or Vietnamese, for that matter. Granted, the typical Cambodian may have certain facial differences to the typical Thai, but huge numbers of both are not typical, and there are many who are a mixture of two or more nationalities. It doesn't matter, but I'm always curious how so many posters seem to instantly recognize the different groups.
My own experience in the complex centers around the bars that have mostly Cambodian guys working I believe there are 3 bars these boys are not fem which really sets them apart.
As you walked past the 4T bar which is half way down. Bullshit. Most of the boys in Jomtien are down the Venue end, usually located opposite each other in Sun and Home bar. Between 30 and 40 depends on how busy
You did not say what day or what time. just another fabrication. I sat in Sun bar the last few nights and the boys are almost all Laos boys almost all straight. Opposite the Cambodian boys are straight as well and also tops. Some very good bodies and some hard cocks as they press into you.
The tall dark 6+ foot is a dancer I think at a dance show.
You will never find anything you like, as you have an antagostic attitude to all boys.
Maybe you are getting older faster than you think
After studying South-East Asian men for some years, I find it quite easy to distinguish the various nationalities. It defies easy description, but they look different, and often dress different. A good way is to have a look at their mobile phone screen. Recently on public transport, I sat next to a cute boy, who looked very Myanmese. And looking at his mobile phone screen, I found this confirmed by seeing Burmese script. Listen to them speaking is another way.
The only I cannot distinguish is some Lao boys from Vietnamese. It doesn't come as a surprise that some Lao look Vietnamese. Or the Vietnamese are aware of their bad reputation and try to pass themselves off as Lao? Next time I have one of the, I will ask in detail where they come from, or even have some Lao text on my phone to see if they can read it.
When talking to them in Thai, I cannot hear if they speak with an accent. But as I have traveled all over Thailand, I ask for their home province. While the one or other Myanmese boy will say "Chiang Mai" and the one or other Cambodian boy will say "Surin", when I ask for their home district, they falter.
They have a reputation for being useless in bed
Christian. I've never had any complaints with a y Vietnamese I've been with.
Apparently any Scotsman will do it for the price of a pint of Tenants Extra.
Getting back to the topic, anyone else with reports on the Cambodians in the Jomtien Complex?
More precisely, Vietnamese money boys in Thailand. The subject has been discussed extensively on gaythailand. My limited experience (two cases) is negative, many other report negative experience (the boys demand above average tips and do below average service), but to be fair there are a few members who report repeatedly positive experience.
Another year, more bitching and moaning from me about the low quality at Jomtien Complex.
Alleged tops, once in the room, can't perform anything but a BJ/HJ.
Bottoms are straight guys who don't know what to do, or are afraid to do it.
Is Boyztown any better?
I used to go to Eros in Sunnee, where service was generally good.
im quite willing to do my bit for lent and offer free training to those poor unskilled straight MB that need training as bottoms...no charge..I'll do it for free
It is quite unfair to put the blame solely on the boys. A few of them have admitted that they couldn't proceed any further after a genuine attempt to pleasure the customers; some could take the girth, but not the length of the well endowed, with exception the real slutty and power bottoms.
In case people did not know, I was being sarcastic in reply to our latintopxxx.
I agree.
I have "offed" guys from JC, in the full knowledge of their limitations...in one case because he was so cute and genuinely a nice guy, I offed him several times and will again. He is not a piece of meat, just a guy trying to earn some money. He still tried but I didn't have the heart to criticise him. This was not a guy trying to cheat me. I knew he wasn't gay so I understood how difficult for him it must be to do that job.
...not very bright are you...you actually offed him more than once...and every time he's useless......its just another version of...buffalo dead...send baht....he must be ROFL with all his mates at your lack of street smarts...I guess you really believe those raybans you buy for BHT50 are genuine...
I find it difficult for me to off a straight boy, I can bear the thought that the boy is not into it and dislike what he's doing it's a turn off for me .
Latin and BOY69.
Is it that you won't get it or you can't get it?
I'm with you Zebs. Some of the best offs are with those straight boys new to the scene just looking to make a bit of money and part as friends with the client.
I understand what you're saying, but in my case I never insist he do something that disgusts him. When I off him I "try my luck" and ask him will he do xyz,if he says "cannot do" I leave it at that and do something he can do. I know before offing him ( the guy i off many times) what he will and will not do,so there is no disappointment from me.To be honest its mostly a case of him just lying there while I saamooke him, and other activities I wont go into,but Im always satisfied with him. I sometimes tease him by telling him what I would like to do with him,he reacts in feigned horror knowing I'm only joking him and don't expect him to do it. I guess in effect he "does" very little, I do it all!
I would not get any pleasure from making a guy do something that clearly disgusts him....that's not for me. But he has decided to do that type of work, so I'm entitled to get something in return for my money, it just means a little chat beforehand to discuss money for services rendered! He gets his money and I get my jollies.
There are MANY straight guys working in JC.
If both parties are happy, what's the problem? I'm all in favour of treating the guys as individuals, as human beings, rather than pieces of meat. And surely we all know that when we off someone, a successful liaison is not just a question of the sex act but of the chatting and the humour, just as Zebedee describes.
oh Lord...so vanilla....throw some tabasco on that taco darling....
Latintopxxx, I'm in my 60's the guy is in his early 20's, I'm already on a winner on that alone, throw in the fact that he's cute,good company, it doesn't cost me a fortune, and I get satisfaction from the encounter. Yes I'd love to fxxk him but he "cannot do" , so the choice is mine to off him or not . I can easily get another guy that will bottom,but a lot of the time that will be just a purely "mechanical" act. Sometimes I think those type of encounters are like using a toilet for a bodily function! There is no chemistry there.
I know you like to ride 'em like a pony and cum in the gape....LOL...and it's a plus for you if he's in physical pain or disgusted by the whole thing but he needs the money. The very fact a straight guy does that work shows he's pretty desperate for money already, humiliating him further is perverse,and the only reason you do that....is because you can! That's not an achievement, a victory, or a win.
But horses (or Ponies ) for courses as they say.
I sometimes wonder whether some falangs actually "like" the guys they meet. If not, I feel genuinely sorry for them...they're missing a lot. Of course, some of us fell in love (I'm not embarrassed to admit it) and that's not for everyone- I'm not always certain if it was right for me- but thinking back to years of offing guys before this, there were plenty whose company I enjoyed, who made me smile (and vice versa) and who gave me a lot more than sex, even if sex and money were the reasons why we met.
By the way, the sex is much better if there is rapport between the two of you.