Jai dii is NOT Thai for sucker! Whilst some Thai boys have the standard line of patter, you can spot them within five minutes, many other boys do not go down this route. I have heard Thai's say about Farang and about other Thai boys that they have 'jai dii mag mag' and mean it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Thaiquila
Whilst it is interesting to make generalisations, it is also a little offensive sometimes. I know you are provoking an interesting discussion, but it leads to assumptions or insuations about others relationships, assumptions which could be upsetting. I am extremely happy for those farang who have found the man of their dreams and managed to maintain a relationship for many years. To insinuate that they are blind to the 'facts' says more about you than it does about those who have found happiness and a relationship which suits them.
I think the answer you are looking for in your general questioning of Thai/Farang relationships is 'Yes'. If a Thai guy can drop a farang when the money runs out, then in turn a farang can drop a Thai guy when the looks or body begins to tire. However, if a relationship has been going on for such a long a time that a boy's looks wither to the extent that you suggest, then I 'assume' that there is more to the relationship than purely physical attraction. I think the reason farang move on to other boys has less to do with the ageing of the boy and more to do with the nature of the farang concerned. Nature (or nurture) will always dictate in some of us the need for another conquest. There will always be a younger, more handsome boy with dazzling smile, pert little ass, hard cock and winning personality that will keep us farang feeling that we too are still young and attractive. There is nothing wrong in this but isn't it better to have what some farang have (like Smiles), a relationship that continues, with shared experiences and something that is real. I hope and believe that whether money is involved or not is irrelevant in these longer term relationships as something has obviously grown which makes any monetary incentive less and less important.