Yes, what happened to that tattooed guy. He sort of disappeared from the bar at one time.
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And He has always had a great sense of humour with a penchant for ambushing the unwary.
My partner is 30 y/o and has actually been OUT longer than me. I thought I knew everything.
Sex with younger guys rocks. To your point, some have been laybacks and needed some coaching - but I've been with some 18 y/o's that have rocked the rafters. The luck of the draw I guess.
I remember Kim telling me about a previous boyfriend he had. We were sitting at some restaurant on the side of the highway, on our way back from the village.
He said his boyfriend back then was 23 years old, so I asked him how old he was at the time. He said 11, and he said it so nonchalantly like it was completely normal, I didn't even know what to make of it. I just shrugged it off and continued the conversation as normal, because I didn't know what else to say. He quite obviously didn't see an issue with it whatsoever, and I wasn't about to make it one, so that was that...
Definitely made me realize why there was never any training required with him though.
In Thailand they start becoming conscious of sex and gender matters from a rather young age, especially nowadays with the ubiquitous smartphone...
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Actually, not that unusual in Thailand.
During my time up in Kantaralak (SiSaket) there was a small group of ladyboys in the village who would regularity orchestrate orgies with local village boys who were in that same age group. They referred to them as "Candy".
They grow up fast here. By the time a Thai boy turns 18 he's probably seen more - done more - and is less inhibited about sex in general, than the average 50 year old gay punter from the West.
Finding a nice Thai boyfriend is the easy part. For a Thai boy, finding a compatible farang (regardless of his numerical age) that's mature enough to handle the realities of life in Thailand without all those shallow western ideologies (mostly emotional) has to be a daunting task. Sometimes I think that all-to-common phrase ..."you think too much" is simply their polite way of saying..."just shut the fuck up"
Sadly some are made fully aware of sex by members of their extended families. I must have come across half a dozen guys who were abused and raped in their early teens by older family members - usually uncles (although that term probably applies to anyone). Even more sadly, two had been infected with HIV by those same uncles. The impression I have is that this is not uncommon.