Re: My Experiences in HERO and Tawan Aug 2012
Colmx, yes I saw that line but I am not sure that that was the boy the boss brought in for him and yes as I have admitted before on this thread we all have very different opinions on this and tipping and they are very dangerous topics for this and other forums so I prefer not seeing them as well everyone gets hot so we should agree to disagree, but there is no reason for OTHERS to get abussive.
Again I need to ask, if those that believe it to be fair, PLEASE ask for the boy's telephone numbers in front of the mamasan or the owner and if there is no problem, you get the number. Bing, bago end of subject. If you have the need to sneak around to get the number, why would anyone need to tell you what they thought of doing it? :tongue3:
Re: My Experiences in HERO and Tawan Aug 2012
And it seems to be misconduct between the customer and the boy on premises.
Sure the boy is just as guilty but the customer knew or should have known it was wrong also.
But after the sex he made his private arrangement - which is what I picked him up on. I don't see that it makes any difference - the boy was still on-duty and they were both still on the premises, so its misbehaviour in my view
Re: My Experiences in HERO and Tawan Aug 2012
Can we all agree to disagree and lock this thread and go on? As I mentioned before, this and 10% tip threads are very dangerous because both sides really take it to heart and fight passionately.
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If anyone wishes to post anything extra that will add to this thread that HAS NOT already been hashed out, please pm me and I will be happy to open the thread for you views to be posted but at this point, we just seem to be saying the same thing over and over as well does other threads on this exact same subject do.
Re: My Experiences in HERO and Tawan Aug 2012
This came from ChristianPFC and before I post it may I ask if others want this thread reopened? Can we continue to discuss it as adults and stop all the name calling and battering of each other? Personally believe it or not I will say it and have said it before, I don't like to lock, don't like to edit, I would just like to READ. I have tried to teach my mods what my policy is and ask them to do the same. I don't like to limit threads, don't like to say with a fist that threads are automatically closed at 10 pages unless they suit me and I want to continue pushing my view and I don't like to answer every thread with my views and also don't throw people off the board unless they are just trying to fight everyone or disagree with me. Sure hot disagreements are welcome as all other posts but we are all adults and can control our anger. Can't we?
If others want the thread reopened just PM me saying "Yes I want the thread reopened", but please no beating everyone up for their differing views. :crybaby:
Re: My Experiences in HERO and Tawan Aug 2012
Sent: Wed 14 Nov, 2012 7:48 pm
From: christianpfc
To: DaBoss
I have something to add which I would like you to publish:
This is a grey area (making arrangements on the premises to meet during non-working hours), but I see nothing wrong with it and do so after doing the standard procedure one time (drink for me, drink for boy, off fee, tip). After that, I prefer to short-cut (financially and time-wise).
The boys work long hours (for massage typically 10 hours per day, 6 days per week), add travel time and sleep there is not much time left. I once lusted after a doorman at a girl bar and after enquiring about his daily routine I came to the conclusion that there is almost no time left to meet me. So when you (OP) ask him (Hero Massag boy) to meet you out of work, this encroaches his spare time. To save face he agreed to meet you, but then probably had something better to do (meet friends, sleep, watch TV, play internet ...) than meeting you for work.
In my experience, when a Thai is intrested in me (because we get along well and I take them to interesting places, beside the money I pay) he is on time (or the delays are reasonable). I arrange my holiday plans so I can spend time with Thai friends (this includes (ex)bar/massage boys) on their day off.
I don't think it's a good move to lock this thread. Of course, the subject has been discussed before, but threads like this bring life into the forum.
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Re: My Experiences in HERO and Tawan Aug 2012
Sent: Thu 15 Nov, 2012 7:42 pm
From: peeseua
To: DaBoss
Hi Boss, I can understand your perspective as a bar owner. We get the same mentality in Malaysia with the senior citizens who smuggle or brazenly bring coffee bags, tea bags and snacks into bars, restaurants, etc. Some of them even wrote a letter of complaint to a Minister of all things when a local restaurant threatened to charge them RM3 for a cup of hot water because that was what some of them ordered when they didn't also sneak a bottle or two mineral water in with them.
People who think it's perfectly fair to do the dirty on a bar or restaurant or hotel owner would never think that they were being dishonest. Their favourite excuse is alway, "Well, they can afford it so why should I have to pay extra?"
I don't have a problem with your adding my pm to the thread as a post. I wouldn't be worried about being called a prick, prissy or holier-than-thou. I've been called worse.