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Re: Advice for long-term needed...
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Originally Posted by cdmatt
21 August: He's not greedy at all either, and he doesn't need much. For example, I just have a crappy 900 baht Nokia cell phone, and the one he bought for himself is even worst than mine, so it's not like he's eyeing me up for that fancy 8000 baht cell.
10 August: I don't pay HIM $3,000/month, no, but everything included, I'd say it's around there. He makes about 25,000 THB off me a month, or thereabouts I'd say. But then add in riding elephants, going to the island, buying clothes, eating, drinking, etc... yeah, I'd say around 90,000 THB a month. Well, that's probably exaggerating. Say 70,000.
Unbelievable. But as long as "I'm happy, he's happy" then I agree 100% - "it's all good".
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Originally Posted by Bao-bao
IтАЩd add that if itтАЩs a change away from Thai ways to Western ways it isnтАЩt usually a change for the better, either.
I agree with that, bao-bao, with some reservations, and with your view generally, but I do disagree with some things.
Most of us would probably look on a relationship as being "long term" after a few years, rather than a few days, but that's only my opinion.
"When in Rome do as the Romans do" seems only fair - if a farang/Thai couple live in Thailand, then the more the farang can at least accept if not adapt to Thai ways then the more chance the relationship probably has of succeeding, just as the reverse holds true for those living in the West. Surely that is true of any couple from different countries, regardless of whether they are gay, there is an age difference, or one is Thai?
The question of family actually moving in "long term" is often brought up with the usual apocryphal stories, but "perhaps we're working with different definitions of "long term"" again - the longest any of my in-laws have ever stayed is overnight, and that's only when they want to get away, briefly, from their own family. Unless you set up home in a "home village" I just cannot see this as being the problem many imagine.
I do not really see the "trips to the temple, traditional religious holidays, events, journeys" as something you either need to "adapt to" or to "try to get the Thai to ignore". Why should you adapt? If you are not into going to the temple together there is no obligation to do so - Thai/Theravadan Buddhism emphasizes that we should all "find our own way" so any sort of evangelism is out and it really is "up to you". Similarly, why should you want to get him to "ignore" his own faith, unless you are trying to convert him? I can't see why "religious differences" should be any sort of a "challenge" at all, for either of you, unless it is you (the farang rather than you personally) who is the one with the problem. Theravadan Buddhism makes very few demands on any way of life and is far easier to get along with than most other religions with such strange and difficult to justify constraints as fish on Fridays, no turning lights on or off on the Sabbath, no eating or drinking in daylight for a month (but as much as you want at night), etc, etc. I think you are seeing problems where none (unless you are a bit of an evangelist yourself) exist.
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cdnmatt: I see a clearer picture after your last explanation. Though you can afford thousands of baht for your new BF, 3000 is too generous to see if the relationship is "authentic". Think of it this way, would you go to Mac Donalds and pay $100 Canadian dollars for a Big Mac? --Why not? You can afford it? Or give that Indian taxi driver in Toranto $100 Canadian dollars for a two kilometer ride? I would give him??? 1000 or so for his stay with you (just tell him you cannot afford it since you are staying a long time) ;yet, you are still paying for his meals and such. If you want to help him to have a better future, then pay for him to go to college or to a trade school. Next, if you are just 10 years apart, that isn't a big gap - so don't let the age difference keep you from thinking of a future with him. Maybe I am still naive, but if your Thai bf is still molesting you non stop during the night and enjoys your company, it is more than a "business transaction". Usually these guys will do their "thing" and then jump to their cell phone and swithc on their plastic smile when needed.
I met my Thai bf four years ago (he owns a small shop) and was I very cautious...I kept doubting if it was a "real relationship' or just a window of opportunity for him. I made sure I didn't drown him with gifts or cash... and there was a breathing period (separation) of six months which helped me realize that I really enjoyed his company. (I am 11 years older than him--he's now 40 years old.) After three years of being together, I helped him to improve his shop which , of course, he always wanted to do. Though I do not have complex conversations with him about world affairs, I admire his hard work ethic, his honesty, his warm heart, and his devotion to his Buddhist beliefs. We enjoy each other's company (we like to work out at the gym/ hit the clubs in BKK (soi 2) together, travel, cook together...) ---BUT this bonding was a gradual one. True, when we first met, it was physical attraction, but after that the REAL important aspects came together
Good Luck
The lucky part you have is you probably can bring him back to Canada with you if the relationship becomes solid.
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Originally Posted by Ron-Heng Vancouver
My expectation for myself is to not be negative at all and to avoid any angry, sarcastic, or caustic remarks to any other human being. But then, that's just me.
On meeting Osama bin Laden, Adolph Hitler or Pol Pot, for example, what sort of positive remarks would you make?
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[quote=Copper Pheel]
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Originally Posted by "Ron-Heng Vancouver":20aumzes
My expectation for myself is to not be negative at all and to avoid any angry, sarcastic, or caustic remarks to any other human being. But then, that's just me.
On meeting Osama bin Laden, Adolph Hitler or Pol Pot, for example, what sort of positive remarks would you make?[/quote:20aumzes]
"Thank fuck that you are not Copper Pheel, I was dreading meeting him".
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Originally Posted by cdnmatt
" ... Well, it's been about three weeks, so I'm giving an update. For all you cynics and nay-sayers, it's working out beautifully, thank you very much. I'm totally in love with him, and I'm 100% certain now that he genuinely loves me as well ... "
Well, for what it's worth, let me tell you a little story which happened to me just a few days ago during a phone call from me to my guy. It rather relates to the above quote from Cdnmatt although it came about quite independently, and I only realized later it might have some interest for Cdnmatt.
To put things in context, I was phoning to wish Suphot a happy birthday and also a little mushy love-talk as I am just about to leave for Thailand, and frankly miss each other quite badly: kind of like that.
(Not trying to be overly mushy here guys, but it may contain some grain of an awareness of how Thais might well think about 'relationships' with farangs ... and probably with each other as far as I know)
Anyway, I (rather nostalgically/dreamily) mentioned something along the lines of " ... Gee honey, I can hardly believe we've been together almost 10 years now, such a happy anniversary coming up ... ".
To that he replied (again, 'something-along-the-lines-of') " ... yes it's been a wonderful 7 years ... ".
From me: " ... seven years? what you mean seven? It's 10 years, not seven ... ".
From him: " ... yes, we know each other 10 years, but I know for sure I love you for seven ... "
Flashback to 'about' seven years ago: I remember receiving a letter from him while I was back in Canada which included a very short line which contained the phrase " ... now I sure I trust your love ... ". It took him three years to make his mind up about this. And of course he was assuming that I would also be taking the same languid journey through time to make my mind up about him. I remember rather glossing over that phrase when I first read it, thinking it just a regular part of a nice love letter, but now ~ after the above phone conversation the other day, and reading this thread ~ I realize that it was literally, not figuratively, true. (In fact I wasn't taking that long, but I can understand, and appreciate, his assumptions).
Can one say they love someone ~ in Cdbmatt's case, it being 'total' love ~ after three weeks? And, even more of a difficulty, can one speak for the other person's love ~ in this case Cdnmatt is 100% sure?
Of course they can, because talk (about 'These Matters') is easy ... and Soap Operas are cheap to produce (just ask CBS).
Cdnmatt seems to feel it's "cynical" to express a certain head-scratching wonderment about those magical three weeks ( " ... For all you cynics and nay-sayers out there ... " ) and our other Canadian friend in this thread piles on in agreement.
I don't doubt that the three weeks were all of that ~ magical that is ~ (mine certainly were, so many years ago), but I'm also pretty certain that Cdnmatt would be very smart indeed if he were to give the 'love' part a bit longer gestation period before declaring the bottom line as been attained (100% ... "so let's move on, shall we").
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Well then Smiles, was Pot just checking out your bank book for the first 3 years while you were in love with him?
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Originally Posted by Smiles
..... It took him three years to make his mind up about this......
That's quite a coincidence, Smiles. My partner never said he loved me for the first three years we knew each other - as he told me later, there is a big difference between "liking" and "loving".
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Originally Posted by Diec
"Well then Smiles, was Pot just checking out your bank book for the first 3 years while you were in love with him?"
LOL ... If that were the case then I would have expected him to run screaming for the exits a long time before 3 years had gone by. :cheers: :cheers:
By the way Diecy old man ... how's your love life?
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[quote=Brad the Impala][quote="Copper Pheel":3tj0qknj]
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Originally Posted by "Ron-Heng Vancouver":3tj0qknj
My expectation for myself is to not be negative at all and to avoid any angry, sarcastic, or caustic remarks to any other human being. But then, that's just me.
On meeting Osama bin Laden, Adolph Hitler or Pol Pot, for example, what sort of positive remarks would you make?[/quote:3tj0qknj]"Thank fuck that you are not Copper Pheel, I was dreading meeting him".[/quote:3tj0qknj]What an angry, sarcastic and caustic remark!
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Originally Posted by thrillbill
Maybe I am still naive, but if your Thai bf is still molesting you non stop during the night and enjoys your company, it is more than a "business transaction".
"Naive"? Maybe not. Probably deluded and easily pleased, though. My partner "molests" me constantly, not just when he is asleep; I take it as meaning that he wants sex rather than necessarily as any indication of love.
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Im afraid this is not the way to fall in love with a boy .
First of all, you should stop giving him money every time you meet, and see if your relationship feels the same when theres no money for him.
A true long lasting relationship is not based on money, you dont need a big IQ to figure that out.
He can be the hottest sexy boy on this planet but without real love you can't expect it to last.
My 23 y.o bf works for his money and study at the university, his family works hard .
Maybe you should take him away from the bar scene and Pattaya and stay with him in his village back home for a month.
You will learn more about his background and family and thats a good thing.
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Thanks for all the great comments and some excellent insight guys. Oh, and not like it matters, but it's been about 5 weeks, but just 3 weeks since I last updated this thread. Been meaning to make a better reply, but for now will just comment on one thing:
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Originally Posted by yedo111
First of all, you should stop giving him money every time you meet, and see if your relationship feels the same when theres no money for him.
I don't give him money every time anymore, and couldn't even if I wanted to, because he'll refuse it. For example, just last night I tried to give him 4000 baht, and he wouldn't even take 1000 of it. I initially threw so much money at him for a reason, and in hindsight, I'm very glad I did, because it paid off. I wanted him to know right from the beginning that I'm not just some farang looking for the cheapest and best fuck. I've tried this with several other Pattaya boys, but they've never been receptive to it, whereas he was since he's new. That, and we're just naturally a good fit for each other.
I know it's not the greatest way to start a relationship, but he WAS a go-go boy in Sunnee, so how else was I supposed to go about it? Be stingy, and debate with him about how much his life is worth to me? I don't think that would have went over too well, and if I did that, he (rightfully) probably wouldn't have anything to do with me anymore. I wanted him to realize that I'm capable and willing of taking care of him, and looks like I accomplished that quite well. Now as the weeks tick by, things continuously evolve into more of an actual / stable relationship, and I can't see that changing direction anytime soon. And I'm certain one of the main reasons things have evolved so quickly, is because I did treat him so well initially.
It's still working out great though. He has his own key to the place now, and just comes and goes as he wants. Sometimes he sleeps here, sometimes he doesn't, whatever he feels like that day. We've already been to the supermarket, and bought him a bunch of stuff he likes, so he has lots of food here. I unfortunately now only get to sleep with a fan instead of air-con, because the air-con irritates his throat too much, but hey, that's minor. Then I throw him a bit of cash every once in a while to make sure he doesn't go without, and all is well in the world (for now at least).
He's not a money boy though, and I'm certain of that now. For one of many examples, when visiting his family in Kohn Kaen recently he ended up with a couple cracked ribs from playing volleyball. After about five days of pain, he hit me up for some money, because he wanted to get his chest x-rayed. At first I didn't know what the money was for, so I (mistakenly) got a bit cynical, and he was genuinely hurt. It was as if he couldn't contemplate how or why I'd ever think he's a money boy. After that, there's no chance in hell he was taking money from me to go visit the doctor, and the only way he was going was if I personally went with him, and directly paid the bill. After that little episode, I didn't have the heart to tell him going to the doctor for cracked ribs was pointless, so off we went!
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Originally Posted by yedo111
He can be the hottest sexy boy on this planet but without real love you can't expect it to last.
Oh no, the love is there. But, I've already bored you guys enough, and I'm tired of writing now. :)
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Mensa gig ...
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Originally Posted by cdnmatt
" ... I don't give him money every time anymore, and couldn't even if I wanted to, because he'll refuse it. For example, just last night I tried to give him 4000 baht, and he wouldn't even take 1000 of it. I initially threw so much money at him for a reason, and in hindsight, I'm very glad I did, because it paid off. I wanted him to know right from the beginning that I'm not just some farang looking for the cheapest and best fuck. I've tried this with several other Pattaya boys, but they've never been receptive to it, whereas he was since he's new. That, and we're just naturally a good fit for each other ... "
So he passed your childish little tests eh?. Great way to start a relationship ... a B+.
Thai guys are much smarter than you are I'm afraid Cdnmatt, which you will soon find out. What the hell, it's a journey anyway.
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Originally Posted by Smiles
So he passed your childish little tests eh?. Great way to start a relationship ... a B+.
Thai guys are much smarter than you are I'm afraid Cdnmatt, which you will soon find out. What the hell, it's a journey anyway.
Huh? What the hell is that supposed to mean? No, I don't view him as some lower level of life. If I ever did that, I'm sure he'd pick up on it, and either never have anything to do with me again, or take me for every dollar he could.
When we first met, I was a sex tourist from Canada, and he was a go-go boy in Sunnee, so please explain to me how I was supposed to go about this, oh wise one? Of course I want some indication that he doesn't only care about my wallet, just like he wants some indication that I don't only care about his body. We seem to be proving that to each other quite well.
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Originally Posted by cdnmatt
Of course I want some indication that he doesn't only care about my wallet, just like he wants some indication that I don't only care about his body. We seem to be proving that to each other quite well.
Quite possibly. Unfortunately you seem to be proving the reverse to the rest of us.
As long as you're both happy, who cares? I certainly don't.
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Let's summarize this a bit.
You met your boyfriend in a boy bar, which makes him a prostitute and you a sex tourist. Nothing wrong with that as such (not my cup of tea, but that's obviously of no concern). But I mention this anyway, because I think that this isn't a good basis to build a long term relationship based upon love and mutual respect.
You know him little over a month, you don't communicate well (at least you don't have a common language in which you could communicate). And you think you have it covered. Fair enough, you might well be right.
I would on the other hand not delude myself like this.
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Originally Posted by cdnmatt
It's still working out great though. He has his own key to the place now, and just comes and goes as he wants. Sometimes he sleeps here, sometimes he doesn't, whatever he feels like that day.
Well I wish you good luck , as long as you're happy its the most important thing.
Maybe it doesnt bother you that he is not with you every night ? He could be with someone else ?
After all he is a go-go boy....
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Originally Posted by yedo111
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Originally Posted by cdnmatt
It's still working out great though. He has his own key to the place now, and just comes and goes as he wants. Sometimes he sleeps here, sometimes he doesn't, whatever he feels like that day.
Well I wish you good luck , as long as you're happy its the most important thing.
Maybe it doesnt bother you that he is not with you every night ? He could be with someone else ?
After all he is a go-go boy....
It clearly doesn't bother him, but it sounds like it bothers you, and so you want it to bother him!
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It clearly doesn't bother him, but it sounds like it bothers you, and so you want it to bother him!
It clearly doesn't bother him, he just feels compelled to keep on writing about it.
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Originally Posted by sjaak327
You met your boyfriend in a boy bar, which makes him a prostitute and you a sex tourist.
Not necessarily the latter (although correct in this case). Most of the customers at present, so I am informed, are residents.
As long as you have an open mind and are prepared to accept others as individuals rather than as stereotypes relationships like this can be as good (or as bad) as any other. I know of more relationships of this type that have succeeded with farangs living here than have failed (discounting those which only lasted a few days or weeks). "Love and mutual respect" and trust, common interests, etc, is more important to some of us than past employment.
cdnmatt, whatever I and others think is of far less importance than what you think. If you are happy with things as they are then you are doing better than the majority of those posting here!
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Originally Posted by cdnmatt
" ... so please explain to me how I was supposed to go about this, oh wise one? Of course I want some indication that he doesn't only care about my wallet, just like he wants some indication that I don't only care about his body ... "
I thought I already did (earlier on) ... time.
3 weeks, 5 weeks, 8 weeks. They are of no consequence for finding out anything about a person which is meaningful. You want it 'meaningful' don't you?
About the wiseguy comment. You might want to check out your heading for this topic, plus the first line in your opening post: " ... Advice for long term needed ... Was wondering if some of you Thailand verterans would be willing to provide some advice ... "
But, carry on ...
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Well, I am not a veteran of any LTR in Thailand, so I don't know what I'm talking about (not a bar to having an opinion on this board :drunken: )
But I know a man who does.....
If you haven't found it already, you might find something of interest in "Rice Queen Diary", definitely one of the better Thailand gay blogs. Perhaps you could start with this post:
http://www.ricequeendiary.com/there-are-no-equals.html
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cdnmatt
And SF farang, no, I'm hardly a control freak. If anything, I'm the total opposite. I get pissed off when people aren't themselves
This has got to be the most ironic sentence in the history of Sawadtee.
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Looking back now, Brad The Impala (Surfcrest) always sided with Matt, always defended him when someone questioned Matt's credibility.
When I took on Matt's invitation to visit him in Khom Kaen, Surfcrest, then admin accused me of being a troll, and he accused me of using VPN, while I posted from Pattaya, True Move 4G, no VPN no Proxy, he lied to everyone here. Admin sees IP if each post, he deliberately lied. Why did he do this?
Surfcrest was on a mission to discredit me, he basically rushed to Matt's rescue.
Looking back, it seems Matt is closely related to Surfcrest, also known as Brad The Impala.
Check this screen cap, one of many, many similar rescue efforts:
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And this works both ways, when Surfcrest (Brad The Impala) was called out, and needed 'support', he could always count on Matt:
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Matt's newby advise thread should be mandatory reading for every foreigner who is considering a relationship with Thai guy.
Many great posts and advise by Sawadtee users, most usernames now appear as 'Said', probably due to move to new platform. But really useful advise for newbie!
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Oh fuck, the mouse dude is on drugs again, and angry because I wouldn't meet him.
Pro-trip: Life changes in 7 years!
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cdnmatt
Oh fuck, the mouse dude is on drugs again, and angry because I wouldn't meet him.
Pro-trip: Life changes in 7 years!
Life changes, no doubt, but newbie advise given to cdnmatt in this thread is just as valid today.
Matt, you will never meet me, nor anyone else because you do not exist. But keep up the writing, I genuinely enjoy it!
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In 2009 (the year of my coming out, and SF farang whose blog played a vital role in that but is now gone commented as well in this thread):
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francois
After re-reading the posts on this topic, especially that of Gone Fishing, I do smell a troll in the personna of cdnmatt. He seems to be milking his post more than Elsie the Cow, whose husband was Elmer the Bull(shitter).
and milking and milking....
At least Matt went from age 27 in 2009 to 36 in 2017, whereas Beachlover stayed in his "early twenties" for the decade (?) he blessed us with his presence on the board.
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It's certainly true that around May, when surfcrest was starting different threads accusing me of God knows what, finally leading to his decision to ban of me, that he was supported by Brad the impala and Matt. They took turns posting the same shit, backed each other up, post after post, and threw "likes" at each other at every turn. It was hilarious.
No prizes for figuring out that we are not talking about 3 separate entities here.
But hey, surfcrest owned the board so was allowed to be hypocritical and flaunt the rules. I mean, he could hardly turn around and ban himself, could be.
Ownership has its privileges. That I accept 100%.
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a447
But hey, surfcrest owned the board so was allowed to be hypocritical and flaunt the rules. I mean, he could hardly turn around and ban himself, could be.
Ownership has its privileges.
I remember when he kicked you out, the last act of his administration. By kicking you he did damage to this board, perhaps intentional, since he knew he was out, and board's future wasnt a concern for him. You could almost say it was deliberate sabotage, banning a long time contributor harms board, other members will be discouraged to post, and every board depends on quality members. Everyone knows how bruce_nyc's startup ended due to lack of posters.
I miss beachlover, he was lots of fun.
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No, he didn't damage the board by kicking me out - he damaged it by cutting fountainhall loose. We lost someone who could post with great authority on all aspects of Asia. His vast knowledge and experience have been lost.
And he also damaged his own reputation by doing what he said he would never do.
I normally don't bother to read resurrected threads, especially ones from so long ago, but this one has been very interesting indeed!
Here we have the start of Matt's fairytales. In the beginning everyone, including myself, thought he may be telling the truth, although I must admit I became a little sceptical when he described himself as a 27 year old "decent looking guy.... with good hygiene". (Lol) My first thought was, what's a guy like that doing paying for sex?
It didn't take long for his story to unravel.
But who should be by his side, defending him all the way?
"Brad", of course!
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a447
They took turns posting the same shit, backed each other up, post after post, and threw "likes" at each other at every turn. It was hilarious.
That's because I genuinely like Brad the Impala. You are an asshole. You're the kind of guy I'd take outside and punch the crap out of, cause that's what us real Canadians do. Unlike whitemouse...the stalker.
Surfcrest
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Surfcrest
That's because I genuinely like Brad the Impala. You are an asshole. You're the kind of guy I'd take outside and punch the crap out of, cause that's what us real Canadians do. Unlike whitemouse...the stalker.
Surfcrest
Hi Bradley, how are you?
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Surfcrest, your comments, and those of your "accomplices" are there for all to see - across numerous threads over a number of years. People are free to put 2 and 2 together and draw their own conclusions. Up to them.
Your reply above, threatening violence, reminds me of Neal's response when he heard something he didn't like.
And it merely confirms what I said.
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a447
"Brad", of course!
That would be the same Brad who in post after post defended you doggedly throughout 2016 would it - until he realised in 2017 that he was wrong all along and you are just completely self-obsessed if not deluded? Your entire post - of which I can be bothered to highlight only a tiny portion - is a monument to the self-serving way in which you so often write
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Surfcrest
You are an asshole. You're the kind of guy I'd take outside and punch the crap out of, cause that's what us real Canadians do.
I don't think I could join you in that Surfcrest - I can't stand seeing a grown man cry :yahoo_mini:
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frequent
That would be the same Brad who in post after post defended you doggedly throughout 2016 would it ....
Yes, that's right. The same brad who, like surfcrest, "defended" me.
And the same Brad who miraculously had an epiphany.
And it occured at exactly the same time as surfcrest.
And on the exact same topic.
And they both did an about face.
In the same thread.
At the same time.
Yep, that's the one.
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I can't stand seeing a grown man cry
Don't worry about it. He'll get over it.
Lol
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a447
Yep, that's the one.
again: presumptions, presumptions... quality of presumptions is the same as before...
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Surf you do a447 an injustice by calling her an asshole she is infact a woman with one vantage point which is down on her knees whilst it be in Good Boys or complaining of board abuse or prancing into any cat fight with great glee, she references the dearly departed "fountainhall" who is much brighter which is no great feat, F.H. is a needy child who when he feels is not getting his way simply picks up his toys and goes elsewhere however, as his elsewhere has been now limited to Gaybutton's board where he has become a dutiful member fearing no place else to go to get liked on his posts thus partially filling the void of gratification as not being able to get an errection for a decade.
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Gosh, mfas, was it something I said?
Lol