a447...for a change that was a real good one. Burn...christian...
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a447...for a change that was a real good one. Burn...christian...
a447 Nail. Head. Hit.
What? I'm trying to visualize this. So Christian has a bed that folds up against the wall during the day, and a bunch of rolls of tiolet paper he store from various hotels lined up on the head stand?
Am I getting this right?
Not quite. The photo that christian posted is at an odd angle. It just looks as if his bed is hanging on the wall like some mad sculpture. There are a number of toilet rolls visible next to the bed, none of them new.
Thanks Joe.
I guess they transferred to a hospital in Udon today, and she survived the trip, so that's good I guess. I don't know why they don't heed my advice and take her to either KK Ram or even Bangkok, because I've offered to pick up the bill for either, and the doctors are far better at both.
I was finally allowed to help today though, so that was somewhat nice. I am still pissed that the money was sent directly to the older sister and I didn't get to pay the hospital directly though. That was a sizable chunk of money, and 100% of it better go towards medical bills.
Looks like we may be staying in KK for an extra month or two before the Vientiane move.
Your posts are beginning to look more troll like by the day, one would almost think click bait for those of us who call you on them. Good luck, I hope you paid plently to the sister - as you know what they say about fools and their money being easily parted. Right there you go, now you can reply and keep that thread of gold running a little more now - and be sure to throw in the adopting the children and the surogate idea a few times more just to keep those plates spinning now too won't you.
And very subtle throwing in the "looks like we might be staying an extra month or two" - very handy - just as well your horrible homophobic landlord that you were telling us all about for so long and who wanted you out SO badly has all of a sudden decided to be a saint and accede to your every wish as to when YOU will decide to leave there in the end then after all eh.
Hell I'd move now if I were you, I mean you can't leave those poor children living there in those conditions any longer than absolutely necessary can you ? And surely you're not intending to smuggle THEM over the border ( not to mention yourself) when the time comes ! ? Although I guess as your Bitcoin has rocketed in value so much of late you'll now be able to bribe your way out of just about any situation so, all good there then, see, life always has a silver lining eh.
Don't use the word "eh". That's reserved for Canadians.
Matt, is that really the best response you can come up with to NIrish's well-argued post? You sure don't believe in doing yourself any favours regarding your credibility here. You can't drop a sentence like "we may have to stay in KK for another month or two" and not expand on it. FFS you have enough to say about everything else. So why the delay this time?
Look, I've reached a point where I believe that you are who you say you are (I wouldn't waste the time and money going to KK otherwise). But you sure don't make it easy. A short explanation about this latest delay might be appropriate.
What credibility is that ? As on any given day solely based on Matts posts he ranges in my mind at least somewhere between a total troll / fake / bullshitter / click baiter to the other end of the spectrum of just being a total moron with zero grasp on reality, either in his own made up play world here in SGF or god forbid if his stories are true, where he's then being played like a violin by Leo from Lao and family - personally Im hoping for his sake it's NOT the last one as as much as his stories are ridiculous sometimes I'd still hate to see anyone get taken for a ride ( perhaps except all of us by him of course -but hey at least that's just innocent entertainment and no one gets hurt.
. . . especially when the topic is labeled "I hate liars". Eh?Quote:
Originally Posted by Joe
Sometimes,I just shake my head. Look, I've booked a couple of nights at a decent hotel in KK, recommended by Matt, my old flame from Si Saket is joining me (hopefully), so at worst, from my point of view, I never meet Matt, 'cos he doesn't exist in the persona he portrays here, but I get to see a new place. I'd normally spend the money going to Koh Chang or Koh Samet for a couple of days break from Pattaya. So this year it will be KK.
The anti-Matt contingent here are vocal, and sometimes make me think twice about my plan. But it's made now and I'll stick to it. I'd really like to see some support from people who think I'm not completely wasting my time and money.
I support ya going, Joe, even if npbody else does.....
I know you hate this phrase Joe, but up to you. I'm here, I'm real, Leo is real, and you're welcome to come by for a dinner and some drinks if you want. Also, everything I've been posting is 100% real as well.
I don't know what the next month will bring, but I would expect you can expect a stressed out host, and not so much a gratious one. Still a good guy, just stressed.
And indeed I have no opinion on whether you should go or not, I think as it's "just another trip" and will ge you out of BKK for a while then why not, nothing really to loose either way. KK isn't anything exciting or special but as long as you're going for a random side trip that you'd be taking to somewhere anyway then why not, but if you're going with the sole reason of meeting Matt then that's only a decision you should or can make as it's your money and time being spent, no one else's so as they say in Thailand "up to you" and no one else really.
Stressed about WHAT exactly Matt - you LOVE the drama !
Your life sounds no more or less stressful that any of the rest of ours I would imagine, we've all got relatives who are sick and or dying at some point, we all have love dramas that play out every now and then but you seem to thrive on making the least wee thing into a MASSIVE woe is me drama.
So what, your younger BF went out and got fucked or fucked someone else - it's Thailand, get used to it as it's going to happen a lot more in the years ahead I'm guessing - the fact that he doesn't like blowing YOU or getting fucked by you maybe just means that he just doesn't like blowing YOU or getting fucked by you - and if so then welcome to being his provider rather than his REAL lover, reality hurts EH.
Maybe that's the trouble with filling your own head full of all your "turns out I'm good at this love stuff" nonsense - maybe you're not as good as you think you are at it and maybe he simply doesn't GIVE a fuck as you're only a means to an end for him and his family and THAT just might be the cold reality and you sir are being played like a violin?
And that doesn't mean you can't be happy and have a laugh with him in life, just as long as you are clear about your and his role, but to think it's all 24/7 Mills and Boon true love and red roses whilst he's out making "mistakes" with other guys as you send money to his sister for his Mama who is sick etc......well, as I said fools and their money are easily parted in that case.
And sorry if the above sounds harsh but IF what you've been telling us IS all true then can I suggest that you're heading for nothing but another few years of shit, pain and hassles as there's just about nothing you say about your life there that sounds sensible, logical or gives the impression that things are going to end well for you - or actually that you're even happy in life there - OR if you think I'm wrong and things ARE just pure rosey between you both then I stand by my first comment - so what are you whinging about "Stress' for then - fuck me it's just life, get on with it man and stop crying doom and gloom and drama every hands turn for dear sake. More bloody drama than a Shakespearean play ffs.
Yeah, I mean I spent in excess of 200,000 baht yesterday in an effort to save Leo's mom's life. That was our Vientiane money, so yep, we might have have to stay in KK for an extra month or two. I don't think that will happen, and we should be gone by Feb 5th still, but we'll see.
@NIrish -- And maybe you just have no fucken clue what you're talking about. Could be that too.
Sure that's only a mere drop in the ocean to you now based on how much your existing Bitcoin has ROCKETED even in the last month if nothing else ! Hell you were "comfortable" a few months back now so already that confortable MUST have turned into nicely WELL OFF now as bitcoin has surged - so, 200,000 - a mere drop in the ocean to you I'm sure and certainly not enough to scupper your plans to flee Thailand I would have thought ......no ?
Now THATS the first sensible thing you've said in AGES !
Mind you as I'm not the one who just alleged that he sent 200,000 baht to the sister of a guy who he believes is out fucking around behind his back I'm guessing I'm safe enough taking a wild guess or two there perhaps.
Keep going NIrish. As I've stated earlier, I don't have the time or patience for idiots any more.
NIrish, fuck you, you make too much sense and now I'm even more confused. Bottom line is I'm going to KK. Hopefully with my ex from Si Saket. If I meet Matt, so be it. If I don't I'll have a couple of days with the love of my life,
Aye as you seem to manage all that perfectly well on your own without having to bother with any others it seems.......
Don't worry Joe, I'll be here. And a chance longer than I'd like now.
NIrish can fuck off. No time for people like that any more.
Aww I'm all hurt. Feeling quite down about that actually, maybe you could send me 100,000 baht to cheer me up again, I would send you the receipt from the health spa I'd be going to to do that, but no, just you send me the money, sure why would you ever ask for a receipt for payments like that EH, bit like payments direct to hospitals accounts offices, who needs them, just more hassle, better just to dispatch a few Bitcoin here and there to strangers and be done with it, makes for an easier life EH.
And enjoy your trip Joe, whilst KK isn't a "holiday resort" kinda town it's still somewhere different and fine for a side trip so I'm sure you'll enjoy it either way no matter how things pan out.
What a fucken idiot....
Watch out Westerners, Asians are coming to get you....
Hey Joe;
On the off chance that you end up in KK alone, there is a new gay spa that recently opened here. It is located on Soi Bankok 14. You can tell a taxi that it is near Northeastern University - or you can use Uber. Just type in that address. The specific address, I believe, is 404/64 Soi Bankok 14. Name is Aspara Spa. 1500 Baht all inclusive fee - Loads of young guys on offer, as this is a university town after all. Just thought I would throw that info out there since you might be here a few days. Cheers -
I noticed that the picture of my bed was turned 90 degree counterclockwise, but hoped members would manage.
It seems I expected too much, so here again in correct orientation:
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Not my bed:
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Please do go to KK and meet Matt; the forum wants to know if he exists or not.
The only obstacle would be Mom dying and Leo would return for the funeral. Since Matt states he can only meet you at a restaurant, and not his home, then you trip would be in vain.
And if the love of your life does not go with you, you would be shit out of luck.:heart:
No Francois. Most of us here don't give a toss except for the hope it might put an end to the see-saw Matt and Joe show that spreads its mind numbingly dull tentacles all over the board.
NIrish, I'm now treating this as an opportunity to get out of the Pattay bubble. To remind myself why I love Thailand apart from the boys. My last few trips, I haven't bothered leaving Pattaya, and more specifically, the same 2 or 3 bars every day. It's a chance for me to rediscover a bit of my sense of adventure, and the stress and joy of dealing with the practicalities of travelling in a foreign country. So it's become less about Matt, and more about me. Even if Kwan doesn't come with me, I'll enjoy the experience.
I commented earlier that Matt is just a needy millennial. I was reminded of that when reading about Serena Williams broadcasting (sorry, "reaching out") to her social media followers about the difficulties of dealing with her teething baby http://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/ent...b01d429cca6d05
I've always assumed children are a self-inflicted wound, so I have no sympathy whatsoever
Sorry frequent, you've lost me - how is what spelled/spelt?
I hate this...
He continues to be erratic, and I don't know what to do. All I can do is continue to be here to love him, and let the chips fall where they may I guess. I don't know...
Frequent, that's how I've always spelled it and he never said different. How else could it be spelled? Honest question.
Matt, you can stop now. Posts like this are meaningless. You have my email, and I'm always ready to chat, but you're now just being self-indulgent. It's tiresome.
Then ignore my posts, Joe.
I've never done this before. I don't know what I'm doing.
And leo has quite obviously never done this before either, because he currently has no idea of how to make heads or tails of the world. I want to help, but I don't know what to do.
So what are you expecting to get from posting here? None of us know you or Leo. I'd be reluctant to offer advice to my best friend, whom I've known for 20 years, in a similar situation. I don't know what you expect any of us to say that will help the situation. Just get on and deal with it, on a daily basis. Those of us who are sympathetic to your situation have no answers. Others who have a different view are hardly likely to offer any useful advice.
I'm expecting myself to blow off some steam, that's it.
I'm a blind idiot sitting in a bedroom, so there's only so much I can do, and I feel a little helpless at the moment.