Yep, that's exactly why I go alone, it gives me freedom to hook up with someone new.
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I once took a go go boy down to Koh Chang for a few days. Had a good time. I paid him what I thought was a fair price for his time, as well as the off fee to the bar. When we got back we met by accident on 2nd Road. He wanted to go to one of those clubs, so I agreed. Fully prepared to pick up the tab for him and 4 or 5 of his friends. But his sister called me a Cheap Charlie, because apparently I didn't give him enough money. I pretended to go outside for a smoke, but just went home, leaving them to pay the bill themselves. I don't mind spending cash if I have it, but I won't be taken for a fool.
It's a few years ago now but I'm fairly sure I paid him 1500Bt per day. He didn't complain - it was his sister.
If he was ok with it, then fuke 'em, I would have left too, let them pay the bill. It's always not the guy himself who complains, but friends or some bitch girlfriend, egging them on - 'Get the farang for everything he's got'.
I had a relationship here only once, and I stayed in Bangkok 2 years straight, doing visa runs only. It was always my boyfriend's Thai friends who kept giving him ideas and suggestions how to milk me harded.
Countless times he came home at 5am, drunk, and asking money to pay their bar tab of that night, 4 of his friends waiting outside.
Whitemouse. Instead of wasting your time posting here or searching for Bogsville Mick all over Pattaya (imagine what you might find) I think you should get yourself down to The Mask and do a recky. Then come back and post a full report including plenty of info (piccies if poss) on the boys.
As far as I remember, we were drinking Heineken towers (is that what they're called?) and I would have happily paid for whatever we drank, since I was enjoying their company and having a bit of a dance. But I don't like being taken for a mug - you can't drink my beer and call me cheap charlie.
Carpe diem.
Et tempus fugit, btw.