Don't be so modest Zebs. When you were 16 the abacus was still high technology. Hahahahaha.
MFAS and latin are right. A relationship with someone of such a huge age difference could never work, for them.
All those subjects Brad mentioned are exactly those I talk about with my offs and you can add motorbikes, football and how annoying their girlfriends are to that list.
If you're setting up shop with a boy 35+ years younger than you then you have a moral responsibility to leave him provided for because you're taking the best years if his life.
latin is right, most 20 something year olds are pretty vacuous. Except, ironically in Thailand where they often have responsibilities way beyond their years. Kids, parents etc.
Fuck I Miss Pattaya.