You sound like an decrepit old Victorian Spinster from a Charles Dickens novel. Is it lonely on that planet you seem to occupy wherever it is?[quote combat]Quote:
Originally Posted by combat
Me thinks white man speaks with falk tongue!
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You sound like an decrepit old Victorian Spinster from a Charles Dickens novel. Is it lonely on that planet you seem to occupy wherever it is?[quote combat]Quote:
Originally Posted by combat
Me thinks white man speaks with falk tongue!
Four posts and already you are jumping in feet first, I wonder what handle you used before? But only time will tell on that one!Quote:
Originally Posted by White Knight
I see combat cant answer thonglor55s question about Dickens no surprise really hes always big noting himself.
well back to the question,I really want to be monogamous ,i love my boy dearly .
Before i met him i was a butterfly but fell so much in love with him
But i stopped being the butterfly ,i just see 1 other and it still CHEATING
What i think is missing in this relationship is he sincere
for you Matt 98% may aswell be 50 % you have doubt
Great topic...
I'm monogamous when I'm in a relationship. I think when you go into a meaningful relationship you should stay monogamous unless you discuss with it with the other guy first or when it's pretty clear it's just in a non-serious "casual sex buddy" thing you have going.
Having said that... the same shoe doesn't fit everyone and I think it's great there's a diversity of approaches. Everyone's needs/situation is different and what works for Matt might not work for someone else.
Hehe... when I first read this I was thinking, "so Matt, you've been with Kim over a year now. Starting to get frisky?".Quote:
Originally Posted by cdnmatt
Yeah, entrepreneurship can be lonely and sometimes I think it'd be a hell of a lot easier having someone beside me. I'm lucky to have really good mates though...Quote:
Originally Posted by cdnmatt
Interesting way to put it...Quote:
Originally Posted by cdnmatt
I don't think it's the be all and end all, but there's certainly value in it. But life long monogamy from a young age is too much to ask and too much to miss out on.Quote:
Originally Posted by RichLB
I've had a lot of one-nighters and flings so far but sometimes get bored of them. I'm in my mid-twenties so I think for now, the thing to do is get it out of my system before I start craving stability too much.
Eventually I'll get in a more emotionally intimate and long-term relationship and that's when things'll change. I'm happy to be monogamous but I can compromise if my partner differs. I'd be comfortable having the odd fling occasionally when the craving arises, perhaps together (threesome...?) but definitely be open and transparent about it. Not healthy to do it behind each other's back. It leads to miss-trust and jealousy issues.
I agree. Perhaps some people need to think it through a bit more and perhaps some have thought it through and decided they want monogamy. The thing is to be flexible, empathise and understand how your partner might feel and be willing to compromise if you feel it's worthwhile.Quote:
Originally Posted by RichLB
I agree...Quote:
Originally Posted by netrix
Them haters can't tell you nothing...
Them haters can't tell you nothing...
Them haters can't tell you nothing...
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Happyboy/Undaunted is back throwing out insults and being a ridiculous moron again... Is Gaybutton not keeping him occupied?Quote:
Originally Posted by combat
Homintern/Thonglor55 resides on planet f*ckstick. He's an all-round f*ckstick who actually contributes NOTHING to this forum but jabs and arsehole comments. Nice members like cdnmatt shouldn't have to deal with losers like this but such is life...Quote:
Originally Posted by combat
Well, considering the childish tantrum you just threw, you're obviously not very comfortable in your own skin. You're right, that comment you quoted was out of line, hence why I removed it. Obviously not quick enough, because you seen it before I had the chance to remove it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Thai Dyed
Excellent question. It's because you can share yourself with someone. You're never alone, because there's somebody out there who knows all your secrets and idiosyncrasies, and you know all of theirs. It's all ok though, including the bad stuff about each of you, because you love each other. It's also because no matter what happens, and regardless of how successful or lucky you are, life WILL knock you on your ass. That's just a simple fact of life. When that happens, having someone fully behind you to support you, makes all the difference in the world.Quote:
Originally Posted by RichLB
That's why monogamy is highly valued. You can't have that if you're sleeping around, and sharing your body with others.
Is he with me for financial benefit and a better life? Of course, and I'm under no delusions. Would he be with me if I was Thai? Probably not. Does he love me? Absolutely. Is he to be there when life kicks me down, and help me get back on my feet again? Absolutely, and he's proven that several times. Make of it what you will, I don't care.Quote:
Originally Posted by homeseeker
Yeah, you would have thought by now I would have learned not to start discussions on a discussion forum, eh? Geez... I don't give a fuck what anyone else does, and I'm just voicing my thoughts & opinions, hence the discussion part of the forum.Quote:
Originally Posted by netflix
Ohhh, I'd be lieing if I said I hadn't thought about it. Head to Pattaya for a week to party, and have every night, massages in the morning, etc. But actions are what count though, not thoughts.Quote:
Originally Posted by BeachLover
heh, you obviously know absolutely nothing about the adult industry, do you? Do you think all that HD porn, extensive and complex marketing campaigns, high-end designs & promotional material, terabytes of data getting transferred every day, and everything else is all done by a bunch of lowlifes with camcorders? If anything, I'd say the adult industry contains a higher caliber of businessmen than most industries, simply because of the amount of money involved.Quote:
Originally Posted by thonglor55
Good retort Matt, well put, but whatever you say or ask in here there are those who need to mock just for the hell of it.
Yeah, that's true. And look, you've just got to be thick skinned.Quote:
Originally Posted by combat
SGT's an awesome board with a lot of entertaining, intelligent, interesting characters but you have to wade through a few f*cksticks and arseholes to enjoy it.
I think you're a little sensitive or over-reactive, Thai Dyed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Thai Dyed
How does Matt "preach" to others how to live? He puts interesting questions out for discussion. He does put his own personal view on the plate, but most importantly he puts it out for discussion.
I'd love to be in Matt's shoes. I love my life now, but I've got a lot of responsibilities to family and attachments. Matt sounds like he's cut the strings, put his balls on the line and started afresh. Good on him.Quote:
Originally Posted by Thai Dyed
I knew it! Hehe... Fair enough.Quote:
Originally Posted by cdnmatt
Hell, I'll admit I've done work for the adult industry before, but only once. It was interesting but not really the kind of work that gets us more clients so I declined to do more.Quote:
Originally Posted by cdnmatt
Homintern/Thonglor55's just being an general f*ckstick trying to find ways to take jabs at you and implying you're some low-life for being involved in that industry. Ignore him.