I was thinking more along the lines of the following perhaps for a little light reading for him perhaps :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by scottish-guy
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I was thinking more along the lines of the following perhaps for a little light reading for him perhaps :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by scottish-guy
Yes, he could have straw laid on the floor of his loom for that authentic farmyard feel.
scotty...your avatar is VERY disturbing; please do change it!!
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Originally Posted by latintopxxx
Any Speedo shot will do for him...
Met a nice shy bar boy once at Koh Samui (maybe the only gay bar there with boys available). Were together for a couple of nights, he told me also the uni story, trying to get enough funds to start his studies. In his case, however, it was probably true as we exchanged a few emails afterwards, no money or requests for it involved. He left Koh Samui in a month or so (wrote that the whole gogo thing really wasn't for him)and did start in the uni, but in a couple of months wrote that he had to quit as he needed to earn money to support his parents. Still not asking for money, just telling what's going on with his life. Felt sorry for him....
Interestingly, he also told me that his family does not know he is gay so at home he had arranged with a girl to be his 'girlfriend' to keep his family unsuspecting. So it seems the Thai society is not so universally tolerant...
Disturbing?
Why?
I don't get it.
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...do I really have to explain it to you.....based on your wit I had pegged you as of above average intel....
Prostitution is one of the highest paying professions in Thailand, and as a result, Isaan is littered with homes, farm lands, small business etc., which are the result of this trade. To suggest that the working boys you interact with are merely there to have fun, get buzzed and party with no concerns whatsoever for the future would be considered naive.
The Thai boys I know are pretty much the same as the guys I grew up with in Chicago when it comes to forward-thinking. Some of my Chicago friends were meat heads with absolutely no aspirations of plans for the future who would end up spending the rest of their lives punching a time clock in a factory - and others invested some of their earnings in their futures when they were young and went on to enjoy successful lives. The same holds true in Thailand. The smart ones (and there are more than one might imagine) send a portion of the earnings home where their family saves, invests and builds for the future - and the others who just pee their money away and end up back in the farm fields.
Thai working boys (and girls) are self-made entrepreneurs who have honed their skills over generations and can out manuveur a wealthy farang in a heart beat. The majority of farang punters come to LOS for one reason and one reason only - and that of course is to have sex. These working boys are treated merely "boy toys" to the majority of punters and have been lied to and abused by the farang population from the dawn of time. For every Thai boy who deceives a farang there are 100 farangs who have deceived him, thus the reason for the farang stereotype "Walking ATM". The comments I read on this post regarding boys who manage multiple farangs simultaneously - lieing to all of them in the process just emphasizes this reality. If by chance you find these types of actions apalling, just ask yourself how many Thai boys the average farang punter has on his plate at any one given time - lieing and manipulating them all in the process. What goes aroung comes around.
It takes a long time to earn the trust of a Thai boy, evan longer if he was spawned on the working scene, but possible as long as you are the type of person worthy of being trusted. I believe that investing your money in any kind of business for him is the worst mistake a person could make for two reasons: First, is that the majority, especially the boys coming from impoverished lives in Isaan, don't have the foggiest clue how to manage a business and really don't have any desire to manage a business anyway. Secondly, there is a 90% chance that you haven't earned his trust yet, even though you may think you have, and he still views you as being nothing more that a "Walking ATM" and you will lose your investment and him along with it at the first turn.
From the early days back in the 1960's when the GIs promised the working girls that they would return to marry them and of course never did - to the present times when a farang tells #26 that he loves him and then flags #12 off the stage the very next night, we are perceived as being just exactly what we are...liars and deceivers.
There are plenty of Thai boys who would love to hook up with a jai dee farang in a sincere relationship - if in fact that's what the farang wanted as well, but not until that element of trust is earned and that seems almost insurmountable for some. And by "relationship" I don't mean those scenerios where a farang attempts to lock his BF in his room 24/7 controlling him as if he is some sort of house pet. I mean a relationship based on mutual understanding and the level of compromise that's essential when an older farang is living with a younger Thai partner.
Dodger, great post! Nothing to disagree with so here I am thanking you for summing it up so succinctly and of course simply.
SimpleS.
I think the guy in your avatar is nice looking, and he has a kind face......the kind you would stick your cock in! :sign5:Quote:
Originally Posted by scottish-guy