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No, Vientiane move is still on, I think. He showed up this afternoon, and now has a key to the new lock I put on the gate. We had a few crying sessions together, got angry at each other, some shit got broken, I think the guitar is in a few pieces now, etc. You know, just a typical day.
I promised him I wouldn't post any details publically, and I'm quite confident he reads this board, so will leave it there.
Fuck me, is he ever glad he saved my life upon going blind.
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Matt, no offence, but UK social workers would call this a "chaotic lifestyle" and attempt to take both of you into care.
Mind you, with UK social workers record you'd probably have murdered each other before places of safety were found.
:D
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Matt - At 5.28 pm Thai Time you wrote:
“No, it's over. He's not coming back...........Again, doesn't matter. He's not coming back. If he e-mails me an address, I'll mail his computer, guitar, clotes and everything to him. His refusal of denial is enough for me, to let me know I'm not being crazy. He's just being a lair and chating on me. Sorry, but no, not allowed”
.......and just over six hours later at 11.53pm you wrote
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cdnmatt
No, Vientiane move is still on, I think. He showed up this afternoon, and now has a key to the new lock I put on the gate. We had a few crying sessions together, got angry at each other, some shit got broken, I think the guitar is in a few pieces now, etc. You know, just a typical day..
Did Leo arrive just minutes after your first post? Otherwise he would have arrived in the evening not the afternoon. Beginning to wonder if he arrived at all? Does Leo exist at all? Are you a reincarnation of Beachlover?
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pennyboy
Only people who like soap operas will believe this piece of horse manure. You'e not crazy Matt but I have doubts about those who respond with advice.
You are quite correct Pennyboy.
Up until this ridiculous topic, wherein the fraud also known as 'Cdnmatt' has now been mostly accepted as what he is ~ a fraud ~ by what seems to me a decent majority ... i.e. the whole cloth is obviously total balony on so many levels that it's difficult to stay above them th'ar levels without wings (thank you 'Francis Ford Coppola'.)
Along with all this, he writes a dozen or so angst-filled messages each negating the one before, negating the story line regarding meeting up with the Board's 'Most Naive' (sorry Joe); negating his love-of-loves: ("out with the lying little fucker", no no forget that, the sweet darling is back again, in the house with a new set of keys, hoovering the floors and breaking guitars left right and centre". No no ... he's a liar and gone, no, he's back, liar or not, no no I really should gather up my hair shirt and go live with my mother in Canada; no no I forgot, I hate cold icy Canada nearly as much as I hate Leo AND BitCoin; no no Bitcoin's going up, no now down, no now flat lining ... and hey, Leo's OK with me now); changed the Vientiene Escapade from "it's on" to "it's off" to "it's on" again (maybe) all in the same friggin' day!, to wit: the 28th of January in the year 2018.
All that and blind to boot!
And you thought "fraud" was harsh. :love::crazy_mini:
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It's all entertainment. Most of those who respond to Matt do so because they have the ability to suspend disbelief for the few moments it takes to submit a post. Shortly thereafter, they return to incredulity, but participating in the saga adds a little amusement to life.
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bobsaigon2
It's all entertainment. Most of those who respond to Matt do so because they have the ability to suspend disbelief for the few moments it takes to submit a post. Shortly thereafter, they return to incredulity, but participating in the saga adds a little amusement to life.
Those are exactly my thoughts. It is a form of entertainment. Enjoys its absurdity.
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Aw. A happy ending
If only it was an ending.
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joe552
If only it was an ending.
I was using the phrase ironically - the massage boy context. If you ask arsenal he'll be able to confirm that, as he's able unerringly to determine what it is a poster "really" means. That's why he's a "Moderator"
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cdnmatt
Time off from what? Relaxing all day, plaing his computer games, watching Youtube, chatting with his friends, eating shrimp, having about 10,000 baht in that money jar any given day to go do whatever he wants, the freedom to go out and do whatever he wants, his own bedrrom with A/C, having a loving husband spending two hours per-day in the kitchen cooking delicious meals for him, or the breakfasts in bed, the soothing massages with lotion he gets every day that he enjoys, etc.?
Time off from what, exactly? Yeah, real rough life he has.
I understand he's bored of Khon Kaen and is very anxious to get to Vientiane. So am I. That doesn't give him a right to lie to me and/or cheat on me, and vice versa.
I was trying to be polite. We all need some space now and then... He is Thai.
You have to get used to the "little white lies" and let him save face.
Time off from what? or who?
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dab69
I was trying to be polite. We all need some space now and then... He is Thai.
You have to get used to the "little white lies" and let him save face.
Time off from what? or who?
Little white lies? Cheating on me, and fucking some ~40 year old in Bangkok, then lieing to me about it is just a little white lie?
He's been amazing since he got back, I know he's hurting because he knows he fucked up, and I don't know. I really don't know if I can forgive him.
Kim gave me 100 times better sex than he does, but that doesn't give me the right to cheat on him, then lie to him about it.
Which ever one of you cunts that was, then you're pretty lucky. He even refused the taxi money you offered him, because he doesn't need any money. He has lots.
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cdnmatt
Kim gave me 100 times better sex than he does ... Which ever one of you cunts that was, then you're pretty lucky.
Hmmm. So sex with him is lousy for you, but I'm still lucky to have had those legs draped over my shoulders?
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Well cdnmatt...You know you will take him back.....get over it...whats a little cheating here and there.....forgive and forget??
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Blueskytoday
Well cdnmatt...You know you will take him back.....get over it...whats a little cheating here and there.....forgive and forget??
In the world of soap operas, which matt may be emulating, monogamy is the highest virtue and cheating is the biggest violation of trust. I think monogamy is vastly overrated and a bit of sexual wandering is normal. Viewed from afar Matt's dilemma is wonderful soap opera like drama.
Economists talk about diminishing marginal utility. Basically the first banana you eat is tasty but the fifth one in a row is not so good. Matt. Take a diminishing marginal utility view. You and your boyfriend have eaten five bananas in a row and you both need some variety. That banana will be fast again in a few days.
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In the world of soap operas, which matt may be emulating, monogamy is the highest virtue and cheating is the biggest violation of trust. I think monogamy is vastly overrated and a bit of sexual wandering is normal. Viewed from afar Matt's dilemma is wonderful soap opera like drama.
Economists talk about diminishing marginal utility. Basically the first banana you eat is tasty but the fifth one in a row is not so good. Matt. Take a diminishing marginal utility view. You and your boyfriend have eaten five bananas in a row and you both need some variety. That banana will be fast again in a few days.
Hmm. It should read that banana will be tasty again in a few days.
Xxxx auto correct.
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Blueskytoday
Well cdnmatt...You know you will take him back.....get over it...whats a little cheating here and there.....forgive and forget??
No. I know many gay people have open relationships, but I'm not one of them. Pretty much everyone both of us has talked to agrees that cheating is simply inexcusable. I don't care that we're gay.
I don't sit here wprlomg every day to provide us with a good life, so he can go fuck people behind my back, and lie to me about it.
Everyone agrees with me except you sex tourists. Thankfully he's been back in his village the last couple days, and I guess decided to tell everyone. His friends said they would kill him if he did that to him. He even told his grandma, and I guess got a pretty good scolding, so thank you grandma I've never met, because that helped.
Now we just need to work on his self confidence. I know when he looks at himself in the mirror, he just views himself as some poor, worthless rice farmer from rural Laos. We need to change that so he views himself as the truly amazing, loving, intelligent, strong, healthy, and empathetic human being that he is. Being born poor isn't an excuse. It's ok, I'm good at this type of thing, so will change him around. Already gave him some documentaries and interviews of Trevor Noah and his book Born a Crime, and have lots more here. Hell, the author of Harry Potter was homeless in London when she wrote the first book.
I know him, and know he's capable of anything he wants in this life. He just needs to believe in himself.
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Hard to control my gag reflex after reading the above.:bo:
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Silly few days ago you never wanted anything more to do with him,,so my first comment was right...forgive, forget, move on...until it happens again???
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Matt: "It's ok, I'm good at this type of thing, so will change him around."
Meaning Matt has made previous excursions into amateur psychotherapy. Love to hear about his successes in that area.
I wonder if Leo understands and accepts House Rule Number One: No more fucking as long as Matt is alive. I got the impression that Leo found fucking quite enjoyable. Now he's willing to abstain? Seems like it might be important to obtain some clarity on that before moving on to psychotherapy.
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Silly few days ago you never wanted anything more to do with him,,so my first comment was right...forgive, forget, move on...until it happens again???
As I've always said, everyone makes mistakes in life. It's not the mistakes you make, but how you handle them. He's done brilliantly.
He was initially supposed to be gone for 2 weeks. That turned into a few days, as after I caught him in a lie, he came rushing back. Then he had to go back to Laos because his VISA expired, and plan was to be gone until the 5th. He's now on a bus and will be back here within hours to help repair his marriage, and is going to miss the festival tomorrow night that he was looking forward too.
He has over 200,000 baht to his name, so it's not like he has to do this. He's doing it because he knows full well he will never find someone who loves him more than I do, and he wants to fix things. I've already forgiven him, but will just take some time.... I'm pretty sure he's learned his lesson, and won't do it again.
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"back here within hours to repair his marriage"
In the past, I have given Matt the credit for being a novelist.
But truth be told, it's just a crappy soap opera.
We're supposed to believe that a farang is living in the wilds of KK, and his only contact with the outside English-speaking world is via this forum.
In terms of the title of this thread, no Matt, I can't tell you that.
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But truth be told, it's just a crappy soap opera.
. More like a crappy “fairy” tale
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neddy3
"back here within hours to repair his marriage"
In the past, I have given Matt the credit for being a novelist.
But truth be told, it's just a crappy soap opera.
We're supposed to believe that a farang is living in the wilds of KK, and his only contact with the outside English-speaking world is via this forum.
In terms of the title of this thread, no Matt, I can't tell you that.
No, I have clients. And for another 2 oe 3 weeks, I also have a couple farang neighbors who show up every winter.
Aside from that, yes. I'm blind. I've tried going out into town on my own before, and random strangers just get all worried about me, and take me back home. It's like I'm in my own little prison.
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I can't take much more of this crap. Within the space of a few pages, we've gone from "he's out of here for good" to "I'll change him into what I want him to be".
So Matt, what's the new departure date for Laos?
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Well Joe, before you went to Thailand you were party to and provocateur of most of this crap destroying thread after thread with it so..............
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cdnmatt
As I've always said, everyone makes mistakes in life. It's not the mistakes you make, but how you handle them. He's done brilliantly.
He was initially supposed to be gone for 2 weeks. That turned into a few days, as after I caught him in a lie, he came rushing back. Then he had to go back to Laos because his VISA expired, and plan was to be gone until the 5th. He's now on a bus and will be back here within hours to help repair his marriage, and is going to miss the festival tomorrow night that he was looking forward too.
He has over 200,000 baht to his name, so it's not like he has to do this. He's doing it because he knows full well he will never find someone who loves him more than I do, and he wants to fix things. I've already forgiven him, but will just take some time.... I'm pretty sure he's learned his lesson, and won't do it again.
Should I start holding my breath?
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joe552
I can't take much more of this crap. Within the space of a few pages, we've gone from "he's out of here for good" to "I'll change him into what I want him to be".
So Matt, what's the new departure date for Laos?
Then you should have came to Khon Kaen as you promised, so you could confirm everything I post is true. You decided a 2000 baht trip was too expensive for you though, so up to you.
I don't know when we're going to Vientiane now. He's back, and we're repairing things. I got an e-mail from the Canadian this morning though, and they mailed out my passport today. I should have it tomorrow or the next day.
I'm thinking we will go in about two or three weeks. I'm blind, so he has to give me a little time to decie whether or not I can trust him with my life. I know where everything is in Khon Kaen, so if needed, I could take care of myself here. However, there's no way I could take care of myself in Vientiane, at least not at first. My life would be 100% in his hands.
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Personally I'm devastated to read that Leo's savings are expressed in baht. Why not Bitcoin. And these savings are "gifts" from Matt? Not that he pays his "husband" for sex of course. And Bitcoin - from $20,000 a month ago to $6,000 today. A great store of value
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My last words on this subject, and anything else related to Matt - I apologise for everything and will say no more.
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joe552
My last words on this subject, and anything else related to Matt - I apologise for everything and will say no more.
Follow arsenal's advice cribbed from Disraeli's aphorism "Never complain, never explain" - the second half of which arsenal is a consummate master
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Personally I'm devastated to read that Leo's savings are expressed in baht. Why not Bitcoin. And these savings are "gifts" from Matt? Not that he pays his "husband" for sex of course. And Bitcoin - from $20,000 a month ago to $6,000 today. A great store of value
some might say “clever cdMitty, bitcoin up 748% in one year”.
Depends if you glass is half full or half empty.
https://iqoption.com/lp/ultimate-tra...ack=CRPBitcoin
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Or you acquired last month. Matt claims he’s being paid in Bitcoin so his acquisition value has increased over time - fewer Bitcoin for the samw amount of labour. Any payments he recived last month are now worth 50% less
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your obsession with bitcoin is tedious beyond belief
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cdnmatt
No. I know many gay people have open relationships, but I'm not one of them. Pretty much everyone both of us has talked to agrees that cheating is simply inexcusable. I don't care that we're gay.
Everyone agrees with me except you sex tourists....
Sadly, Matt, you are simply a prisoner of the Christian heterosexual paradigm, also known as heteronormative behaviour - one spouse, lifelong fidelity. Or in your case, fidelity until the next true love comes along
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your obsession with bitcoin is tedious beyond belief
Any chance to stick it up Matt gratefully taken
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frequent
Sadly, Matt, you are simply a prisoner of the Christian heterosexual paradigm, also known as heteronormative behaviour - one spouse, lifelong fidelity. Or in your case, fidelity until the next true love comes along
Though monogamy does nothing for me either I have to acknowlege that it's pretty common; many Jews, A-Theists, Bald Eagles and Angel Fish mate for life.
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