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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
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Originally Posted by
catawampuscat
One can anticipate Double Shot boy bar beer reopening very soon as farang boss is back in town..
I heard that Double Shot Bar will re-open sometime next week, around the 22nd.
Also two more new bars may be opening soon in the Jomtien Complex. One in the double space next to the just opened B.N Bar and another in the next soi near the Blind Massage.
From my observations this week, the recently opened 69 Bar and B.N Bar do not have many customers. A much larger number of tourists or expat customers will be needed to support all the new bars that are opening.
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
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Originally Posted by
francois
Real ladies; take a look.
I did. You're right. They are really ladies. There were only 3, fully clothed, when I went. There were also two boys working there. Maybe more come later. I was there at about 8:00pm and stayed less than 5 minutes.
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
BN boy bar beer is painted a garish pink color. The bar has been mostly empty since the opening.
Think Pepto - bismal pink.
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
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Originally Posted by
aussie
I heard that Double Shot Bar will re-open sometime next week, around the 22nd.
Also two more new bars may be opening soon in the Jomtien Complex. One in the double space next to the just opened B.N Bar and another in the next soi near the Blind Massage.
From my observations this week, the recently opened 69 Bar and B.N Bar do not have many customers. A much larger number of tourists or expat customers will be needed to support all the new bars that are opening.
Ladyboy M, formerly of Cupidol Gogo boy bar in Boyztown, said he was going to open another boy bar beer on blind massage soi.
M is boss of B N boy beer bar and Thai.
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
With all these new bars opening , with Cambodian and Laos guys , what percentage , do you think are gay guys and what percentage are gay for pay.? Also , I know it might be hard to say ,but who do you reckon give better service ?
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
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latintopxxx
straights naturally
That's a bit of a stretch considering the fact that having sex with another man is "unnatural" for a str8 man.
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Why would straights Give better service when a straights natural inclination is to be with the opposite sex? Why would he give better service than a gay man who actually enjoys doing it and gets turned on by it?
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It's not a question of whom the guy prefers but of what the gay man who's paying wants.
We've explored this issue frequently over the years; there is a clear difference in taste between those of us who like gay men and those who prefer straight....and it is also the same within the gay Thai community. Ladyboys, for example, tend to prefer straights.
I assume that is why ladyboys don't frequent gay Thai saunas.
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
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Originally Posted by
davidmelba
... than a gay man who actually enjoys doing it and gets turned on by it?
I seriously doubt any hot young gay guy would either "enjoy" having sex with me or in any way get "turned on" by me. Harsh perhaps but then I'm a realist.
As far as I'm concerned it is all about the money. Nothing more, nothing less.
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Of course.
However, wouldn't you agree there are degrees of "not getting turned on"? after all, the act itself may well repel straight guys, even if the "buyer" is a cute, youngish Thai. And there are some of those on the scene.
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What would u say is the average age of the boys working the bars ?
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
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a447
I seriously doubt any hot young gay guy would either "enjoy" having sex with me or in any way get "turned on" by me. Harsh perhaps but then I'm a realist.
As far as I'm concerned it is all about the money. Nothing more, nothing less.
Many Older gay men will cling to their delusions until the end.. Reality denied is still reality!
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
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a447
I seriously doubt any hot young gay guy would either "enjoy" having sex with me or in any way get "turned on" by me.
Don't cut yourself short.
There is no shortage of gays in Thailand (male or female) who actually prefer having sex with, and relationships with, older partners. Granted, this is certainly not the majority, and hooking up a guy with this preference is no easy task - but it's definitely possible.
You have a wonderful personality and an abundance of "good karma", and Thais are much more attuned to these elements of "substance" than young guys in the West IMO.
Nothing in life is free. And relationships, regardless of differences in age, gender, religion, or signs of the zodiac, are no different.
I have a good friend (in his mid 70's) who's been trying to find a boy to enter into a serious relationship with for years - but so far no luck. Every time I see him he's with a different boy and they're always "Dream Boys" who you can imagine seeing starring in a TV soap opera one day.
We sat having drinks one night and he asked me what I thought he was doing wrong. After thinking about it for a minute - I told him to try picking an ugly one. He thought that was hilarious and laughed hysterically. I just chuckled.
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My experiences in various saunas in Thailand- Bangkok, Pattaya, Chiang Mai-.suggest that there are cases of young, cute Thais being attracted to us. Not many. In fact, very few. But some. It even happened to me twice in a London sauna.
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
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Oliver2
My experiences in various saunas in Thailand- Bangkok, Pattaya, Chiang Mai-.suggest that there are cases of young, cute Thais being attracted to us. Not many. In fact, very few. But some. It even happened to me twice in a London sauna.
Oliver, are you saying you met a young, cute Thai guy, twice, in a London sauna?
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Yes.... in Chariots, Shoreditch. Two different ones. I was sixty or so at the time. However, my memory played me false; the first was from a border town in Malaysia. Ethnically similar to Thais. By the way, a lot more than "met"!
And then, I met a different Thai- youngish and decent-looking- in Babylon about the same time. His opening line was, "I've seen you at Chariots, haven't I?" I wasn't certain if I remembered him; we certainly had not "met".
But we did in Babylon.
I have to admit that, surprised as I was by these encounters, the chances of my reproducing them now must be.......slim. Or non-existent.
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My 2 regular guys in Thailand actually do enjoy our time in bed together. I've written about this before.
But I think it's simply because they enjoy the sex and would always have a good time, regardless who they are fucking.
Both guys are straight and regard the sex simply as a chance to get off. And being straight means there is no need for sexual attraction to get a hard-on; they get hard because it's their job. It doesn't really matter ff the client is attractive. That's irrelevant.
Young, hot gay guys - the type I prefer - are only interested in similar guys and I think they would find it very difficult to enjoy sex with a guy old enough to be his grandfather who didn't turn them on at all.
I also think that the situation described above would not necessarily pertain to those in a genuine relationship. In that case,sex is more than just a physical act.
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The guy in the first pic is 30 years old. The guy in the second pic is 70.
Which one do you think has a better chance of finding a young Thai boyfriend?
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I need time to think about that.
What I don't need to spend time on is the following; many Thai guys keep their looks for years after we do. There's a couple of guys (retired from the scene in Pattaya where I'd met them in the early 2000s) that I still see regularly when I'm in Pattaya. One is thirty -eight, the other (I think) a year or so younger. In the UK , they'd pass for twenty years old. Amazing. And desirable.
And the post about my sauna experiences in the UK have just reminded me that I once had an enjoyable time with a guy from Singapore. It turned-out he was fifty; I'd assumed that he was in his twenties.
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Sun boy bar was halved for a while and now closed and moved across from Dragon Music Bar. The new location was where
the lady bar was for a week or two..
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I thought home bar was run by Zac from scotland?
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Re: New boy beer bars and one reopened, in Jomtien Complex.
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aot871
I thought home bar was run by Zac from scotland?
Zac does run @Home Bar. It is now possible to have a conversation in @Home Bar without the extremely loud music from Sun Bar..