Re: Who here is truly monogamous?
Can someone explain to me why monogamy is so highly valued? From what I can tell, those who insist on monogamy are placing the price of their relationship on their partner being deprived of the pleasures of sexual adventuring. If you truly loved your partner wouldn't you want them to find as much pleasure in life as possible? I also think that requiring monogamy is laying the groundwork for deceit. Even if one doesn't bed another, I think wanting to is pretty close to the same thing - and that lust is part of being human. Also, does monogamy extend to masturbation? The whole idea seems nutty to me.
Re: Who here is truly monogamous?
Re: Who here is truly monogamous?
Monogamy..well i once described it like this I absolutely love vanilla ice cream and always go back to it. But everyone once in a while i have to have some maple walnut or coffee or chocolate or other scrumptious flavor Ice cream is so yummy you just have to try them all. But I will still go back to Vanilla cause thats the one I love best of all. Now I can't say it's good for anyone else but I don't have to. It works for me, that's what matters.... me and my....
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Monogamy is a decision for the only two people involved and no one else.
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And let's not forget that Matt makes his living by sucking up to pornographers yet he can't comprehend infidelity. Oh dear me.
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And let's not forget that Matt makes his living by sucking up to pornographers yet he can't comprehend infidelity. Oh dear me.
You sound like an decrepit old Victorian Spinster from a Charles Dickens novel. Is it lonely on that planet you seem to occupy wherever it is?
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And let's not forget that Matt makes his living by sucking up to pornographers yet he can't comprehend infidelity. Oh dear me.
You sound like an decrepit old Victorian Spinster from a Charles Dickens novel. Is it lonely on that planet you seem to occupy wherever it is?
And what planet sir are you from!
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You sound like an decrepit old Victorian Spinster from a Charles Dickens novel.
Which character in which novel in particular are you basing that on? I'm familiar with all of Dickens' works but that particular characterisation doesn't ring any bells. Perhaps you can enlighten us (but I suspect not)? You're surely not going to suggest Miss Haversham?
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wow what's with all the haters?
it amuses me how people always see the world through their own experiences.
expats in pattaya see thailand as gogo bars and money boys and little else.
old promiscuous queens spending their retirement on hookers see the entire
gay world as drugs and prostitution.
maybe there's a whole world out there you're just simply unfamiliar with.
i have many monogamous gay friends. it's not as uncommon as you may
think. anyone can get laid. it takes more than 800 baht and a boner to
have a meaningful relationship.
so kudos to matt, i say. i'm single now but when i'm in a relationship i
much prefer being monogamous over an open relationship. it feels better
giving all of myself to one person who does the same with me.
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Maybe there's a whole world out there you're just simply unfamiliar with. I have many monogamous gay friends. It's not as uncommon as you may think, anyone can get laid. It takes more than 800 baht and a boner to have a meaningful relationship.
So kudos to matt, i say. i'm single now but when i'm in a relationship i much prefer being monogamous over an open relationship. it feels better
giving all of myself to one person who does the same with me.
I couldn't agree more with you netrix, and what Matt does or might not do for a living has absolutely nothing to do with his relationship or indeed his original post. It doesn't matter what he or some others post in here they would get attacked or belittled whatever!