Originally Posted by
cdnmatt
Up to you dude. In my eyes, shrugging your shoulders and saying, "I'm only human" is a pretty lame excuse, especially when you're potentially throwing away a 12 year relationship.
There's a difference here. I think it's colmx who has a really open relationship with his BF, but they've previously discussed it, agreed, and are totally fine with it, so cool deal. You however went behind your BFs back, slept with one of his best friends, and are confused as to why he's so nonchalant about it.
Someone (or mulitple people) are going to end up really hurt out of this ordeal. Again, enjoy your next trip to Asia.