a means to an end........
Most of us living in Thailand have witnessed Thai boys and girls at the internet cafes with three or four or more farangs on screen and they are
telling each one that they love him and they miss them and the reason the need the money.. While most farangs realize it is a con game, many
farangs also play the I love you game for their own reasons and sometimes it is the Thai boy that believes the farang and he gets hurt..
It is a game and the author was lucky that this encounter started off well and that he at least got his jollies for a while..Probably, the Vietnamese
guy had two or three or more farangs whom he was meeting in BKK and probably moved on to a better prospect, maybe with more money or just a sexier
body or more handsome face.. The fact that he had a laptop would indicate to me that he was not just in contact with one farang.. He probably
didn't like the farang or thought he could do better.. It sure wasn't love!!
I recently had a boy tell me he loved me on the first off..I was amused and laughed and told him I had many years experience in Thailand
and that I like many boys and have many boyfriends etc.. I made the mistake of giving him my mobile number and he started the I love you
SMS and phone calls..The sex was excellent and I offed him a couple of more times and then he started telling me how he wanted to quit go go
dancing and start a business..His birthday was fast approaching and he had to go to his village for a family ocassion.. When I continued to tell
him in English and Thai (mai dai works wonders as it means "cannot") that I liked him but didn't love him or want him for a boyfriend, he just
keep up the SMS and last time I went to his bar, he was pouting and pleading with me about his love and upcoming birthday but I held firm and repeated
that "I am the boss, I like sex, I like many boys and don't want a boyfriend" and he finally seemed to get it when I refused to buy him a drink,
or offer him a seat and told him I would not go with him for his birthday.. Even great sex is not worth getting into the emotional trap and all the
bullshit of the I love you crap.. I was actually insulted that this boy would think I was so stupid to fall for the lies, especially after he knew my long
history and I made it clear that I didn't love him but liked the sex.. He will no doubt find a sucker in Pattaya who believes him and falls for
the con game and rescues him from the go go bar and sets him up in business..good luck to all and I don't love you or even like you......... :cat:
It's been said it before:
There are a million stories in the naked city.
Come here.
Read all about 'Asian culture'--And (when you are thoroughly confused) forget it all!
I truly believe 'They' are as individual as anyone--And wonder (But not too much) if 'they' are 'acting' the stereotype? Acting: because 'They' think--&/or have been told, &/or we prove it by our actions--we expect it.
If I understand correctly; everything was fine until you asked for (verbal) thanks. Until that point; was he, by his actions, showing you he cared? Or might he have thought he was?
There's this '[i]thought' :drunken: from the (Stupid) 70's movie: Love Story; (Dumb, whiny) theme song: ) Love Means You Don't Have to Say You're Sorry. It might be saying, "I love you," covers a lot of ground; fortunate or unfortunate, inaccurate deception, be that as it may.
That's why some (Catty-whup-em.) lean toward the 40's: "I Told You That I Love You, Now Get Out!"
And I'm not making light of your situation...well, no more than I do of anything else in life. How can one take seriously anything we enter...the way we enter life? By way of a...ugh!...I can't even type the word!
So now you know all you need know about Thai Culture and the Naked City; stop picking at the saddle sore and get back on the horse!...Before you wake up tomorrow--And find you're 93! (Like Pearl.)
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Originally Posted by baziel
ps : not copy cat ! :albino:
No, that's a copy rabbit.
And, just for the record, there's only one game I play with num: Hide the Sa...ng Thip. (What did you think I was going to say?)