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If a falang were injured or even murdered in revenge for humiliations suffered by a Thai whom he had taken into his apartment for some sort of S/M session, and the falang had been using a message board to advertise his proclivities, there may be legal implications. And the same may be true if a Thai national complained to the police about his or her treatment.
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TaoR: Exactly. So either it's true in which case that's lovely stuff on a public forum or it isn't true in which case why is he writing it. A genuine heads I win tails you lose case Latin.
But surely it can't be true. As I said, how plausible is it that a guy would enrol in a school to learn English in Holland?? Wouldn't be be studying Dutch??
See, Latin? You need to think things through before you post.
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If a falang were injured or even murdered in revenge for humiliations suffered by a Thai whom he had taken into his apartment for some sort of S/M session,.....
Thank you, Oliver. That's the point I've been trying to make. Someone could get hurt. So the free speech / put him on Ignore argument is invalid in this case.
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a447: So if it can't be true can anyone tell me why his stuff is here because I can think of no reason whatsoever.
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When Neal ran this board he told me in a pm that he didn't believe Latin's bullshit but he thought he was good for the board - he added interest and something different.
But even he found one of Latin's frothing-at-the-mouth frenzied posts about his S&M fantasies too much for the board and so banned him for a month.
As for his totally unbelievable stories, such as the live-in boarder (who is probably fluent in Dutch by now) they don't bother me. They shouldn't be banned -they add an unintended comedy element to the forum. And to be honest, I just love dissecting them and pointing out all the totally implausible scenarios. Just leave out the vile description of humiliation.
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My two cents, posters openly advocating banning a member just because they find his posts offensive, or because they don't agree with them should be utterly ashamed.
Whatever happened to freedom of speech. Maybe some of these posters have been in Thailand too long, and now suddenly believe the human rights abuses and curtailment of freedom of speech by the current regime are normal and acceptable ?
As long as Latin is within the forum rules, he can post his content freely and should be able to without other members asking for a ban, when one is quite clearly not warrented.
I for one quite often get a chuckle out of his posts, and let's be honest here, this site is about the Thai male sex for hire scene. Hardly surprising that posts like those of Latin appear here. I find them not all that shocking or beyond imagination.
As to respect, sorry but we are not talking about a waiter in a restaurant, or a hotel receptionist, we are talking about people who prostitute themselves for some money because they either like it, or more likely because there is a financially necessity.
In that light, any act of sex puts the sex worker at a disadvantage, not only the "deviant" behaviour Latin is talking about, holier than thou and all of that.
I am not saying those guys don't deserve respect, but let's call a spade a spade here.
Instead of being nasty and whinging about this particular poster, put him on ignore or simply scroll by his posts. Problem solved without showing your nasty side, a win-win.
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The world wide web has spawned so much and sadly it has opened a Pandora's Box...
People can say and post anything; with no filters and no way to verify what they say. I can get on Facebook at any time and read some of the things my friends and family have posted and I cannot help but wonder, "WTF?!"
Facts, truth, and logic have just been kicked to the curb...
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"Truthiness" or the idea that as long as something feels right and or fits your narrative its good to go. Taste? Threw that out the window years ago. Truth? Kicked to the curb. Integrity? Who cares.
Latin can and will post what ever he wants, where ever he wants, when ever he wants and that is now the world that we live in. All we can do is to voice our disgust and move on...
Justaguy, I have to disagree with you in regards to your attempt to claim that we are talking about sex workers and somehow their line of work does not deserve that they be treated with decency and respect.
They are human beings that provide a service. As such they are no different than a waiter or a hotel receptionist who also provide a service.
If one feels that because someone in Thailand provides a service that one is obviously willing to partake of then if one feels a desire to punish them, or debase them, or throw their earned tip across the floor in public then obviously one has issues with ones sexuality and or intimacy with another human being.
We are well beyond the point where anything can be done to stop Latin from posting whatever it is he wants to post. But can protest and denounce whatever it is he does post that we find offensive; and we should, regardless of the "truth" and or "truthiness" of what he says.
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The consensus appears to be moving from banning Latin to just banning his disgusting posts.
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hardly surprising that posts like those of Latin appear here
What other posts are you referring to? Latin is the only member making such posts.
How can a sex worker be "put at a disadvantage" if he "likes it"?
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I'm not saying those guys don't deserve respect
Yes, you are.You even apologised for saying it.
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As to respect, sorry but we are not talking about.....
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Whatever happened to freedom of speech.
Another of the freedom of speech without the usual responsibilities brigade. Please read posts 112, 113 and 116.
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It is perfectly incorrect to say that anyone can say/write anything they want
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Justaguy: I think you've answered your own questions. We are all of us rampant sexually, travelling all over Asia (the world) hiring money boys as though the world is about to end. Not one of us is prudish in any way whatsoever and we all have our own likes when it comes to the pleasures of the flesh. And we find Latin offensive. You really have to push the boat out to repulse your average gay man.
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The consensus appears to be moving from banning Latin to just banning his disgusting posts.
What other posts are you referring to? Latin is the only member making such posts.
How can a sex worker be "put at a disadvantage" if he "likes it"?
Yes, you are.You even apologised for saying it.
Most of those sex workers do not like to having to go with guys twice or three times their age. They enter this business because they don't see another way out. I personally know a few of these guys, and pretty much all of those have expressed regret entering that business.
If they are lucky, they don't encounter people like Latin, but that is a pretty slim chance. Because guys like Latin do frequent this particular business. Even though he might be the only one on here expressings his views in the way he does, he is far from the only one actually executing the acts he is talking about.
Yes even sex workers do reserve respect, but their choice to sell their body to anyone willing to off them, does put the respect part under pressure. Pressure that is mounting anyway, from the bar because they want as many off as possible, up to pressure to reach a certain amount so bills can be paid, mouths can be feed.