For many sexual orentation is a discovery process
When I met my BF 3 years ago, he said he was 80/20, with 80% being gay. He had sex one time with a Thai girl back in Isarn when he was 18, he is 26 now. He said it was her idea and he was drunk but he liked it.
Recently he began talking about sex with ladies and began asking me questions as I was married for most of my 20's. I asked him if he wanted to have sex with a lady and he said yes. I said it was OK with me and we went off to soi cowboy to find one.
He was very nervous and I noticed he began drinking more than usual. We talked to several and he kept finding excuses not to off this one or that one. Two ladies came up to us and sat with us and the BF was very uncomfortable.
After hours of looking and meeting Thai ladies, he announced that he now want to retract the 20% gay and wants to go home. Sex with lady, bad idea.
Do I have to turn in my rainbow flag?
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I understand that the definition of gay and str8 is not the same in LOS.
Ok, guys, bring me into the new milennium. What *are* the definitions of gay and straight these days?
To me, a curmudgeon born deep in the last millenium, gay meant having sex with the same gender, and straight meant having sex with the opposite gender. Bi-sexual was the term for one who would have (or prefer to have) sex with either gender.
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My bf was a go go boy. ... He is straight. ... We still enjoy sex.
Assuming the author of those comments and his bf are both male, in the Old World that would make his bf gay (or bi-sexual). In these changed days, what determines if a male who has sex with another male is gay, or if he is straight? Heck, maybe I'm straight but don't know it?
Has straight become a euphemism for same-sex participants who would rather not be bonking the same sex?