Re: A three way with friends
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Originally Posted by Wesley
All the while I knew my Bf Bahtiar was in Issikul lake with who knows who for 3 months and me here waiting for him to come back, he comes back three days after I leave for business in the USA. I am alone now with my computer and a hard on that tells me I really missed a great three way but, I still have two great friends ... what would you have done.?
Since you asked: I'd have gotten my satisfaction out of knowing I was doing a kind act for some friends, that I was being "a good boy" regarding my BF and that I wasn't risking screwing up two friendships and a relationship.
...of course, if the discomfort from being a "good boy" got bad enough I would probably have sought some satisfaction of a more private sort in the shower before going to bed alone.
It sounds like you have some real doubts about your BF Bahtiar. If I couldn't resolve those with him I might think it wise to end the relationship - either by mutual agreement or however - and then see if something might develop between myself and one of the other two "friends."
Now let's see what we hear from those with a philosophy of life somewhere to the left of WHOOPIE. :cheers:
You are peobably right on both counts
bathir is good man extremely jealous, but a god man. Good heart good Mainers all you look for in a person My be The problem is me not bahtiar.
Wesley