My b/f want to marry and take me to meet hs family.
after a 5 year relationship with a Thai boy whiched finished last year (boredom mainly) i met a new boy (from a bar in BKK) seem genuine enough given there circumstance. we have had a few holidays together, CM,BKK, Krabi, Hong Kong. we get along great a good laugh i give him a monthly allowance any tip good when I'm in Thailand,, we chat on phone a lot, email and msn msg. he speaks good English, 23y/o sex is great and company good too. I'm meeting his family in the north in \new year, already met his str8 brother, b/f is str8 i think has had g/f before. but is a great man2man.
hes talked about marriage in passing twice now, Ive just brushed of the question. not sure my meaning of marriage is his? can you help. I am pretty sure he will move to the north when he can afford to do so, and i guess he will marry and have kids like most Thais. some advice from those more experienced appreciated.
Re: My b/f want to marry and take me to meet hs family.
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Originally Posted by jingmith
hes talked about marriage in passing twice now, Ive just brushed of the question. not sure my meaning of marriage is his? can you help. I am pretty sure he will move to the north when he can afford to do so, and i guess he will marry and have kids like most Thais. some advice from those more experienced appreciated.
If I had to hazzard a guess, I'd say his meaning of the word marriage is: "I'll move to the north get married have kids and jingmith's money will pay for ALL of it."
married to the family..........
Marriage, like many things means different things to different people..First of all, it means nothing at all to the straight boys except money..The
gay boys may want a gold ring (my first b/f and I got matching ones), a party perhaps blessed by a monk, legal entanglements involving your money, condo, house, or just a verbal committment..
I bought the gold rings and thought a party would be nice but the b/f (gay for sure) only wanted the ring.. Years later, he still has the ring and I was surprised it didn't get pawned or sold.. Believe me, you don't want the extended family over your house/condo for a long visit and everyone in the family needs dental, medical, educational or some other needs paid for.. You better have deep pockets and great patience if you only have one bathroom...
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"Deep pockets...if you only have one bathroom."
Deep pockets. with plastic linings!