Re: The Boy in Friendship.
I suggest you forget this boy and look for someone who is definitely gay and more available. Shop somewhere else.
Re: The Boy in Friendship.
I suggest you ignore Mancs advice. Go there, smile and say hello. What's the worst that can happen?
Re: The Boy in Friendship.
Thanks for the two pieces of advice from Mancs & arsenal.
I'm in a quandry.
A quote (adjusted for gender) from Eric Gamalinda in 'My Sad Republic" may be apt right now:
"Let him remain where he is. A constellation away"
Re: The Boy in Friendship.
Ah, but thaiguest, faint heart never won fair man (idiom adjusted to suit the situation).
IтАЩm with arsenal, as he suggests, next time you go there, smile and say тАЬHelloтАЭ. After all, youтАЩre simply being polite and it commits neither party to anything in particular. If that doesnтАЩt spark a conversation, then on your next visit, you can progress to, тАЬHi! How are you today?тАЭ
From little acorns and all that . . . :x
Re: The Boy in Friendship.
After he gives you the bag drop it say thanks if he helps you retrieve it the ask him his name.
Re: The Boy in Friendship.
I hope you realise, thaiguest, that by posting these tantalising snippets of information about him here you have ensured that dozens of steely-eyed, slobbery-lipped board members, many of whom may not have set foot in Friendship supermarket for years, are now preparing, if they are not already in the process, to go to said supermarket to check out the goods for themselves. If faint hopes of marital bliss still flicker in your breast, I suggest you abandon your quandry pronto and hie you back there. Stick a 1000 baht note to your forehead, smile, and if he still doesn't take the hint just tell him you think he's gorgeous. In Thailand (let alone Pattaya!) no one is going to punch your lights out for doing that.
Re: The Boy in Friendship.
Slip him a 20 Baht tip and a smile and a thank you.
Re: The Boy in Friendship.
advice #1: "just do it" (c)
advice #2: "there are no straight guys in Thailand, but just isn't enough vodka at party sometimes" (c)
advice #3: "better to do something and to regret about it 1 hour, than not to do something and to regret about it the rest of life"