Hello Max6969, "to be intimate with a boy there" Where? In massage places, it is rather mechanical, and purely sex, in the form of "fuck and finish". The one who showered with me afterwards was an exception, you rarely get that, and I will be back to his shop, and have another massage with him or another. When taking a boy from a bar or from online, I'm looking for more than just "fuck and finish", and would like to have an hour of foreplay. But even boys I meet for free can have completely different ideas of sex, and despite initial mutual attraction, activities are awkward and I don't get horny. Regards, Christian