Boy showers first?

Why is it safer to get the boy to shower first? Does the same apply at the end of the off?
Surely either way you are leaving the door open to theft?
Am I missing something?!!
G

[Brad the Impala]

You can hide your jewels while the boy is washing his!

[markie1]

You can hide your jewels while the boy is washing his!
Why just not shower together it makes it more Exciting,then you know your things are safe . :idea: and you can play with the jews in the shower

Am I missing something?!!

How would we know? Did you make an inventory?

Why just not shower together it makes it more Exciting,then you know your things are safe . :idea: and you can play with the jews in the showerNot all Thai boys are up for that

[neddy3]

You can hide your jewels while the boy is washing his!
Why just not shower together it makes it more Exciting,then you know your things are safe . :idea: and you can play with the jews in the shower

Jewish boys in the shower to play with? I'm yet to see that!

When he's in the shower, you can discretely put everything of value in the room safe, except for his tip which can be left in a drawer.
Then there are no problems no matter who is in the shower later on.

[1PR4BKK]

I usually "TRADE-Proof" my apartment before I even head out of the house so that when I arrive home with a Go-Go Boy, or whomever, I do not have to worry about hiding anything. Therefore, it does not matter if he showers first or not.

TRADE-Proofing = Securing all valuables in your home before TRADE (Go-Go Boy, Escort, Prostitute, etc) arrives.

I usually "TRADE-Proof" my apartment before I even head out of the house so that when I arrive home with a Go-Go Boy, or whomever, I do not have to worry about hiding anything. Therefore, it does not matter if he showers first or not.

TRADE-Proofing = Securing all valuables in your home before TRADE (Go-Go Boy, Escort, Prostitute, etc) arrives.

I would expand that to include any stranger I take back to my room. I secure anything of value to me or anything that belongs to the hotel I would rather not pay for to replace.

[dorayme]

I much prefer showering together. I don't take them if they don't agree. I've only had to ask one to leave when he didn't want to shower. Letting him shower first seems like a good idea. You can lock your double dead bolt and keep the keys with you then check what you didn't lock up on his departure.

[topjohn5]

I much prefer showering together. I don't take them if they don't agree. I've only had to ask one to leave when he didn't want to shower. Letting him shower first seems like a good idea. You can lock your double dead bolt and keep the keys with you then check what you didn't lock up on his departure.

So, the hotel rooms have keyed interior deadbolt on most of them? That seems fairly dangerous in the event you need to exit quickly, lol! Here that wouldn't be allowed by the Fire Marshall......

[dorayme]

Sorry, I missed the hotel room. My condo has a double dead bolt. What do we do if the room doesn't have a safe. Back to showering together.

[topjohn5]

Sorry, I missed the hotel room. My condo has a double dead bolt. What do we do if the room doesn't have a safe. Back to showering together.

Great for the beach as well as a room without a safe.....
http://www.pacsafe.com

[allieb]

When he's in the shower, you can discretely put everything of value in the room safe, except for his tip which can be left in a drawer.
Then there are no problems no matter who is in the shower later on.

You can also hang his cloths up for him while checking his pockets for weapons

[TrongpaiExpat]

You guys sure do obsess over the smallest details. Who showers first, together or not and what to do with your valuables. How about what foot first enter the tub upon proper adjustment of the water temperature?

In Bangkok, at both Sacha's and Park Plaza the wall in the shower facing into the room is a large glass window . . . nice view for you while your guy showers and a full view of the room while you are showering . . .

[netrix]

You guys sure do obsess over the smallest details. Who showers first, together or not and what to do with your valuables. How about what foot first enter the tub upon proper adjustment of the water temperature?

haha exactly! i agree on this topic. i've heard guys speculate that if a
boy suggests you shower first it means he wants the time to look through
your things for valuables to steal. actually, its an offer of respect. he's
possibly used to "showering" outdoors in a shared tub where the one who
showers first gets the clean water.

first or not, just take your wallet in the bathroom with you, give him a
soda and the remote control to the tv and quit stressing. believe me,
he's more interested in you just washing your smelly body than he is on
taking your things.

(the only money boy who ever stole from me was in america.)

[lonelywombat]

(the only money boy who ever stole from me was in america.)

The only money boys that have stolen from me have been freelancers from the beach or in Boyztown

I do enjoy breaking the ice with a go go boy particularly a newbie, by sharing the shower

If he says why, I always if I am going to suck your cock I want be sure it is clean

Usually that is a turn on . For a bald fat very old cunt that is a bonus

[Wesley]

I tend to only take as much with me out of the safe other than what I plan to spend including the tip for the boy, in the end if he takes that I have lost nothing more than my expected expenses for the night and Too much jewelry invites rough trade, leave it in the safe. If you take out with you the off fee your drinking expectations and his tip then you have nothing lost more than you expected and if the money is missing which was to be his tip he already has it. Open the door and send him home and stay clear of him and that particular bar unless you plan to complain to the bar owner which in my opinion, offers some help. Why risk a job by messing up an off. Everyone knows who you went home with if any thing goes wrong there is clear expectation as to when, why and where it happened. I tend to only make available money that would have been his any way so, there is no great loss. If you are worried about a few baht then you underestimated your night out. It only gets tricky if you are going to go to other clubs after the off. If so then you have to plan for a bit extra in case the cost of a second bar, say Dudes, is more expensive than you expect. If that is the case, I usually put my jeans in the closet with my other clothes so he really does not have enough time toy find all everything while I take a shower. In my case I have never been ask to take my shower first and usually they have the remote in hand and turned to some silly cartoons by the time I am out.

All the best!

Wesley

[Smiles]

Why just not shower together it makes it more Exciting,then you know your things are safe . :idea: and you can play with the jews in the showerNot all Thai boys are up for that
If you are a decent lover, not horribly obese, have a reasonably decent dick which works well most of the time, do not smell even after a shower, and can work your magic with grace, sensitivity, elan, and sensuality ... Thai guys will LOVE to shower with you. It is in fact, one of the things they do best.

So forget the first meeting/shower. Do your duty in the best way possible and that Thai man will be jumping in the shower with you at every possible opportunity after that.

I was once on a long car trip with my dear old man and we had gotten half way to our (far away) destination when something was said by me rather off the cuff along the lines of the incredibly boring Farang schtick of " ... I-do-so-much-for-you-so-what-the-hell-do-you-do-for-me? ... "
Consequently, at that particular moment in the conversation, he looked over at me witheringly (on the fucking high speed toll motorway through Bangkok!) and said: " ... I wash your asshole when we shower don't I? ... "

And that ~ dearest original poster ~ is how much Thai guys like to shower with you ... if you do right by them.

Cheers ...


And PS ... can anyone tell me what in hell Wes is talking about above???

Smiles - that was just priceless. I like his style!

[Smiles]

Thai guys have a way with breaking ice ... or as Farang's might say, putting things in perspective.
When he said that to me ~ all serious-like ~ my only reaction was to break into a major laugh fit ... almost on the floor of the passenger seat area. My cheeks (face that is) hurt from laughing, but the seriousness disappeared.
He's good!

Cheers ...

after a shower, and can work your magic with grace, sensitivity, elan, and sensuality ... Thai guys will LOVE to shower with you.The original question had to do with taking a total stranger home. While Thai boys have generally loosened up about their often overly-modest behaviour, I can report that I have never, ever seen one particular regular mem'sahib naked. It's always shower alone and lights off. He's a passionate lover so I'm not fussed. As you are a self-proclaimed monogamist in a long-term relationship I'd venture to suggest you are generalising from very limited experience

[Khor tose]

Why just not shower together it makes it more Exciting,then you know your things are safe . :idea: and you can play with the jews in the showerNot all Thai boys are up for that
If you are a decent lover, not horribly obese, have a reasonably decent dick which works well most of the time, do not smell even after a shower, and can work your magic with grace, sensitivity, elan, and sensuality ... Thai guys will LOVE to shower with you. It is in fact, one of the things they do best.

So forget the first meeting/shower. Do your duty in the best way possible and that Thai man will be jumping in the shower with you at every possible opportunity after that.

I was once on a long car trip with my dear old man and we had gotten half way to our (far away) destination when something was said by me rather off the cuff along the lines of the incredibly boring Farang schtick of " ... I-do-so-much-for-you-so-what-the-hell-do-you-do-for-me? ... "
Consequently, at that particular moment in the conversation, he looked over at me witheringly (on the fucking high speed toll motorway through Bangkok!) and said: " ... I wash your asshole when we shower don't I? ... "

And that ~ dearest original poster ~ is how much Thai guys like to shower with you ... if you do right by them.

Cheers ...

And PS ... can anyone tell me what in hell Wes is talking about above???


Now I owe you a drink. Thanks Smiles, another morning in the states starting off with a great laugh. On the Wes question, no.

... a few years back when I offed someone from one of the main places in BT who was definately a newbie, after we "did our thing" I paid him and he left the room he said "look I have not taken anything, touched his pockets, thank you so much etc". It was as if he was had some formal training of the subject. He was actually quite genuine, he obviously had been told what to do and what not to do to, to make the punters happy. I actually think, well I know I was, one of the his first he had done this sort of thing with. A few years later, yes, he knows the score and very confident.

[Wesley]

Why just not shower together it makes it more Exciting,then you know your things are safe . :idea: and you can play with the jews in the showerNot all Thai boys are up for that
If you are a decent lover, not horribly obese, have a reasonably decent dick which works well most of the time, do not smell even after a shower, and can work your magic with grace, sensitivity, elan, and sensuality ... Thai guys will LOVE to shower with you. It is in fact, one of the things they do best.

So forget the first meeting/shower. Do your duty in the best way possible and that Thai man will be jumping in the shower with you at every possible opportunity after that.

I was once on a long car trip with my dear old man and we had gotten half way to our (far away) destination when something was said by me rather off the cuff along the lines of the incredibly boring Farang schtick of " ... I-do-so-much-for-you-so-what-the-hell-do-you-do-for-me? ... "
Consequently, at that particular moment in the conversation, he looked over at me witheringly (on the fucking high speed toll motorway through Bangkok!) and said: " ... I wash your asshole when we shower don't I? ... "

And that ~ dearest original poster ~ is how much Thai guys like to shower with you ... if you do right by them.

Cheers ...


And PS ... can anyone tell me what in hell Wes is talking about above???

In short, take no extra jewlery , take only the amount you need and keep the rest in the safe until the guy is gone and shower when ever you like. if you do this even if they steal it, they have only slolen thier own tip and not more than you had panned to give them anyway. Excuse me I am putting up with quite a hangover.

sWed

The quantity of jewelry I require is precisely none.

The safe can be used for wallets, cash, mobile phones, keys, passport, netbook & the camera.
Although of course it is preferable to use the camera to provide some artistic pictures of ones guest.

By the way, has anyone had trouble fitting an Acer Aspire One in hotel safes anywhere?
I figure this should fit in most of them.

...trouble fitting an Acer Aspire One in hotel safes anywhere?

With lots of room to spare.

[Smiles]

" ... As you are a self-proclaimed monogamist in a long-term relationship I'd venture to suggest you are generalising from very limited experience ... "
... as I would suggest you stick to educational lectures on the theme of Aspects of Face-sitting: Sitters, Sitees, Shitees.

My point was that I doubt my guy is any different than many Thai guys when it comes to communal ablutions. They are all very clean, and like to stay that way.
I understand that you prefer "not so clean", but every man to his own butt.

Cheers ...

And PS ... can anyone tell me what in hell Wes is talking about above???

Graeca sunt, Rides, non leguntur (it's Greek, Smiles, you don't read that)

"sWed" Now he's even got a problem with his own name!

[Wesley]

And PS ... can anyone tell me what in hell Wes is talking about above???

Graeca sunt, Rides, non leguntur (it's Greek, Smiles, you don't read that)

"sWed" Now he's even got a problem with his own name!

I do read greek, and at least I have a name,

Wes

My point was that I doubt my guy is any different than many Thai guys when it comes to communal ablutions.As I expected - generalising from a sample size of one - very Bayesian

not[/i] so clean", but every man to his own butt.Is rimming the same as scat? I thought they are different? I don't recall the Colonel ever saying he is into scat. Has Smiles got it wrong again?

[Smiles]

" ... Is rimming the same as scat? ... "
It can be ... if you want it to be.

Cheers ...

[kjun12]

You guys sure do obsess over the smallest details. Who showers first, together or not and what to do with your valuables. How about what foot first enter the tub upon proper adjustment of the water temperature?


Oh, so true! You get a star.

[anakot]

Wesley writes "Too much jewelry invites rough trade, leave it in the safe."

As one who is into rough trade and a non jewellery wearer I'm going to have to change... Yes we can! So what have I got to wear and what is 'too much'...LOL

Finally have a name for what I do to my room "trade proofing"... Thanks. A great term. I used to do water proofing, weather proofing why not trade proofing!!

By the way showers are strictly verboten in this household until its all over red rover and we are ready to scat (pun intended).