Would you ever have unprotected sex with your BF

[allieb]

I would be interested to know how many board members have already or would in the future have sex with their Thai BF trick or whatever you want to call him and why.

[krobbie]

I would be interested to know how many board members have already or would in the future have sex with their Thai BF trick or whatever you want to call him and why.

The answer for me is NO. I would never have unprotected penetrative sex with my Thai (or any other nationality) bf as I am HIV+. I told my current Thai boyfriend early but as yet we haven't gone "the whole hog" in our sexual encounter which is also fine with me. We make do with other practices. But when The time arises, I have in my wallet two sachets. One a condom and the second lubricant and with the appropriate use by date.

I have been HIV+ since 1991 and I am as healthy as a horse (not necessarily hung like one) and am about to have my regular 3 month check before I return to LoS in January. My CD4 count is better than any healthy man in the street and I still have undetectable viral load. That'll do me (so to speak).

Cheers
krobbie

[thaiworthy-old]

I would be interested to know how many board members have already or would in the future have sex with their Thai BF trick or whatever you want to call him and why.

My last purchase of condoms dry-rotted out.

Actually I hardly use condoms, not by choice but by design. I too, make do with other practices, not for Krobbie's reasons, but because my disease is dehabilitating in a more specific area. My willie doesn't make wonka because I have been diabetic since age 40 and I am now nearly 57 years old. Penetration requires a pretty sustained stiffie, and sometimes even Viagra doesn't help. It's complicated to explain, and this really isn't something I want to go into detail to fully describe.

It is difficult to find local partners these days that understand one's diminished capacity. But even with this handicap, I still have lots of fun when returning to the LOS. Thank Buddha for oral sex! Thank Buddha and God for Thailand, and those obliging Thai men!

I would be interested to know how many board members have already or would in the future have sex with their Thai BF trick or whatever you want to call him and why.

Well I hope none of us here that are in a long term relationship allieb, would ever dream of calling our BF's a trick. l have a few names I call my BF, however trick, is not one of them. If this is a term that you would use for a BF, than I believe that you have a problem. A point you may like to consider clarifying.

Sorry to be a pedantic fucker, but I have not voted in your poll, as their wasn't an option for me to do so. This may be the case with others here too, three of whom I know for sure will have the same problem as I did.

What if you are in a long term monogamous relationship and have been for some time. In addition to this, you trust each other and know for certain, that there are no HIV problems. What is wrong with having sex without the use of a condom in this scenario? For those that may come back with the par for course reply, that I or anyone else here, would be stupid if we believe that our partners are monogamous also, no offence, but go and fuck yourself.

Just because you may never have had a relationship like this, doesn't mean that others haven't and in fact do. I tire sometimes at the continual derogatory remarks about Thai boys, with reference to how much none of them can be trusted, believed, or relied on.

In comparison to many farangs I have met, all I know is, that there are many Thai boys I would trust, believe and rely on, much more than I would any of them. Sure there are good farangs about and I am privileged to be able to call some of them my friends, but there are many bad fucker farangs as well.

Well guys, that goes both ways and although there are some right little shits about, as I will be the first to admit, there are also many Thai boys that I am happy to call my friend too.

Just to clarify a point, I mean friends in the true sense of the word. Something you should know about me, is I don't fuck my friends. Well not unless they specifically beg me to that is and; as someone that would do anything for a friend; how could I possibly refuse their request? http://i167.photobucket.com/albums/u152/GeorgeThai/biglaugh.gif



G.

If you can't trust your bf, who else can you trust?

Will your answer be any different if your bf isn't Thai?

[allieb]

Well I hope none of us here that are in a long term relationship allieb, would ever dream of calling our BF's a trick. l have a few names I call my BF, however trick, is not one of them. If this is a term that you would use for a BF, than I believe that you have a problem. A point you may like to consider clarifying.

Sorry to be a pedantic fucker, but I have not voted in your poll, as their wasn't an option for me to do so.

What if you are in a long term monogamous relationship and have been for some time. In addition to this, you trust each other and know for certain, that there are no HIV problems. What is wrong with having sex without the use of a condom

Just because you may never have had a relationship like this, doesn't mean that others haven't and in fact do. I tire sometimes at the continual derogatory remarks about Thai boys, with reference to how much none of them can be trusted, believed, or relied on.
G.


Goerge
To answer you questions

Sorry but my meaning of what you call you call your boy is . Long term relationship is called BF. Picked up in a bar on a trip to LOS and stays with you for the holiday trick. Can move up to BF after a relationship and trust develops. My poll was general about sex with every category and if you look at the vote there is a person who has voted I don't care about HIV which means to me he would do it with a trick or a BF and he doesn't care because he is a cunt.

Your situation seems easy to vote on you are in a monogamous relationship and know your HIV status no problem vote yes have both been tested and promised a monogamous relationship.

I had been in a relationship with a Thai boy for 4 years he to me was the one who was different from all the others treated me like a gentleman always concerned for my well being and that I was having a good time. Telephoned me twice a week when I wasn't in LOS( I always told him to hang up and called back at my expense) I gave him a generous allowance when not in LOS and paid him well when there. I was infatuated by him an blindly in love. I would jump down the throat of anyone who called him or trick pointing out that he was my BF and shut the fuck up. 4 years of bliss until exchanging pics with another farang over a beer in the UK we found out that we had the same BF. Not only that the farang tell me that he knew boy had two others as well as me. That meant we were 4 fools chasing him. Then came the bombshell farang tells me that boy has been HIV for 2 years. For one year I had been having unprotected sex with BF who had fooled me into believing we had something special. From that moment to me his name changed from BF to WHORE. So George been there done that and got badly burnt. I have moved on and forgotten about it all and only brought the subject up again because you think I may not have had a special BF.

I'm sure that there must be some genuine boys in Thailand but I do believe that are few and far between If you think you have found one then hang on to him and take good care of him.

[TrongpaiExpat]

If you can't trust your bf, who else can you trust?

Will your answer be any different if your bf isn't Thai?

Before I moved to Thailand, back in USA, I had a Chinese BF. We just about lived together for a year. We lived about a two hours drive from each other so he would come over on Friday and stay until Monday morning. He kept a room near his job. We both had weekends off from demanding jobs.

We were making plans for a life together. We were using condoms but after a while I did not see the point. I know I was not getting anything outside the relationship and how could he, we both worked Monday through Friday long hours. The plan was to get tested together two times, he kept putting it off.

To make a long story short, I never would have dreamed it but he found out he was having anonymous sex with guys at parks, bathrooms and other pick up places. He admitted to being the bottom and did not know if the insert-er was using a condom or not, sometimes not.

We ended out relationship. I got tested and was negative he told me he too was negative but at this point I did not believe anything he had to say.

I though I knew him very well and never suspected that he would be having unprotected sex. He often expressed disdain for those who cheat in a relationship. Also, I could never understand just how he found the time to engage in this activity during the week. We had a very active sex life and it ended generally with one for the road on Monday morning before we both went off to work.

Thanks for your post and the clarification you provided. I was sorry to hear about your experience and with regard to your partners name changing from BF to whore, I fully understand the way you felt.

My poll was general about sex with every category and if you look at the vote there is a person who has voted I don't care about HIV which means to me he would do it with a trick or a BF and he doesn't care because he is a cunt.

I couldn't agree with you more as far as this animal goes. Furthermore I believe him to be an 18 carat cunt.

Your situation seems easy to vote on you are in a monogamous relationship and know your HIV status no problem vote yes have both been tested and promised a monogamous relationship.

Apologies for not noticing this option, I have now voted. I have also booked an appointment at the opticians for tomorrow. http://i167.photobucket.com/albums/u152/GeorgeThai/biglaugh.gif

Lastly, with regard to your quote here:I'm sure that there must be some genuine boys in Thailand but I do believe that are few and far between If you think you have found one then hang on to him and take good care of him.

Don't worry; I intend to hang on to him real tight as well as taking good care of him, as he does me. Although what I say now will no doubt bring a few smirks to the faces of some, I know I have one of the genuine ones you talked of.

Chok Dee allieb,


George.

[Shuee]

good poll but more important i think you or someone should start one for those that play risks with bar guys!

as i do tend to think that they have more contact will other guys than just one manogomous bf does

[allieb]

good poll but more important i think you or someone should start one for those that play risks with bar guys!

as i do tend to think that they have more contact will other guys than just one monogamous bf does

Good point Shuee but I think as I have said before I'm sure there are a few genuine boys out there playing honest with their Farang partner. Most Bf's have originated from bars, promised monogamy with their farang and have upgraded from bar boy to BF. Many go back to the bar when farang leaves and just move on to another rectum dick or even pussy, whatever the case may be.