Why not judge the bar boys?

Hi all: Having followed this board for quite a while, it amazes me that one topic does not seem to be of much interest. Occasionally, some users write about go go bars (or beer bars) and judge such establishments by either complaining about whatever (e.g. the prices for drinks), or by praising/defending the bar. I have not noticed that users of this board deal with individual - identifiable - money boys. Why is that?

Wouldn┬┤t it be interesting to exchange our experiences with certain ladz who might be identified by the number they wear in the bar, their nickname, or even a face pic, for instance? I am talking about the boys general behavior towards the farang in the bar and after being offed, the ladz "character" or "personality" (if describable), whether the boy lives up to what he has promised to do and so forth... As a very active and convinced "butterfly", I would find such "individualized" reports extremely helpful.

Some might argue that such "personal" postings could violate the individual boys┬┤ "right" not to appear or to be mentioned in a "public" forum without consent. This objection is certainly to be treated seriously. On the other hand: In my case, almost all of my reminiscences (offs) would result in positive ratings of my ladz. So, the boys would get some free advertisement - I guess they would not mind (esp. during low season)... And if a specific boy really behaves like a jerk, why not tell and warn our folks?

All best -

I am talking about the boys general behavior towards the farang in the bar and after being offed, the ladz "character" or "personality" (if describable), whether the boy lives up to what he has promised to do and so forth... As a very active and convinced "butterfly", I would find such "individualized" reports extremely helpful.You're assuming boys deliver a consistent performance. From what boys tell me, they encounter arsehole customers as well as "good heart" ones, and often perform accordingly. After all, isn't one of the tests of a good hooker is that they know how to satisfy that particular customer - and all customers are different?

Plus you`re assuming you know their real names. Many have multiple personality disorder.

[dab69]

Hi all: Having followed this board for quite a while, it amazes me that one topic does not seem to be of much interest. Occasionally, some users write about go go bars (or beer bars) and judge such establishments by either complaining about whatever (e.g. the prices for drinks), or by praising/defending the bar. I have not noticed that users of this board deal with individual - identifiable - money boys. Why is that?

Wouldn┬┤t it be interesting to exchange our experiences with certain ladz who might be identified by the number they wear in the bar, their nickname, or even a face pic, for instance? I am talking about the boys general behavior towards the farang in the bar and after being offed, the ladz "character" or "personality" (if describable), whether the boy lives up to what he has promised to do and so forth... As a very active and convinced "butterfly", I would find such "individualized" reports extremely helpful.

Some might argue that such "personal" postings could violate the individual boys┬┤ "right" not to appear or to be mentioned in a "public" forum without consent. This objection is certainly to be treated seriously. On the other hand: In my case, almost all of my reminiscences (offs) would result in positive ratings of my ladz. So, the boys would get some free advertisement - I guess they would not mind (esp. during low season)... And if a specific boy really behaves like a jerk, why not tell and warn our folks?

All best -


"Stockholm syndrome?"

Homintern, I agree with you. Of course, most ladz will perform differently, depending also on the customers behavior. A boys "rating" - as proposed - would be always based on a single, subjective opinion and to be regarded as such. Still, don┬┤t you think that people - after reading some individualized reports - could get some good hints as to which boy might be the right one to off next?

these guys ,long time I used the word boy before, are humans not flesh, go to cfs, they had it sometimes, but i think it has gone. Maybe I am a puritan, but I would never tell here in public who was a good fuck, but maybe I will tell it in private.

extending the topic accordingly would be nothing but fair. ..

Hi all: Having followed this board for quite a while, it amazes me that one topic does not seem to be of much interest. Occasionally, some users write about go go bars (or beer bars) and judge such establishments by either complaining about whatever (e.g. the prices for drinks), or by praising/defending the bar. I have not noticed that users of this board deal with individual - identifiable - money boys. Why is that?

Wouldn┬┤t it be interesting to exchange our experiences with certain ladz who might be identified by the number they wear in the bar, their nickname, or even a face pic, for instance? I am talking about the boys general behavior towards the farang in the bar and after being offed, the ladz "character" or "personality" (if describable), whether the boy lives up to what he has promised to do and so forth... As a very active and convinced "butterfly", I would find such "individualized" reports extremely helpful.

Some might argue that such "personal" postings could violate the individual boys┬┤ "right" not to appear or to be mentioned in a "public" forum without consent. This objection is certainly to be treated seriously. On the other hand: In my case, almost all of my reminiscences (offs) would result in positive ratings of my ladz. So, the boys would get some free advertisement - I guess they would not mind (esp. during low season)... And if a specific boy really behaves like a jerk, why not tell and warn our folks?

All best -


"Stockholm syndrome?"


What do you mean? I can┬┤t see any connection whatsoever to the "Stockholm syndrome"...

[Smiles]

" ... As a very active and convinced "butterfly", I would find such "individualized" reports extremely helpful ... "
As a 'very' active butterfly, I would think you'd be the perfect person to start it off.
Go ahead ... fire away with your knowledge.

PS ... you may as well leave Homintern out of this, as he is pure vanilla: face-sitters only.

Cheers ...

[PinkSilom]

"Stockholm syndrome?"

I think there are too many instances when it is the Thai who is the more 'powerful'.

[Doug]

Also...maybe it would be worthwhile for a Thai guy to start a forum or thread where the boys could rate the farangs. They could name farangs with the name their given or, as Thai boys are want to do, they could use your real name that they find when snooping through your wallet. Most of them now have cell phones that take pictures so they could even post a picture of the farang. That way the business boys could check the internet and see what your like, how to get the most from you, how small your dick is and so on.

[andrewcraig]

I have not noticed that users of this board deal with individual - identifiable - money boys. Why is that?

Wouldn┬┤t it be interesting to exchange our experiences with certain ladz who might be identified by the number they wear in the bar, their nickname, or even a face pic, for instance? I am talking about the boys general behavior towards the farang in the bar and after being offed, the ladz "character" or "personality" (if describable), whether the boy lives up to what he has promised to do and so forth... As a very active and convinced "butterfly", I would find such "individualized" reports extremely helpful.

And if a specific boy really behaves like a jerk, why not tell and warn our folks?

All best -

Having had a long time friend that I off whenever I visit and having listened to his side of the story, I think it would be interesting to" identify farang by their name or nickname or even a face pic and their general behavior towards boys in the bar they off,their character and personality and whether the farang lives up to his promises. And if the farang really behaves like a real jerk why not warn all the other bars and boys"

He works in a bar that a poster on the former board posted a poor report about a boy he had offed An expat busybody after reading the post immediately went into the bar and demanded the boy be sacked. This was even though he knew neither of the parties, and only knew what was posted. The bar owner however had seen the boy when he came back to the bar and knew the full story

There was a poster on baht-stop who listed 10 points a boy had to satisfy him to get paid 1000b.
Imagine the unbiased reports about boys that did not reach his high level of service.

[PinkSilom]

I don't think the bar boys need to Doug. They have already perfected a very effective system of passing on information; they spill the beans the second they get back to the bar. Trust me, by the time you walk into a bar a second time, all the boys know exactly how small your dick is.

You are so right on; the boys know everything, and not just the boys that work in the same bar. During the day the boys hang out with their friends from other bars and when they see an ex customer they talk. It's human nature.

Almost all of the boys have a bar name that is not their real name. I hang out in a certain host bar and I never take a boy off from that bar; I just want a quiet place to hang out and chat while enjoying a few drinks. The boys will become your friend if you treat them with respect and friendship over an extended period of time and they know that you will not be customer. I have had many a boy tell me his real name and ask me to call him by his real name. I greatly appreciate their acknowledgment of our friendship.

Also...maybe it would be worthwhile for a Thai guy to start a forum or thread where the boys could rate the farangs. They could name farangs with the name their given or, as Thai boys are want to do, they could use your real name that they find when snooping through your wallet. Most of them now have cell phones that take pictures so they could even post a picture of the farang. That way the business boys could check the internet and see what your like, how to get the most from you, how small your dick is and so on.

Nice idea. It is up to the thai boys to share their information about us farangs.

The point is though: Isn┬┤t this a farang message board in the first place? So, what is wrong with sharing (farang) information among us which might be of interest for one or another?

Also, I would like to point out that I - and hopefully the rest of us - have certainly no intention whatsoever to humiliate the ladz by any postings. Quite the contrary: As I have stressed before, almost all of my personal experiences were very nice and would be thus a promotion for the boys.

As I have stressed before, almost all of my personal experiences were very nice and would be thus a promotion for the boys.
Are your personal experiences, sexual preferences and judgement of performance going to be the same as another farang who might consider 'offing' a boy on such a recommendation? I very much doubt it.

It is a case of 'each to his own', unless of course the report writer was required to go into intimate and personal details of the encounter with a particular boy. Also Homintern is right to say that a boy may perform very differently for another farang, based on how he is being treated. Any attraction or revulsion the boy may have to that particular farang would also be a factor in the boy's performance.

For me such reports would be a useless exercise and I personally wouldn't 'off' a boy based on someone else's biased and individual recommendation, however sincerely it was given.

[catawampuscat]

As many have already stated, the boys behave differently with different customers and one farang's 10 is another's
2 (out of 10).
What would be really helpful would be alerts such as for silicon/oil injected cocks lovers only, or an alert if he has
anal warts, or if he is a thief or plays the "sure you can fuck me game in the bar and clenches the butt checks in your
room".
Obviously the negatives are pretty universal as few appreciate self deformed cocks, or anal warts or a thief or a con
artist who wastes your time with bullshit about their abilities. Three or four or more in agreement and only a fool
would waste their time and money.
I doubt the boys would be wise to this and not change their name/number or bar but it could be useful for the useless.

This might work better on a forum like CFS where the posters don't pretend it is not all about sex and treating sex workers
like they are your friends.

I'd start with a real waste of time at Happy Boys in the Sunee area but I can't remember his name or # , but he lied like a rug
and smoked without making contact, if you get my drift. Then he demanded a bigger tip to end this lousy experience. :cat:

[lonelywombat]

In feb this year I posted about #77 the new spunk at Wildwestboys who later was transferred to Crystals

I could not get another off with him for the next 10 days, yet there were many saying not my cup of tea.

Every time I have had a"hot number" given to me, I have always been disappointed.

I doubt if it would be succesful as few people have the same taste or needs

[puckered_penguin]

I offed Off but he would not come out without Out, so I offed Off and took out Out. OutтАЩs friend Boy joined and he came with Man who was younger than Boy. Got to my room and K and O were waiting so I asked Off it was ok for O and K to join. Then who do we see but Not and he was not ok with O and K bnut I said fuck It who was already inside the room. It was ok with all but Out was too shy to fuck Off so Boy said he would fuck Man but Man was not a man and тАж.

It seemed a good idea when I started

[quote="buaseng"][quote="Caltom"]

It is a case of 'each to his own', unless of course the report writer was required to go into intimate and personal details of the encounter with a particular boy.

This is exactly my point! What if such a report would "go into intimate and personal details of the encounter with a particular boy"? Would you come to another conclusion?

I offed Off but he would not come out without Out, so I offed Off and took out Out. OutтАЩs friend Boy joined and he came with Man who was younger than Boy. Got to my room and K and O were waiting so I asked Off it was ok for O and K to join. Then who do we see but Not and he was not ok with O and K bnut I said fuck It who was already inside the room. It was ok with all but Out was too shy to fuck Off so Boy said he would fuck Man but Man was not a man and тАж.

It seemed a good idea when I startedLOL A classic

It is a case of 'each to his own', unless of course the report writer was required to go into intimate and personal details of the encounter with a particular boy.

This is exactly my point! What if such a report would "go into intimate and personal details of the encounter with a particular boy"? Would you come to another conclusion?

NO. What suits you may not suit me !! That's exactly MY point.

This kind of information is already available on a Thai language site -- www.thaimalemassage.com (http://www.thaimalemassage.com) They rate the boys in both bars and massage parlors. Quite interesting reading.

This kind of information is already available on a Thai language site They rate the boys in both bars and massage parlors. Quite interesting reading.

It is not only interesting and enjoyable to read such information. It might actually also help people to find the right lad, so I disagree with buaseng. Compare it with the rating which is used at eBay: most buyers also rely on information (which describes the seller┬┤s attitude and performance) which is necessarily given from former "biased" customers... Please, don┬┤t mention the "boys are no meat" argument here again - I treat my boys very well, and I don┬┤t regard them as "meat". But I can┬┤t see why a detailed description of a sexual/intimate encounter with a specific boy is allegedly useless - according to buaseng - for other butterflies.

I believe that many farangs would take at least a look at an individualized money boy who is honestly rated (if the report is promising), just out of curiosity. And if the farang likes the boy, there would be a good chance for an off.

So far, the majority of the posters on this thread seem to be rather critical though.

all i can say is watch out for Number 18 in kaos, very bad experience i had........ & the behaviour in the bar was shocking.

Some of you may remember the late Hooboys Male4Males escort review site.
There were thousands of reviews from the world over and they were, in the main, very objective and helpful.
I asked, in the forums, why there there were no reviews from Thailand,and the consensus was that because boys change their names, numbers, and working places so often, correct identification would probably be impossibe and so there was little point in writing reviews. Probably true.
Anyway, for starters see Jak or Ton at the Forest Bar in Sunee for some fun!
G

Hooboy's reviews live on here:

Daddy's Reviews (http://www.daddysreviews.com)

You'll even find a Thai or two there.

[Impulse]

I would recommend Not who used to work in Euroboys.He is kind of a femboy but is well built and well endowed,Im a top but he seems to be versatile and Im sure could satisfy any bottoms out there.Doesnt speak much but is very eager to please and maintained his interest after repeat offs.Must be about 19 now.Loved his hair.

I have off'ed go-go boys only twice. But both of these experience are way below expectation.
The boy from Jupiter is super good looking. I believe he is one of the star boys there. After I paid the bar fine and walked out with him, he wanted to eat supper first, then go to temple in the middle of night. Back in the hotel, he will only take shower alone, and his shower last forever, the sex was way below standard with very passive (and even unwilling) attitudes. He even asked for more money when I paid him afterwards.
The other experience was with a guy from Tawan Bar. This guy was fun and nice. However, he acted as if he did cum, and rushed to toilet to flush away his condom. He probably thought customers were stupid and naive.
I can tell you I am always a nice, gentle, polite and considerate customer. In both cases, I regreted offing them. Nowadays, I don't off go-go boys anymore. I would rather paying boys from streets or discos, then from go-go bars.
Someone told me that you have to be bossy and demanding, otherwise the go-go boys will walk all over you. Don't forget, they are the pros, and they are in the bussiness to make the most money with the least effort. It is a pure bussiness deal.

[Wesley]

Hooboy's reviews live on here:

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You'll even find a Thai or two there.

Couldn't find you any where in there

[llz]

From what I can read on the boards, I think you offed boys from the two bars which are generally regarded as having the boys with the worst attitude. For example you could read a thread currently running on CFS about "Jupiter offing", which roughly confirms what I say.
Thread on CFS (http://web.cruisingforsex.com/bb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=326944&perpage=15&pagenumber=1)
I have nothing against these bars as they probably are among the few bars in the whole Thailand I never entered, although visiting since more than ten years.
Try to go to more simple bars like Solid (from Tawan, go further in the soi, turn right and Solid will be on your left about 100 meters) or Screwboy in Patpong, or many others, and unless being very unlucky you will change your opinion about offing boys in Bangkok ...