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January 10th, 2007, 20:33
Have you met a Thai boy online who has really done you wrong in a big way?

Serious things like stealing from you, acting violent, blackmailing you, etc.

Not such things as bad fashion sense, incomplete douching, or not able to get hard at the sight of you ....

Don't you think it would be useful for people to post pictures of the really BAD boys out there as a warning to others?

Now, of course you wouldn't always have pictures, but if you met them online, you certainly would.

Just an idea, I imagine there are legal issues.

January 10th, 2007, 21:09
Bad bad idea.

January 10th, 2007, 21:20
Bad bad idea.
Yes, I do see see why, but it sure would be useful if people didn't abuse it.

January 10th, 2007, 21:46
if people didn't abuse it

Bwahahahaha! You stupid, stupid schmuck.

January 10th, 2007, 22:35
Have you met a Thai boy online who has really done you wrong in a big way?

Serious things like stealing from you, acting violent, blackmailing you, etc.


Actually, this is an interesting idea, as long as there are no pictures, phone numbers, no way to personally identify the Thai guy. But a compendium of bad Thai experiences would, I suspect, offer a refreshing counterpoint to the incessant "..don't their butts all smell like roses?" accounts which are usually posted.

Lunchtime O'Booze
January 10th, 2007, 22:49
afterall..you know what the Thais say-if you weren't in Thailand in the first place the "bad" thing couldn't have happened to you-hence it's your fault !!!

But certainly a thread on bad experiences we have all had ( no names , no pack drill) could make for interesting reading..but where would one start ??

January 10th, 2007, 23:27
Just an idea, I imagine there are legal issues.

There probably are legal issues.

If you hire a boy from a bar you are can normally be fairly sure that he is at least reasonably honest (unless you are absolutely stupid and leave valuables and cash lying around your room when it is out of your sight). If the bar is well run the boys will have had regular STD blood tests. A bad reputation quickly gets known around the bars and any half decent bar owner or manager would not employ someone who has such a reputation. Performance in bed is another thing and one man's bad boy may be another's idea of Heaven on earth !

I agree that a general thread allowing people to relate their bad experiences (without names) could prove amusing and/or entertaining and possibly informative.

Brad the Impala
January 10th, 2007, 23:44
I certainly want, and expect, to feel the young again.

January 11th, 2007, 00:16
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January 11th, 2007, 01:30
Have you met a Thai boy online who has really done you wrong in a big way?

Serious things like stealing from you, acting violent, blackmailing you, etc.

Not such things as bad fashion sense, incomplete douching, or not able to get hard at the sight of you ....

Don't you think it would be useful for people to post pictures of the really BAD boys out there as a warning to others?

Now, of course you wouldn't always have pictures, but if you met them online, you certainly would.

Just an idea, I imagine there are legal issues.


This idea should alternatively be extend. Bad foreigners – categorised by country and age group - could be framed too; regardless of any knowledge or awareness of Thai (local) customs, rules, and habits.

I can hear the outcry …..

January 11th, 2007, 02:04
Actually, if the Thai boys want to start a website to list bad foreigners, that is their right.

I think my idea is bad for this board but I still think a separate site, obviously based outside of Thailand, which had anonymous farang users post pictures of bad boys so that others could avoid them could be useful. This would be a public service and also if it became popular be a deterrent against criminals. In case you hadn't heard, there are a number of farangs who have been victimized by such criminals. You think this is OK and people shouldn't be warned?

Might as well extend it to reviews of sexual services, like escort ratings for those Thais who are publicly available sex professionals. Now, why not? Are these boys not commercial entities selling their services? Are they not subject to public evaluation like restaurant reviews? If not, why not?

Before you go off and spout invectives, there are such sites in other countries where specific escorts are critiqued. So there is already a great precedent for this. So if many people here are consumers of these sex services, why aren't the providers subject to public evaluation like any other publicly available service? Just asking really. Why are Thais more special than lets say Dutch or American male sex workers?

With the baht strenghtening and prices going so much higher for these services especially in Bangkok, shouldn't consumers have the right to information to make a wise buying decision? We have on this board many reviews of bars already, but most of these bars are basically houses of male prositution. So it is OK to review the houses but not the actual providers? Again, why?

January 11th, 2007, 03:39
Yeah, but they are, as I have seen them, professionel advertisers, the escort make their own profile, by there own will. and then the customers, rates them and tell about them, quite different I think. They are from the US, Western Europe and Australia mostly. Their rates are also quite different in my opinion. It is not bar boys or freelancers in a still 3 world country being rated. Don't change apples into oranges. And behave sober.

January 11th, 2007, 05:34
We use to do a good boy/bad boy report. If there was a good boy at a bar we would recommend him and if there was one to avoid we would also mention his number. The problem with that was that the boys change bars so often. I found these interesting and was a way of helping the good guys out and also helping new travelers have a great start to their trips.

bucknaway
January 11th, 2007, 06:20
You mean something like http://dontdatehimgirl.com

Lunchtime O'Booze
January 11th, 2007, 06:54
need to fire invectives-discuss is always better.

You could always use http://www.punternet.com/

I don't think they have a gay section yet .

But what a fine line to draw, between insulting Thai culture or informing. Me-thinks it would take a very brave and sensible moderator to administer this.

I doubt you could get away with pictures-I can see the court cases rght now Your word against his your Honour.
Considering the insults that already get hurled around on these boards between farangs-not so much Sawatdee- which is the best administered and moderated board about Gay Thailand, I see big trouble in your idea Jingthing.

But a seperate board on here with all the mad, bad and sad along with the good stories that happen could be a goer...no names though..

Guess who ? Don't sue !

January 11th, 2007, 07:10
How are you to account for individual experiences? I certainly know of boys I've recommended, and boys who I've had recommended to me, who simply don't work out in one direction or the other. God knows I've had plenty of sex with people who clearly think they're good in bed who frankly haven't got a clue. A Westerner I know, long-time resident in Bangkok, simply refuses to have sex with Thais because in his opinion they're not "aggressive" enough (and he doesn't mean S&M) - he prefers Japanese or Koreans. More often than not I can see his point. Personally I keep a Little Black Book and stick to my regulars who've passed their in-bed driving test. Some of them are kind enough to bring a friend along occasionally whom they deem worthy of mention. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't - but of course one has to try them out, noblesse oblige and all that

Apart from one boy I (foolishly) picked up in Silom Complex I've never been robbed in Bangkok (and that was only a mobile phone in the days when they were novelties), although twice robbed in Singapore and once mugged in Kuala Lumpur (the Malaysians immediately said it must have been an Indonesian!) :bounce:

Lunchtime O'Booze
January 11th, 2007, 07:17
"God knows I've had plenty of sex with people who clearly think they're good in bed who frankly haven't got a clue."..that's what they say about you !!!

Only joking dear.

I believe with your delightful story above-you have given us our opening post to the Jingthing's new column !! :bounce:

January 11th, 2007, 07:22
"God knows I've had plenty of sex with people who clearly think they're good in bed who frankly haven't got a clue."..that's what they say about you !!!Possibly they do. I find that if someone is giving a disappointing performance I immediately downgrade my own, aim for a very quick happy ending, and tip them out of bed before they realise what's happening

January 11th, 2007, 11:36
It would, at the very least, be a great public service to be warned about which boys have those big METAL BALLS inserted in their penises! I am sure there is one farang who doesn't wretch upon seeing that. First time I saw that, I thought the boy had a giant wart!

TrongpaiExpat
January 11th, 2007, 12:33
During my visits to chairs at Jomtiem, the one topic that I keep hearing is farangs whining about problems with Thai boys. They just will not live up to the expectations of the average Pattaya expat or visitor. It's their job, dam it, to make me happy.

Jinging, your either a bit of a weird duck or your perspective has been warped by living in Pattaya. No offense intended.

Lunchtime O'Booze
January 11th, 2007, 12:33
any addition is very off-putting. I like it how it comes without enhancement.

In fact a long long long time ago I encountered my first metal cock ring buried deep in a young man's public hair and got the shock of my life-never having heard of such a thing before. Even worse , I chipped my tooth on it and it cost 35 pounds to get a crown. Every time I brush my teeth I have a permanent reminder of that night.

lonelywombat
January 11th, 2007, 13:05
From a breeders board in Pattaya
www.pattaya-chat.com (http://www.pattaya-chat.com)
these are the first 4 forums

General Pattaya Happenings
Your experiences of Pattaya, general day to day happenings and Bar Girl pictures.

New Posts Ladyboy Experiences
Post your thoughts and experiences of ladyboys along with pictures and any other items of ladyboy interest.

New Posts Off Topic and Flaming Area
Post here on any subject. There will be no censorship here and all views are welcome. However any scat, illegality, outing of members or threats to kill will result in an immediate ban.

New Posts Live Chat With Thai Ladies
Please post here your experiences and any queries you may have on the new service.

Live chat sounds like an idea a few gay venue owners might consider

Note on a breeders board the "ladyboy Experiences" All that discussion and photos of cock

BUT THEY ARE STRAIGHT. HO,HO,HO

January 11th, 2007, 13:07
During my visits to chairs at Jomtiem, the one topic that I keep hearing is farangs whining about problems with Thai boys. They just will not live up to the expectations of the average Pattaya expat or visitor. It's their job, dam it, to make me happy.

Jinging, your either a bit of a weird duck or your perspective has been warped by living in Pattaya. No offense intended.
Maybe both.

January 11th, 2007, 13:09
During my visits to chairs at Jomtiem, the one topic that I keep hearing is farangs whining about problems with Thai boys. They just will not live up to the expectations of the average Pattaya expat or visitor. It's their job, dam it, to make me happy.

Jinging, your either a bit of a weird duck or your perspective has been warped by living in Pattaya. No offense intended.
Maybe both. Quack quack.
:bootyshake:

January 11th, 2007, 14:34
Have you met a Thai boy online who has really done you wrong in a big way?
Serious things like stealing from you, acting violent, blackmailing you, etc.
Don't you think it would be useful for people to post pictures of the really BAD boys out there as a warning to others?
Now, of course you wouldn't always have pictures, but if you met them online, you certainly would.

Doesn't seem fair unless the (real) identity of the accuser is revealed to the accused.
And how long before all the Tillies, as in Tillie of "Tillie's Punctured Romance," jumped in to smear--Rightly or wrongly--the guy who jilted her &\or refused to put up with her bad actions?


Have you met a Thai boy online who has really done you wrong in a big way?
Not such things as bad fashion sense, incomplete douching, or not able to get hard at the sight of you ....

"Bad fashion sense!" That has never bothered me: I prefer them dressed as they were at the moment of birth! Anyway, it's rather fun to see what comes out of that dressing room once an off has been arranged.
So far as "incomplete douching;" if one keeps ones nose out of another's arsehole one would never know!... And there are others wouldn't give a damn so long as the smoke alarm isn't set off!
(Wouldn't a Sa-moke Alarm be an appropriate accoutrement for the snaggle toothed? Rather like 'belling' the cat.) :cat:

January 11th, 2007, 16:11
God knows I've had plenty of sex with people who clearly think they're good in bed who frankly haven't got a clue.

You mean they couldn't even find your face to sit on?

January 11th, 2007, 20:46
Yeah, but they are, as I have seen them, professionel advertisers, the escort make their own profile, by there own will. and then the customers, rates them and tell about them, quite different I think. They are from the US, Western Europe and Australia mostly. Their rates are also quite different in my opinion. It is not bar boys or freelancers in a still 3 world country being rated. Don't change apples into oranges. And behave sober.
Oh, I see.
So to you it is just a matter of the exact price, is it?
BTW, I don't think Thailand is really considered a third world country anymore.
And, perhaps it is cheap for you with your Banish Boners, but how about Americans with weak dollars not to mention people coming from countries like Malaysia?

Lets add it up, shall we, for example a tourist area bar in Bangkok visiting just one bar (rough averages):

One drink if you are cheap: 200 B
Boy drink one: 200 B
Off fee: 400 B
Short time "tip": 1500

My my, thats 2100 baht. It ain't that cheap especially if they are a total dud, and the word out there is that total duds are on the increase! There are male whores in America who go for much less, so don't delude yourselves. So, again, why do we put these Thai boys on a pedestal? Are we are hypnotized?

January 11th, 2007, 23:27
"So, again, why do we put these Thai boys on a pedestal? Are we are hypnotized?"

I don't think I am.

I have met both good and bad guys.

My intention was only to say, that sites, where this guys are discussed, are sites where the whores advertise their services themselves. IMHO it is very different from a board, where the whores are discussed, without their knowledge. If they want to advertise themselves that way, I would not move an eyebrow at all, discuss their services as much as you want, because it is their choice.

January 11th, 2007, 23:34
"So, again, why do we put these Thai boys on a pedestal? Are we are hypnotized?"

I don't think I am.

I have met both good and bad guys.

My intention was only to say, that sites, where this guys are discussed, are sites where the whores advertise their services themselves. IMHO it is very different from a board, where the whores are discussed, without their knowledge. If they want to advertise themselves that way, I would not move an eyebrow at all, discuss their services as much as you want, because it is their choice.
I think there are other sites not tied to ads, not that I am an expert on this.
I bring this up more as a discussion point than anything; I would never start a site like this, but if it existed and I knew about I am sure I would have a look.
Anyway, if I a boy stands on a go go stage every night, he is indeed advertising and selling himself. I think consensual legal age whoring and buying is all a matter of choice, but I still contend these are public services, worthy of public comment, especially as I have demonstrated, experimenting with several duds is not cheap.

If I am going to go to restaurant meal costing 2000 baht, I can assure you I already know something about that place before I darken their door, either from a media review, internet comments, or a friends recommendation.

January 11th, 2007, 23:51
I know CFS, some years ago had this kind of discussions, the guys were named by no.
I think it was deleted.
I don't know if I agree with you or not. But in my very young days I did sell myself sometimes for money. I thought it was exiting and I needed the money. I would not have liked being discussed on a board, like I was just a piece of flesh or a steak. Okay it was many, many years before the Internet :cheers:

January 11th, 2007, 23:59
I know CFS, some years ago had this kind of discussions, the guys were named by no.
I think it was deleted.
I don't know if I agree with you or not. But in my very young days I did sell myself sometimes for money. I thought it was exiting and I needed the money. I would not have liked being discussed on a board, like I was just a piece of flesh or a steak. Okay it was many, many years before the Internet :cheers:
Yes, but ...
Do you think chefs at restaurants like being discussed in the media if the reviews are bad?
But they have no choice.
Because they are putting a product out (their food) to the public and expecting people to pay with their life energy (money) for this food.
Prostitutes are also selling a product, their bodies and also demanding money. By doing this, they are in the public world, whether they like it or not. And if they don't like it, maybe they aren't good at it, and should seek other employment.

Does this sound cold?
Isn't the world of work and money for all of us cold?
So what is so special about Thai male prostitutes that they need to be protected from the real world?
Just because some of them are young?
As you might have figured, this is just for discussion. But deep down I do think at this point in Thailand it is really the farang customers being mostly exploited, not the so called desperate sex workers. Look at the fees paid in context of the local economy.

Almost all Thai people feel that way about farangs consumers of the Thai sex industry (or so I am told).

January 12th, 2007, 00:24
"My my, thats 2100 baht. It ain't that cheap especially if they are a total dud, and the word out there is that total duds are on the increase! There are male whores in America who go for much less, so don't delude yourselves"

BTW, I would not touch any American whore, selling himself for the amount of 45 EURO or 58 USD, not even with gloves on my hand. :geek:

January 12th, 2007, 00:32
"My my, thats 2100 baht. It ain't that cheap especially if they are a total dud, and the word out there is that total duds are on the increase! There are male whores in America who go for much less, so don't delude yourselves"

BTW, I would not touch any American whore, selling himself for the amount of 45 EURO or 58 USD, not even with gloves on my hand. :geek:
So you think price has anything to do with quality. Or any kind of guarantee they don't carry diseases? That isn't always the case. During my visits to Montreal, I met some incredibly cute rent boys in the bars who were jolly good fun for 20 dollars Canadian. First world Canada.
I really do think people are kidding themselves if they still think Thailand commercial sex is cheap. It is mid level. Not cheap.

January 12th, 2007, 02:00
quote]
So you think price has anything to do with quality. Or any kind of guarantee they don't carry diseases? That isn't always the case. During my visits to Montreal, I met some incredibly cute rent boys in the bars who were jolly good fun for 20 dollars Canadian. First world Canada.
I really do think people are kidding themselves if they still think Thailand commercial sex is cheap. It is mid level. Not cheap.[/quote]

I am not going to continue this out of topic discussion, but 20 Canadian Dollar are around 17 USD or 13 EURO if I am correct. What did you get for that money?, nice conversation or sex? Would be interesting to know, because if you got sex for 20 Canadian Dollars, then I will look West and not East, next time I plan my holiday. Wow if I can fuck a cute butt for 20 Canadian D=613 THB, instead of 1000-1500 THB, short or longtime, Thailand has lost me forever.

Well, I have to be honest, I very seldom off guys from go-go bars, but are more into "gifts" and "longer time relations" :bom: :cheese:

January 12th, 2007, 02:18
quote]
So you think price has anything to do with quality. Or any kind of guarantee they don't carry diseases? That isn't always the case. During my visits to Montreal, I met some incredibly cute rent boys in the bars who were jolly good fun for 20 dollars Canadian. First world Canada.
I really do think people are kidding themselves if they still think Thailand commercial sex is cheap. It is mid level. Not cheap.

I am not going to continue this out of topic discussion, but 20 Canadian Dollar are around 17 USD or 13 EURO if I am correct. What did you get for that money?, nice conversation or sex? Would be interesting to know, because if you got sex for 20 Canadian Dollars, then I will look West and not East, next time I plan my holiday. Wow if I can fuck a cute butt for 20 Canadian D=613 THB, instead of 1000-1500 THB, Thailand has lost me forever. :bom: :cheese:[/quote]
I got going back to my gay hotel to have sex, what did you think?
And remember, no overpriced clip joint drinks or "off fees."
Pretty much a freelance thing there on the streets and bars, but I only met guys at the bars. I am not horrible looking so I don't know if it helped.

You really looking for lower cost hos: South America. People tell me Cambodia and Burma but I haven't been.
My last trip to Peru I met a charming 18 year old who would have been insulted if I gave him money, but I did pay for his meals for several days. Imagine that happening in Thailand with an older farang and an 18 year old? Lets face it, Thailand is one of grabbiest countries in the world. When they say, money number one, believe them. But I still love it; don't ask me why. But people who really still believe it is the best place in the world for affordable sexual adventures ought to get out more. It is a very CONVENIENT place for such holidays. So very organized and bountiful. But certainly not anywhere near the lowest cost in the world.

January 12th, 2007, 02:26
I am not going to continue this out of topic discussion, but 20 Canadian Dollar are around 17 USD or 13 EURO if I am correct. What did you get for that money?, nice conversation or sex? Would be interesting to know, because if you got sex for 20 Canadian Dollars, then I will look West and not East, next time I plan my holiday. Wow if I can fuck a cute butt for 20 Canadian D=613 THB, instead of 1000-1500 THB, Thailand has lost me forever. :bom: :cheese:

I got going back to my gay hotel to have sex, what did you think?
Pretty much a freelance thing there on the streets and bars, but I only met guys at the bars. I am not horrible looking so I don't know if it helped.

You really looking for lower cost hos: South America.
My last trip to Peru I met a charming 18 year old who would have been insulted if I gave him money, but I did pay for his meals for several days. Imagine that happening in Thailand with an older farang and an 18 year old? Lets face it, Thailand is one of grabbiest countries in the world. When they say, money number one, believe them. But I still love it; don't ask me why. But people who really still believe it is the best place in the world for affordable sexual adventures ought to get out more.

same, same, happens to me every time I am in Thailand too, it is not only happening in South America, but let us stop our private conversation
One last word, I am not looking for the cheapest place on earth, then I could go to Dafour.

January 12th, 2007, 02:43
If you are getting free younger nookie in Thailand, you must be sexually attractive. I know a guy (very rich) who will not pay for sex and he can get free nookie almost in any country he goes, but not Thailand. So he hates Thailand.

January 12th, 2007, 03:23
If you are getting free younger nookie in Thailand, you must be sexually attractive. I know a guy (very rich) who will not pay for sex and he can get free nookie almost in any country he goes, but not Thailand. So he hates Thailand.

Well I am not rich, just a normal income farang guy, so I must be sexually attractive ;-),-- and then okay I have also some very nice farang (one from my home country) and Thai friends (one living abroad when I met him), living in LOS, who introduce me to the right guys, both socially and for sex, I know some are working as freelancers sometimes, but with exactly these guys I have never felt money was involved. In fact I have been to not commercial bars with these guys, we had great fun and we all got a little to much. I woke up with a cutie in my arm's, and when I looked in my pocket the next morning I had not used 1 BHT. Opposite I am not the one sitting on my wallet, when I am having fun with my friends. Maybe I am just lucky (and not used) with the people I have met.
That said, I also know the commercial scene, and have also been in situations where money were to much involved, but nothing is just black and white.

Lunchtime O'Booze
January 12th, 2007, 09:42
Haven't really encountered that for a while..even Mrs O'Booze quit offering it years ago when I said she would have to pay me and put a bag over her head ! ( frighteningly-she agreed to :cyclopsani: )

I have no doubt there are plenty of farangs who can still score with Thai lads and good for them if they can-lucky old you hansiThe2 !.

But how many farangs actually like paying ?. Afterall, it usually gives you the upper hand in a relationship. I knew a very good looking California surfing type once who in his early 20's could pull anyone he wanted, but preferred to pick up hustlers on Sunset Boulevarde.

francois
January 12th, 2007, 10:55
"My my, thats 2100 baht. It ain't that cheap especially if they are a total dud, and the word out there is that total duds are on the increase! There are male whores in America who go for much less, so don't delude yourselves"

BTW, I would not touch any American whore, selling himself for the amount of 45 EURO or 58 USD, not even with gloves on my hand. :geek:
So you think price has anything to do with quality. Or any kind of guarantee they don't carry diseases? That isn't always the case. During my visits to Montreal, I met some incredibly cute rent boys in the bars who were jolly good fun for 20 dollars Canadian. First world Canada.
I really do think people are kidding themselves if they still think Thailand commercial sex is cheap. It is mid level. Not cheap.

I do know much about Montreal and know that $20 does not buy you much especially in a bar. Maybe two lap dances at best
or maybe a worn out druggie on the street. Normal prices are $100 and up and up.
Francois

January 12th, 2007, 11:05
Bonjour Francois,

Yes, you are correct if you go to the boy show dancing bars, those Catholic boys are very mercenary. Those are great places for eye candy! I am not talking about the street either. I am talking about regular bars and dancing bars, where as it gets later, rent boys will approach and make tempting offers. I think I recall the Stud was especially fruitful. I wasn't even looking for rent boys, they were looking for me. These guys were casual freelancers, young men who were horny anyway and looking to get laid and might as well make a little money kinds of guys, not drug addicts, although you would have to be streewise to have a clue about the difference.

That said, if quality very low cost commercial sex is your goal, I wouldn't put Canada on the top of the list either. For me, it was just icing on the cake.

I ran into the same kind of thing in Amsterdam bars at prices not much higher (30 dollars), but there they were in general scarier and riskier. Yes, I know, if you go into an organized legal whorehouse there, it is 200 dollars.

In Rio, the last time I was there, the cost was 25 dollars at organized saunas. Similar prices possible in Mexico. So, just making the point that commercial sex in Thailand is not that cheap, when compared to the world market.

Thailand can become especially expensive when you hook up with a Thai boyfriend with barboy mentality ...
I have always felt that Thailand has the "most expensive cheap sex in the world" ...
But I still love Thailand and Thai people. Just trying to keep it real.

January 12th, 2007, 11:09
Okay, I give up. I made a reply to this message that took about 15 minutes in the making.

Sent to hell.

Interesting thread, but this board is now impossible to post to if one just wants to make a single post from time to time.

Pete

Lunchtime O'Booze
January 12th, 2007, 13:35
it's the new software to filter out the spam about getting a bigger dick etc.

If you are writing a very long piece why not do it on your wordpad first and then copy and paste !!

we all want hear what you have to say :bounce:

January 12th, 2007, 19:25
Khun Elephantspike told me, when I PMed him about my frustrations, that if you {Preview} first and then {Submit} you don't have these problems - and it works for me every time

January 13th, 2007, 05:09
It's a much more simple system than going to a club or disco and trolling for a guy for an hour or so. Who knows if he ends up being a psycho? With the commercial scene in Thailand you can get the guy you want, have fun, pay him and be done. If he goes psycho on you or starts stalking you, you can always complain to the bar manager and they will usually sort the boy out. If you don't get what you paid for, complain to the manager! They want return customers. They know that WE talk among ourselves and don't want to develop a bad reputation.

just my 2 centavos

ajarntrade
Now living in Mexico City

January 13th, 2007, 05:26
Okay, I give up. I made a reply to this message that took about 15 minutes in the making.

Sent to hell.

Interesting thread, but this board is now impossible to post to if one just wants to make a single post from time to time.

Pete

Come on Pete we want your thoughts, copy paste before you send and you can use your text again.

January 13th, 2007, 08:00
Okay, I give up. I made a reply to this message that took about 15 minutes in the making.

Sent to hell.

Interesting thread, but this board is now impossible to post to if one just wants to make a single post from time to time.

Pete

Come on Pete we want your thoughts, copy paste before you send and you can use your text again.Yes, come on Pete, my pals are getting sick of me dining out on your claim that a year is a lifetime for gay men, so a long-term relationship is one that lasts at least 12 months. More gems, please

francois
January 13th, 2007, 11:27
Bonjour Francois,

Yes, you are correct if you go to the boy show dancing bars, those Catholic boys are very mercenary. Those are great places for eye candy! I am not talking about the street either. I am talking about regular bars and dancing bars, where as it gets later, rent boys will approach and make tempting offers. I think I recall the Stud was especially fruitful. I wasn't even looking for rent boys, they were looking for me. These guys were casual freelancers, young men who were horny anyway and looking to get laid and might as well make a little money kinds of guys, not drug addicts, although you would have to be streewise to have a clue about the difference.

That said, if quality very low cost commercial sex is your goal, I wouldn't put Canada on the top of the list either. For me, it was just icing on the cake.

I ran into the same kind of thing in Amsterdam bars at prices not much higher (30 dollars), but there they were in general scarier and riskier. Yes, I know, if you go into an organized legal whorehouse there, it is 200 dollars.

In Rio, the last time I was there, the cost was 25 dollars at organized saunas. Similar prices possible in Mexico. So, just making the point that commercial sex in Thailand is not that cheap, when compared to the world market.

Thailand can become especially expensive when you hook up with a Thai boyfriend with barboy mentality ...
I have always felt that Thailand has the "most expensive cheap sex in the world" ...
But I still love Thailand and Thai people. Just trying to keep it real.

Bonjour Jingthing,
Ok, I understand what you now mean about the freelancers. Even had one myself who I had to force taxi money on him. Of course I had my Quebecois bf with me who was the main attraction! But in general all of them do some type of drugs whether club drug or hard drugs. And yes it is a great party town even now.

My experience in Tijuana, Mexico has been prices from $25 min to $40+ at the bars or on the streets.

Francois

francois
January 13th, 2007, 11:27
Bonjour Francois,

Yes, you are correct if you go to the boy show dancing bars, those Catholic boys are very mercenary. Those are great places for eye candy! I am not talking about the street either. I am talking about regular bars and dancing bars, where as it gets later, rent boys will approach and make tempting offers. I think I recall the Stud was especially fruitful. I wasn't even looking for rent boys, they were looking for me. These guys were casual freelancers, young men who were horny anyway and looking to get laid and might as well make a little money kinds of guys, not drug addicts, although you would have to be streewise to have a clue about the difference.

That said, if quality very low cost commercial sex is your goal, I wouldn't put Canada on the top of the list either. For me, it was just icing on the cake.

I ran into the same kind of thing in Amsterdam bars at prices not much higher (30 dollars), but there they were in general scarier and riskier. Yes, I know, if you go into an organized legal whorehouse there, it is 200 dollars.

In Rio, the last time I was there, the cost was 25 dollars at organized saunas. Similar prices possible in Mexico. So, just making the point that commercial sex in Thailand is not that cheap, when compared to the world market.

Thailand can become especially expensive when you hook up with a Thai boyfriend with barboy mentality ...
I have always felt that Thailand has the "most expensive cheap sex in the world" ...
But I still love Thailand and Thai people. Just trying to keep it real.

Bonjour Jingthing,
Ok, I understand what you now mean about the freelancers. Even had one myself who I had to force taxi money on him. Of course I had my Quebecois bf with me who was the main attraction! But in general all of them do some type of drugs whether club drug or hard drugs. And yes it is a great party town even now.

My experience in Tijuana, Mexico has been prices from $25 min to $40+ at the bars or on the streets.

Francois

Smiles
January 13th, 2007, 12:48
" ... It's a much more simple system than going to a club or disco and trolling for a guy for an hour or so. Who knows if he ends up being a psycho? ... "
Or ... perhaps in the case of Ajarntrade (and perhaps Herr Homintern) ... who knows if he'll ever get him at all. :blackeye:

Cheers ...

January 13th, 2007, 19:46
There is one particularly odious farang who trolls gay.com for young flesh, while negatively exaggerating his advanced age by over ten years. I think the youth of Thailand need to be warned about this lying hypocrite. What do you think, Homi? (someone please quote me so he'll see this)

January 13th, 2007, 22:41
There is one particularly odious farang who trolls gay.com for young flesh, while negatively exaggerating his advanced age by over ten years. I think the youth of Thailand need to be warned about this lying hypocrite. What do you think, Homi? (someone please quote me so he'll see this)
Is it Pearl and are you sure it's only 10 years?

January 14th, 2007, 02:01
There is one particularly odious farang who trolls gay.com for young flesh, while negatively exaggerating his advanced age by over ten years. I think the youth of Thailand need to be warned about this lying hypocrite. What do you think, Homi? (someone please quote me so he'll see this)
Is it Pearl and are you sure it's only 10 years?I've been outed! :bounce:

January 15th, 2007, 05:01
For those who wish to steer clear of me on gay.com, my moniker is SOGGY - "Sexy Older Geriatric Gay Younger" and this is the pic in my profile:
http://upload5.postimage.org/229268/SOGGY.jpg (http://upload5.postimage.org/229268/photo_hosting.html)

January 15th, 2007, 09:49
Ha ha ha, ho ho ho.

Perhaps the members of this community would like to see your REAL picture? Oh, yes...knowledge IS power.

January 18th, 2007, 08:55
There is one particularly odious farang who trolls gay.com for young flesh, while negatively exaggerating his advanced age by over ten years. I think the youth of Thailand need to be warned about this lying hypocrite. What do you think, Homi? (someone please quote me so he'll see this)

I think I know the guy you mean and I would never have guessed looking at his picture that he was in fact at least 10 years older than he claims. However after your revelation that people lie about their age on Gaycom I have decided to quit Gaycom. Next thing you know people will be posting fake pictures, where will this duplicity end? Thanks for the warning.