colmx
September 28th, 2006, 05:29
Hi All
After 7 wonderful weeks (in my opinion) in Ireland my BF has once again returned to Thailand.
This was his second trip here and was far more successful than the last - I put this down to:
-On his last trip I shared a 2 bedroom apartment with another Gay Guy. This guy was not particularly welcoming to my BF. Now i have a new apt and live alone - so we were able to relax and feel at home all the time
-Him growing up - and realising that if he wants to live outside thailand he will have to adapt - no Mocys, or Tuk Tuks here... if you wanna go somewhere you walk or wait ages for public transport!
-Me being less anal - about him tidying up after himself, and about him sleeping all day and surfing the net all night - better for him to be surfing here than cruising in jomtien at night!
-Him making some friends this time - from Poland, Panama, china, Ireland (and a bunch of butch lesbians)even though it was time to go before he really got to know them.
We even met 5 Thai guys this time around - who would have thought there was that many Thai guys in Dublin - even though 2 of them claim to be "not gay any more"!
The visa was originally only for 3 weeks, which we extended to 5 before he came and then to 7 when he was here.
I'll post more thoughts once i have time to get over my PVD (Post Vist depression).
Roll on December for my next trip to LOS!
Hope the guy who walked into the toilets in dublin airport after me didn't slip on all the tears that i left behind on the floor!
After 7 wonderful weeks (in my opinion) in Ireland my BF has once again returned to Thailand.
This was his second trip here and was far more successful than the last - I put this down to:
-On his last trip I shared a 2 bedroom apartment with another Gay Guy. This guy was not particularly welcoming to my BF. Now i have a new apt and live alone - so we were able to relax and feel at home all the time
-Him growing up - and realising that if he wants to live outside thailand he will have to adapt - no Mocys, or Tuk Tuks here... if you wanna go somewhere you walk or wait ages for public transport!
-Me being less anal - about him tidying up after himself, and about him sleeping all day and surfing the net all night - better for him to be surfing here than cruising in jomtien at night!
-Him making some friends this time - from Poland, Panama, china, Ireland (and a bunch of butch lesbians)even though it was time to go before he really got to know them.
We even met 5 Thai guys this time around - who would have thought there was that many Thai guys in Dublin - even though 2 of them claim to be "not gay any more"!
The visa was originally only for 3 weeks, which we extended to 5 before he came and then to 7 when he was here.
I'll post more thoughts once i have time to get over my PVD (Post Vist depression).
Roll on December for my next trip to LOS!
Hope the guy who walked into the toilets in dublin airport after me didn't slip on all the tears that i left behind on the floor!