Thai boy told me most farang are bottom

[AsDaRa]

I always assumed that most of us are tops. And go to Thailand to fuck boys. I know of course some here prefer to bottom. But always assumed they are in the minority.

A boy told me that his experience is that most farang are bottom. I can’t believe this, to be honest. Interested in your views regarding this.

[Oliver2]

A few falang tops I know changed to bottoms as they reached their sixties or so, not (as I used to think) the result of a decline in physical capability, but out of choice. No idea why.

I have also heard that Japanese guys are more likely to be bottoms than falangs....but that's also anecdotal.

[Dodger]

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A boy told me that his experience is that most farang are bottom. I can’t believe this, to be honest. Interested in your views regarding this.

I'll bet a nickel that the boy you're referring to is srt8.

If the boy was a gay fem boy (twink) I promise you he would have said that most (not all) of his customers are tops.

[AsDaRa]

He was fem. He told me he didn’t have many customers because he can’t top. So I asked: are most farang then bottom? He says yes.

[latintopxxx]

bit of a silly assumpotion, in my vast experience iso sex id say that there is a greater percentage of bottoms that tops in the gay world and Id even say that there is a sizeable minority that dont do anal at all, its all oral.

[Moses]

=====bit of a silly assumpotion====

Not that silly for Thailand: size matter. Sex-tourists who prefers bottoming also prefers Latin America because of sizes.

[moistmango]

I'll bet a nickel that the boy you're referring to is srt8.

If the boy was a gay fem boy (twink) I promise you he would have said that most (not all) of his customers are tops.

That said, sometimes demeanour-based assumptions can be way off. Once offed a twinky pretty boy from one of the Patpong go-gos, only to discover that he was a top.

[Daveuk]

I had similar experience to you moistmango, when I offed a twinkly pretty boy from the Cupidol gogo in Pattaya boyztown which a few years ago specialised in twink dancers.
After the preliminaries - kissing, sucking etc he was resistant when I started to put a condom on and lubeing him. I gave him a reduced tip and complained to the mamasan the next night, who said I should have asked her before offing - no doubt that would have involved paying a drink or giving a tip, but good idea if the boy can’t speak English.

[moistmango]

I had similar experience to you moistmango, when I offed a twinkly pretty boy from the Cupidol gogo in Pattaya boyztown which a few years ago specialised in twink dancers.
After the preliminaries - kissing, sucking etc he was resistant when I started to put a condom on and lubeing him. I gave him a reduced tip and complained to the mamasan the next night, who said I should have asked her before offing - no doubt that would have involved paying a drink or giving a tip, but good idea if the boy can’t speak English.

Lesson learned for us both. What are the BT go-gos in Pattaya like? Which ones have the prettiest boys? I've never been, though planning to at some point this year.

[francois]

Lesson learned for us both. What are the BT go-gos in Pattaya like? Which ones have the prettiest boys? I've never been, though planning to at some point this year.
All depends on your definition of "prettiest" ? For me, ToyBoys is the best, for my friend it is Dream Boys and for someone else, X Boys and so on.

[Dodger]

Being "versatile" as I am is the best of both worlds IMO.

The majority of the fem boys I've been with have preferred the bottom role - and the str8 (or str8 types) usually prefer top, but as several of you have pointed out that's not always the case which is perfectly understandable.

By-the-way: If his sexual preference is a deal-breaker for you don't bother asking him what he'll do in bed before you off him - just tell him what you do in bed before you off him. Works every time.

[Keith]

Being "versatile" as I am is the best of both worlds IMO.

The majority of the fem boys I've been with have preferred the bottom role - and the str8 (or str8 types) usually prefer top, but as several of you have pointed out that's not always the case which is perfectly understandable.

By-the-way: If his sexual preference is a deal-breaker for you don't bother asking him what he'll do in bed before you off him - just tell him what you do in bed before you off him. Works every time.

Certainly, in most of the cases where I have suggested an off, the bit has been happy to bottom. As I am just a top, suits me! Perhaps I have been lucky.

[latintopxxx]

dodger...definitely agree...always tell him what you as the paying customer want...and as i have repeated ad nauseum ....be pretty specific...including the length of time you have booked...some have this strange idea that once you have ejaculated that the whole show is over..like they have never heard of round 2...

[Daveuk]

Yes latintopxxx I’ve had a few boys who want to leave early despite my stating that I want long time at least to 9.00 am. Mind you they are balanced by some who I could not get to leave even when they have received their tip. Of the latter some I’ve taken to breakfast particularly if they are can speak a little english or are potential longer term boyfriend material.

[Dodger]

......I’ve had a few boys who want to leave early despite my stating that I want long time at least to 9.00 am. Mind you they are balanced by some who I could not get to leave even when they have received their tip. Of the latter some I’ve taken to breakfast particularly if they are can speak a little english or are potential longer term boyfriend material.

The last "long time" I had was with a boy who planned on staying with me for the weekend. It's been 9 years now and he's still here.

Talk about loooooooooong time...555

[maump]

Yes, tell the man what you want, or ask the Mamasan. I get mama to put the numbers of the bottoms and verse on paper. I also check with man. will you bottom? no condom-prep?

big cocked more masculine men can get my legs in the air. I like best to flip fuck in bed.

[latintopxxx]

....like that ancient saying goes...different strokes for different folks....feminine or slim boy look is a total turn off....I like my bottoms to be masculine...and if im paying...straight...doing it for the money only...a job...butt for sale to anyone with cash... negotiate time frame and activities and off we go...fun times...

[Dodger]

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I like best to flip fuck in bed.

Not me. I prefer flip fucking in the back of my pickup truck - as long as I don't flip too high and end up bouncing out.

[latintopxxx]

...dodger...now u r being silly

[Gaybutton]

I don't always agree with latintopxxx, but on this topic I can't find anything he wrote that I would disagree with. In my opinion, if you are the customer and have made an arrangement with a willing young gent, and you have made sure he understands what is expected of him, then I see no reason to settle for anything less than that.

I believe in treating the boy well and giving him a good tip. But I also realize if he is a money boy, then this is his job. If he doesn't want to do a good job, then he should look for something else. And right now in Pattaya the hotels and many restaurants are desperate for hiring help, so finding another means of income is readily available.

[latintopxxx]

oh my Lord....I need to ly down with a strong G&T....and celebrate...

[Aussie1978]

Yes, tell the man what you want, or ask the Mamasan. I get mama to put the numbers of the bottoms and verse on paper. I also check with man. will you bottom? no condom-prep?

big cocked more masculine men can get my legs in the air. I like best to flip fuck in bed.

Great idea to get the numbers down on paper. Saves the guess work later.

[Newbie99]

Over the years, the number of twinks seems to be diminishing, replaced by straight boys who are gay for pay.

[AsDaRa]

Over the years, the number of twinks seems to be diminishing, replaced by straight boys who are gay for pay.

I wonder for the reason. Twink gay boys don't need the money anymore but the straight boys do?

[Keith]

However, if straight boys do a good job, then that's fine. If they are happy to kiss and be fucked, and are enthusiastic, that's fine. Other members have commented that straight guys can be better than the gay guys.

[latintopxxx]

my personal preference is for masculine looking/acting guys...solid hairy legs...bit of muscle..when engaging a mb I dont really care about his pleasure, doesnt enter into the equation...love the fact that for straights its just a job..really turns me on that its simply a body to be used and enjoyed...they are usually very obedient & eager to follow instructions as opposed to gay mbs who have their favoiurite position or want to also come or whatever...they seem to think its a love match & their comfort/wants need to be met...

[Dodger]

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...they are usually very obedient & eager to follow instructions as opposed to gay mbs who have their favoiurite position or want to also come or whatever...they seem to think its a love match & their comfort/wants need to be met...

The nerve of those gay mbs.

First they have positions they want to try...then they expect to come as well. That's a bit overboard if you ask me.

[arsenal]

"However, if straight boys do a good job, then that's fine. If they are happy to kiss and be fucked, and are enthusiastic, that's fine. Other members have commented that straight guys can be better than the gay guys."

I've only ever come across 2 straight boys who won't kiss and both currently work in Nice Boys which is an indication of how far this once magnificent temple to full on whoremongering has fallen.

Straight boys will kiss and smoke you to willy warming paradise and back and they will do it more passionately than gay boys. Even the boys in Diamond Club, all of whom are straight will kiss beautifully.

[latintopxxx]

arsenal..you speaking from personal experience where diamond is concerned??

[Dodger]

I wonder how many times farang mis-identify the sexual identity of a working Thai boy???

The term "Straight" seems to be used way too loosely by some farang - considering, that in reality, the boy they are referring to may actually be gay, bi, bi-curious., or at a stage where he's not really sure what classification he is during his experimental phase of development.

They (the farang) may believe the boy is str8 based on comments that other farang have made about him - or simply his own perception based on the boys mannerisms, the way the he looks, acts, dresses, etc., when we know that perceptions that are drawn this way are wrong much more then they are right.

It's possible that the boy who you have framed as "Str8" who was so hot in bed...seemed to enjoy sucking your cock...and even kissed you without any notable resistence...is in fact gay, bi, or a a minimum bi-curious.

My questions to those of you who have a strong preference for str8 boys is; Would it turn you off if you knew (or found out later) that the boy you just had sex with was actually gay or leaning that way?

FACT:

Not all of the boys who show up on the working scenes even know themselves what their sexual identity is, let alone be in a position to label themselves. I've seen boys who arrive on the scene wearing lumberjack farm shorts who look and act totally str8, who waist no time telling punters that "they are a man"...meaning they are str8. Then, a year later, you see the same boy wearing a cut tight-fitting shirt walking with a bit more sway in his hips with a slight hint of eye shadow. I've seen this hundreds of times. Conversely, I've seen ladyboys who, after years of enjoying the bottom role, start dressing in normal boys clothes as the years progress and end up getting married and having children.

I've seen it all. And in all that I've seen I'm left with one conclusion: That the sexual identity of humans (not just Thai boys) is dynamic in nature and can change with the wind - not static in nature as some seem to suggest. Thank God!

[arsenal]

Latin. Absolutely yes.

Dodger. Straight at the time of going to press but yes, people, like prices are subject to change. And no, it wouldn't bother me.

[latintopxxx]

arsenal...I'm totally jealous...
dodger...money is a strong incentive when it comes to gay4pay...especially when the earnings & work conditions gap between unskilled labour (construction, agriculture...) are so vast. I love to fuck, not into sloppy vagina like holes, when I'm busy pounding away its often better if the bottom has an erection or is at least 1/2 way there as it tightens the sphinctor...many a time my bottom has preferred watching straight/lesbian type porn on his phone instead of watching the gay stuff on my laptop...would indicate that at that time and point while my dick is up his butt that he is probably straight...ish

[Dodger]

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......many a time my bottom has preferred watching straight/lesbian type porn on his phone instead of watching the gay stuff on my laptop...would indicate that at that time and point while my dick is up his butt that he is probably straight...ish

Pretty good guess.

I was with a boy once who had the nerve to watch one of those stupid Thai game shows on his smartphone while receiving a blowjob. He actually started laughing a few times. I remember turning him over on his stomach - and without out any preparation - rammed my cock full-girth into his tight and totally un-lubed ass. He yelled. I didn't say anything but was thinking "OK, laugh at that you asshole"...555.

[latintopxxx]

dodger thats kind of borderline....even i "ask" for permission when i put my mb under a bit of strain....guess you were after the full experience where he's supposed to moan and writhe in ecstacy while you deep throat his member...

[Blueskytoday]

Find something else to discuss which is interesting..BOTTOM talk all the time in posts...boring