I do everything.....MB expectations

[latintopxxx]

Had a drunken conversation...ok not drunk...just 1/2 dozen beers...with friends about 1/3 are straight...we sometimes chat about sexc & how the ease with which gays can get sex compared with straiughts...i remeber a straight friend who is a bit of a wopmaniser considered himself to be a bit of a stud because he had laid 8 different woman by the time he was 21...i tiold him I had had that number (guys) by the time i was 15....and that now in a good month will do that....then the taboo subject of prostitutes came up...its still a bit of a no no to engage with them...but the drinks got us talking...what can you as the paying customer expect when the MB says I do everything....surprisingly my list below wasnt the longest...

kissing
oral..includes coming in his mouth
anal...iuncluding barebacking
rose budding (where he licks your hole)
spitting on his face/in his mouth

Any comments...

[Dodger]

Had a drunken conversation...ok not drunk...just 1/2 dozen beers...with friends about 1/3 are straight...we sometimes chat about sexc & how the ease with which gays can get sex compared with straiughts...i remeber a straight friend who is a bit of a wopmaniser considered himself to be a bit of a stud because he had laid 8 different woman by the time he was 21...i tiold him I had had that number (guys) by the time i was 15....and that now in a good month will do that....then the taboo subject of prostitutes came up...its still a bit of a no no to engage with them...but the drinks got us talking...what can you as the paying customer expect when the MB says I do everything....surprisingly my list below wasnt the longest...

kissing
oral..includes coming in his mouth
anal...iuncluding barebacking
rose budding (where he licks your hole)
spitting on his face/in his mouth

Any comments...

You must of had more than a half dozen beers to come up with "spitting on his face/in his mouth".

Unfortunately, the working boys have to deal with a broad scope of punters in their line-of-work, which, on occasion, includes some of the most deranged perverts on earth.

When a working boy tells a punter that "he'll do everything", that usually means he's versatile, which, to most normal people, would imply that he doesn't have any inhibitions about playing the top and/or bottom role during the service.

If a punter ever spit in a Thai boys face or mouth it would probably be the last thing he ever did in this lifetime.

[gerefan2]

Had a drunken conversation...ok not drunk...just 1/2 dozen beers......we sometimes chat about sexc & how...i remeber a straight friend who is a bit of a wopmaniser


Any comments...

Yep…you must have been on the largest and strongest bottles going judging by that garbage.

And you can’t blame that on predictive text either!!

[Oliver2]

Punters be warned; word used to get around very quickly in a gay village like Boyztown.....and now I assume in the JC. Being publicly rejected by a proposed "off" must be humiliating. If sometimes deserved.

[latintopxxx]

lol...the outraged moral brigade is out with the pitch forks and placards.....I presume you all do it missionary style, fully clothed and with the lights out and the with the radio on to drown out any noise that might alert the neighbours

[Gaybutton]

I am not one who passes judgment on what others like for sex any more than I would appreciate people passing judgment on what I like. We are all different and for sure don't always like the same things.

"I do everything" means different things to different people. To some farang it merely means he will do both top and bottom. To some it means he is willing to do even the most bizarre kinky requests.

In my opinion, the important thing is what it means to the boy and what he thinks he is saying. I believe, whether he says "I do everything" or not, it is best to make sure he understands and agrees to do whatever it is you're requesting. If he agrees, now you'll have a boy who says he is willing to do what you're looking for and there shouldn't be any problems, surprises, awkwardness, or disappointment when the time come for him to comply with your request.

To me, taking a boy you know in advance says is willing, and maybe even truly likes the same as you, beats hell out of taking a boy off, taking him to your hotel room, and only then finding out he won't do whatever it is you wanted.

[latintopxxx]

...agree...wise words...

[pong]

IF a Thai MB/paid guy uses this, its about always: versatile, both T and B.
The rest can never be taken for granted and is not included in that list. May perhaps also depend on your attractiveness -and 1 guy I have now been with some 7 times got hotter-hotter every time-thus a good incentive to stick with him, also in doing other such things. Last time he even asked if I would have any other special wishes to do.
Some very shrewd ones with intelligence might even feel the hint and tell you: I can do-you pay more.
But latin is just still a teenage boy-likes to provoke and others get to finger pointing and utter disgust. Droogneuker- only from a far distance.

[Armando]

I presume you all do it missionary style, fully clothed and with the lights out and the with the radio on to drown out any noise that might alert the neighbours
Showing your age. What's a radio?

[Dodger]

To each his own...

If I was with a boy who was uncomfortable doing something that I wanted to do with him - I would NEVER attempt to force him to do it.

Great sex to me has nothing to do with forcing anybody to do anything. It's all about giving and receiving "good feelings" based on a mutual understanding that sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties. Just "going with the flow" like this has left me in a position where I can say without hesitation - that in the thousands of "boy" interactions I've enjoyed in Thailand over the years I can count the times that I've been disappointed (unsatisfied) on one hand. And usually it was due to my inability to perform - not theirs.

To you "Condition Makers" out there: If you find that your sexual interactions are a bit disappointing at times - you may want to try just keeping your mouth shut and treating him like a "person" versus a menu-item at the local pizzeria. Just a thought!

What amuses me to no end, is the fact that most of the working boys already know what a punter wants before his first drink even hits the table. Thais have an uncanny ability to "read" people and usually know instinctively what a punter wants...how much he'll probably be willing to tip, etc., without the punter even opening his mouth. If the punter is known on the circuit it's even easier. I guess what I'm trying to say is - they know much more about YOU than you will ever know about THEM...so just show them that you're a jai dee person...generous...out for a good time...no high pressure...no conditions...just an enjoyable encounter, and you can't go wrong. At least that's been my experience.

[latintopxxx]

I "hear" what some of u say....I have never forced anyone...but I have encouraged them monetarily....in my not so humble opinion a mb is NOT my equal...he is NOT my lover...he is NOT ultimately in charge....I PAY...i DECIDE....,I buy him so i can USE him....yes...USE..... may sound crude...but is that not their function...to be used for the customers satisafction...i dont care who they are...what their name is...all i want is a body that is to my satisfaction...

[latintopxxx]

....and before u reply....think aboutb why u engage with mb....do u care about them...their failies..,.the sick ...dying baffalo....or do u think about the pert silicone like butt...

[Armando]

I buy him so i can USE him....yes...USE..... may sound crude...but is that not their function...to be used for the customers satisafction
My answer is very simple - NO!

I used to go with money boys a long time ago and have written somewhere about a boy USED by that farang who fucked gay Thai boys on the Private Boy Movie Series. Obviously many were perfectly happy about it, but one, Keng, certainly was not. I had taken him out of Classic Boys, he knew what I wanted but it was very clerar he found it painful. So we stopped and went on to other things. For me to have forced that boy to do what hurt him would have destroyed the experience for me. Yet that farang used him and it's perfectly obvious from the video that he is not enjoying one minute of it - but clearly he did need cash at that time.

[NitNoi]

When I was much younger I twice tried cheap straight sex at strip clubs. "Starfish" describes the girl's performance. I had a vagina to masturbate in but not a hint of romance.
There obviously is a market for guys who will pay for this experience - but not me. Renting meat turns me off.

[latintopxxx]

nitnoi...i understand & respect your kink or shall I say ...lack of...and yes obviously there is a market for MBs ...thats the whole point of boyztown/jomtien/sunee.....in fact its what supports Pattaya..keeps it afloat...it is the oldest profession....I am totally turned on by MBs...renting meat as u not so delicately put it...the soft power it gives me...its not strength but cash...I prefer it if the MB doesnt like me or is not into me...its a fetish I guess...I like the cold impersonal transaction process....renting a MB like one would a car or power tool...and when im done...no smile or thank you...just heres your money and go...I often dont even let them shower...like Im finished, Ive used u...now go...thats part of the kink...letting him know from start to finish that his feelings dont matter.......all that matters is his body.....best feeling ever is walking into a gogo bar...stage full of bodies waiting for me..total high......and no I dont think Im the exception...internet is full of role play porn...

[latintopxxx]

armanmdo ...privateboymovie obviously caters for a certain market...some love to see what others will do for the cash...there is also an american series...gemini men...rough looking red neck type guys that are put through little humiliations...I travel to South Africa at least once a year...will often find white afrikaans guys begging/hanging around gay bars/clubs...things have changed there...they no longer rule or are priveleged...quite the opposite...will not go into details but good times are to be had

[latintopxxx]

...my favourite twitter site..... amirpounding......illustrates how i do it......and the fact that there is a market for just about anything under the sun...

[maump]

armanmdo ...privateboymovie obviously caters for a certain market...some love to see what others will do for the cash...there is also an american series...gemini men...rough looking red neck type guys that are put through little humiliations...I travel to South Africa at least once a year...will often find white afrikaans guys begging/hanging around gay bars/clubs...things have changed there...they no longer rule or are priveleged...quite the opposite...will not go into details but good times are to be had

I want to know the details.....

[maump]

Hmmm another outrageous interesting topic (like Barebacking).

I interpret "do everything" as suck/fuck top and bottom and probably open mouth kissing. But I always specify and make a clear agreement. and I always tell them I'm on prep and want bareback (When I do).

I pretty much want the boyfriend "make love" experience and want the man to enjoy (to the extent practical) the experience and to have them want to go with me again.

If it hurts I stop, if they don't want to do something they agreed to, we find something else to enjoy or send them on their way with a reduced tip. I often do repeats with good men who pretend to be my BF well. both top and bottom.

I like the transactional experience mostly to quickly find men ( who are out of my league) who will let me love them and breed them. I hope they get pleasure out of it too....

[latintopxxx]

Maump your comment..."out of my league"..is so true...being closer to 50 than 40 makes me realise that apart from a small sub-section of daddy chasers Im no longer attractive to the majority of younger (especially european) guys...get a total thrill oput of renting the 1st class 5star body...be it a strapping blond afrikaans guy...or a 20 year old Thai with a slim waiste...its only the cash...

[latintopxxx]

..and maump...unemployment is high amingst the less educated white south africans, especially amongst the afrikaans population...they are a beautiful bend of dutch/german/french and even a bit of malay &mixed race...but there are lots of strapping tall fair haired guys...under white rule they all had jobs..all in the civil service like post office/railways..no matter how dumb one was one would get a job as a railway guard or ticket inspector...but things have changed and we now find some living in squatter camps...common to find them begging or offering to "guard" your car por help you park it by waving you ionto an open spot...mopre than once Ive convinced one to do more than guard my car....beautiful huys that could be in a belami movie..so grateful to be treated to a macdonalds meal...over the moon if taken to a steak house...partner and I did a road trip a year ago just as covid restictions were relaxed (i was there for 4 days work so tagged on an extra 10 days)...picked up this gorgeous 19 year old called Jan (he turned 20 during our trip) in Parow (Cape Town) outside a fish & chips shop...begging...his older brother was also hanging around but he looked drugged up...gave the brother R150 to get lost...chatted up Jan...reluctant at first..let him know exacty what we were keen on...spent the next 10 days with us...Cape Town ...winelands.... garden route and then back to Cape Town..did just about anything to him ...didnt even pay..just fed him and bought him some clothes and fake nikes...and a modern haircut...road trip was one long sex fest...if we werent getting oral we would be fucking...any secluded spot along the road would do..he was certainly experienced...wasnt his 1st rodeo...one thing he disliked was rimming...which was my favourite...i love being rimmed...so i encouraged him by promising meals he liked like burgers and steak....the look on his face when we did arse to mouth fucking...but again...money talks...i definitely plan on a rerturn trip as the economic situation is deteriorating so there will be ample talent awaiting

[maump]

..and maump...unemployment is high amingst the less educated white south africans, especially amongst the afrikaans population...they are a beautiful bend of dutch/german/french and even a bit of malay &mixed race....beautiful huys that could be in a belami movie..so grateful to be treated to a macdonalds meal...over the moon if taken to a steak house....picked up this gorgeous 19 year old called Jan if we werent getting oral we would be fucking...any secluded spot along the road would do..he was certainly experienced...wasnt his 1st rodeo...one thing he disliked was rimming...which was my favourite...i love being rimmed...so i encouraged him by promising meals he liked like burgers and steak....the look on his face when we did arse to mouth fucking...but again...money talks...i definitely plan on a rerturn trip as the economic situation is deteriorating so there will be ample talent awaiting

Fascinating! I didn't know SA was even a decent destination for a sex addict. I have GPSd Grindr there nd didn't see a lot that got me hot... so, made COlombia, philipines and Thailand the priority.

I almost went to do contract work there in the early 90's. I love black men, mixed race.... and I love a bel ami man but since they are expensive now, I dont indulge. I prefer dark hair to blonde, like a little skin tone vs bleach white, but never turn away a a pair for thin legs folded on each side of his face ready to be pleasured. I like to rim a clean ass, but can take or leave being rimmed.

Would be interested in more info on SA, .... not a cheap flight.
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Anyone know anything about portugal? it is listed as the best country to retire in international living retirement index

[latintopxxx]

...once u get to south africa its cheap...and unfortunately its not terribly safe...we didnt dare travel at night and even during the day we set google maps to only travel on freeways as often the most direct route would be through dangerous suburbs...work has taken me there a few times over the last 15 years and the situation is worsening so I woukld nbot recommend it , lots of safer places with easier commercial sex scene to choose from

[Marc K]

Had a drunken conversation...ok not drunk...just 1/2 dozen beers...with friends about 1/3 are straight...we sometimes chat about sexc & how the ease with which gays can get sex compared with straiughts...i remeber a straight friend who is a bit of a wopmaniser considered himself to be a bit of a stud because he had laid 8 different woman by the time he was 21...i tiold him I had had that number (guys) by the time i was 15....and that now in a good month will do that....then the taboo subject of prostitutes came up...its still a bit of a no no to engage with them...but the drinks got us talking...what can you as the paying customer expect when the MB says I do everything....surprisingly my list below wasnt the longest...

kissing
oral..includes coming in his mouth
anal...iuncluding barebacking
rose budding (where he licks your hole)
spitting on his face/in his mouth

Any comments...

Yes, many comments. Unless you are a sadist, forcing anybody to do a sex act they don't like is counterproductive. Certainly you should know that by now, Senor LatinBottom. Come'on, put some humanity into your posts, please. Have you ever heard of the Golden Rule? Have you ever considered putting yourself in THEIR place? It seems like you prey on the most defenseless and most vulnerable young men. I have worked in RSA and I take no delight in the poverty which has (now) enveloped all races there. But is it fair to exploit the world's wretched? Just because you have more money/opportunity than them? By the grace of God the roles could have easily been reversed.

And thanks Dodger for your sane comments. I am not a preaching missionary (I do like the missionary position at times tho <wink>) but hey there is a limit to what humanity allows. In general, in (every?) culture in the world, spitting on someone is a sign of the ultimate disrespect and rudeness, unless there is full consent.

[latintopxxx]

...same could be said for what goes in in Thailand...remember stones and glass houses..

[Oliver2]

I always found that if my partner enjoyed the experience my own pleasure was enhanced. And when the encounter occurred in a sauna like the old and much-loved Babylon, and he chose me- I was always too shy to approach- that enjoyment was even greater.

[latintopxxx]

...we are all wired differently.....I dont hold a gun to anyones head...everyone is an adult...at least 18...i prefer mid twenties...marc k...i hear what u say..but.would u rather i not pick Jan up and have him miss out on 10 fun filled days where he ate like a king...got new clothes...shoes (fake i know)...slept in a clean bed...it was all a game...he loved eating at the Spur steak house chain of restaurants...nothing special..,.very average actually...but it was his favourite place...so we'd play a game...if her rimmed me we would go there...he was no novice...could take a good pounding...we'd fuck everywhere...wasnt shy...would swallow cum without a hiccup...just disliked rimming....but i need to make him work for his reward...nothing is free....we ate at that damn chain of restaurants almost every day...even arse to mouth fucking didnt stop him

[latintopxxx]

...and I did feel a twang of sadness when we said goodbye as Jan seemed clueless ....

[Marc K]

...and I did feel a twang of sadness when we said goodbye as Jan seemed clueless ....

...preying on the disadvantaged and "clueless" should make us sad.

I suppose a question for all of us is when does one step over that line? And how can we be positive contributors to our host countries' culture while still enjoying the available fruits of pleasure. Not easy to know where that line is. Let's start with this: the interaction should be willing, between consenting adults, respectful, and not cause any permanent damage or danger to either party.

[gytis123]

...preying on the disadvantaged and "clueless" should make us sad.

Let's start with this: the interaction should be willing, between consenting adults, respectful, and not cause any permanent damage or danger to either party.

I agree with you 100%. If boy doesn't enjoy our interaction and doing nothing in return (i.e. don't hug or kiss me back), then it's a biggest turn off for me.