Finally, I'm heading home!

[cdnmatt]

Not sure exactly why I'm posting this, but it's been a long journey for everyone involved. Everything is finally in place, and I'm heading home:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7bnX-6sJZBw&list=RD7bnX-6sJZBw&start_radio=1

I can not wait to finally give my dude a hug at the airport, and get all my other plans in motion. Ever since waking up the one morning and finding out about that mass shooting at that school in Uvalde, Texas I've been broken. I don't know why really, but that simply broke me, and I've been rebuilding myself since.

Then I wake up yesterday and find out about some piece of shit in NE Thailand who decided to shoot up a kindergarten. It takes a special kind of cowardly asshole to shoot up a a bunch of kids like that. If you're so full of rage and need to shoot a place up, then go take it out on a military barracks, not a school filled with 5 year olds. What the fuck is wrong with people? What an absolute fucken coward.

I'm so disenfranchised with the modern world, I just don't give a shit anymore,. Head to Laos, rent a house for 12 months, and assuming everything falls into place which I'm sure it will then buy some land and build a house and farm. Nothing special, just some pigs, chickens, ducks, veggies, herbs / spirces, et al. Throw some solar panels on the roof with a Telsa Powerwall, figure out something to collect and filter the rain water, and good to go.

I have two dudes, 29 and 27 years old, a 55 year old woman, plus anywhere from 3 - 6 kids waiting in the wings. I can't wait to just get there, get my farm up and running, plus my software development school, plus my gay bar, and just have an awesome and loving family. The rest of the world can just fuck right off, and we'll just wait it out for ~5 years until WWIII is over.

Let's do this, wish me luck.

[Ruthrieston]

The cowardly Man in Brown who stabbed more than twenty children ages 2 - 5 years should burn in hell (he makes me wish there was a place called hell). You are not alone in feeling broken by these appalling events. I wish you a great deal of peace and happiness in your new life.

[pong]

Choke dee mahk, nong chai! And uh, just a tiny remark: as farang you cannot own any land in Laos, a people´s republic-its even more stringent as in this Land of Smiles. Looking forward to loads of entertaining stories about life in Lao. Sanuk duay, boh!

[cdnmatt]

Choke dee mahk, nong chai! And uh, just a tiny remark: as farang you cannot own any land in Laos, a people´s republic-its even more stringent as in this Land of Smiles.

Yep, yep.... do the standard routine people do, put the land in one of my guys names, then they sign a lease over to me. I know that ends horribly for many people, but I fully trust both of my guys, so I'm fine with that arrangement.

You'll have to come check out my gay bar once it's open. Well, it won't really be a gay bar per-se, as that type of thing gets closed down pretty quickly in Laos. It'll just be a nice, relaxing, ambiant pub / restaraunt type of place with good music that's at a normal decibal level. It's just all the staff will happen to be young, gay, and cute, haha..

[latintopxxx]

...this is not going to end well...especially the momeny the cash runs out....so I suggest even though you trust them 1000% that you find a way of keeping them on a short leash

[cdnmatt]

...this is not going to end well...especially the momeny the cash runs out....so I suggest even though you trust them 1000% that you find a way of keeping them on a short leash



First, money isn't going to run out. What do you think I've been doing for the past 4.5 years? Getting various online operations up and running to ensure I never have to worry about money again.

Second, we view this whole life thing a little differently. You think "keeping them on a short leash" is a good idea, whereas I'm of the totally opposite mindset. I view it as it's my responsibility to be a loving and empathetic care taker to the point they want to be with me, and have no desire to hurt me.

[latintopxxx]

ok...u have been warned...

[Dodger]

As I always say..."Life is an Adventure - not a Destiny"

Chase your dreams...if you stumble and trip, just knock the dust off the back of your pants and keep going. As long as you're doing this - you're LIVING. It's when you stop doing this that the process of dyeing begins.

These are the motto's that I choose to live by.

Enjoy every moment to the max and don't ever let anyone else steer your boat.

Happy Sailing!

[Khor tose]

Give me a break. You will be back under some other made up name, if not blind, maybe spastic this time. No need to say good-by.

[latintopxxx]

..relax..as long as the cash keeps flowing the love and care and affection will too.....the moment that stops he will be thrown out of "his" property and thats if he's lucky...other option is he will accidentally fall from the 8th floor balcony...real easy mistake when one is blind

[Dodger]

..relax..as long as the cash keeps flowing the love and care and affection will too....

My Ex-wife is living proof that what you say is correct, and she's a real sweetheart. My kids still refer to her as "Darcy Vader".

Now that I'm living the life as a "Happy Homo" I'm more than content dividing my existence equally between "Reality" and "Fantasy". I only wish I had learned this much sooner in life. In "Reality" HE'S with me every day and night...rocks my world in bed...and is the most trustworthy companion I've ever had in my life. The "Fantasy" part comes in where I pretend that it's all about LOVE and body chemistry, and in the event my money ran out and I couldn't provide him with financial security anymore things would remain the same.

I was telling a friend of mine once about the screaming orgasm this boy I was with had one night. My friend said "he was probably faking". My response was: "Worked for me".

[latintopxxx]

dodger u r a scream but so on the money....at least u r being totally honestly realistic about your living arrangements....I narrowly missed falling into what I can only call a honey trap....invited this cute nubile gay Philipino student to move in as my houseboy...so not as my lover/partner/romantic other half...arrangement/rules were clear...in exchange for a well appointed room, as much food as he wanted, free utilities and the use of an 8 year old toyota.....I (& my partner) got to enjoy his body whenever/however I wanted.... until one evening when he fell asleep after drinking with his mates and his phone pinged,only it wasnt his regular phone...was another..which i found after a brief search of his room...held it up to his face...unlocked it and discovered a neatly laid plan ...after 3 years "together" he was going to claim we were in a defacto relationship and go after 1/2 my assets...he had only moved in 6 months ago but was thinking very long term...and the chat was with his mother back home of all persons....i was speechless..such a sweet ...docile... accomodating... innocent... naive.... please help me im new and dont know anybody..... type guy .....cut a long story short I packed all his stuff one day while he was at university....left it under the carport and changed the entrance code to my place...the scene /hysterics when he got home...the tears...the wailing....followed by the rage....and threats...so yeah....when your sex partner is less than half your age its not love that keeps him there.

[maump]

..held it up to his face...unlocked it and discovered a neatly laid plan ...after 3 years "together" he was going to claim we were in a defacto relationship and go after 1/2 my assets...... .

In what country/state would that plan work. certainnly not my state. even a married couple, the assets you bring into the relationship are yours..... spouse is only entitled to 1/2 the combined income during the marrage, after expenses....

[latintopxxx]

NZ...google it...anyway it wasnt a well thought out plan as you also need to show evidence of shared finances etcetera..

[bkkguy]

anyway it wasnt a well thought out plan

his phone security wasn't well thought out either if he is still using one that will unlock using a sleeping face - or half a sleeping face if he is sleeping on his side, or no face if he is in your preferred pillow-munching position for riding!

[cdnmatt]

As I always say..."Life is an Adventure - not a Destiny"

Good one to have. I've personally always used the mottoa "life if the journey, not the destination", but both hold the same truth.

These days, I'm stohic baby, so people can think what they want.

Things are slightly delayed at the moment though. Nothing to do with me, but due to folks I'm supposed to be relying on on the other side. We'll get it sorted here soon.

Carpe Diem! I've taken up stocism lately, and "carepe diem" is somewhat of a very summarized corner stone of that. It's really helped me though.

[cdnmatt]

latin, that "plan" (if you can call it that) doesn't even make sense. Either you're just making shit up, or you picked up a total dumb fuck who has no clue how the world works.

Or more than likely, considering how you post on this board and if that does indeed represent your attitude, he went into this as a genuine individual. You then treated him like total shit and a sex slave, so he decided, "fuck this shit, I'll take this guy for what I can get him for". That's probably the more liekly scenario, so would be careful before playing the victim card here. Get the dude to post on here, and tell us his side of the story.

[latintopxxx]

matty...never said i was a victim, apologies if you got that impression, and the "semi-sugar daddy" arrangement I have is not my first, in fact I've lost count but I'm approximately on my 19th as we speak....lovely Chinese guy... ....and Im still "friends" with some...the ones im still in contact with or aware of have all met up and moved in/formed relationships with older guys who take care of them financially, if not directly then in directly in the sense that the house they live in and the car the have is supplied by the older partner...I do make it clear that my only ask is sex...not love or affection...and to further rock your boat the arrangement always includes my partner...we dont always have group/3somes...but my partner also has benefits...we both love sex...its a hobby...it works for most of them......the ones that it doesnt work for we ask to move on...not here to be guilted...its just very convenmient to have sex available...its fun...our place is a fun happy "gay" place...wine/cocktaills...light colours...its not like we grab some newbie off the plane, confiscate his passport and keep him chained up in the cellar...

[cdnmatt]

Good for you latin, I really don't give a fuck. It's either you simply don't care about love, or you have never experienced love. Whichever it is, I feel sad for you.

Life is full of so much complete bullshit, love is the only thing worth living for, so it's sad that you quite obviously have never truly experienced it.

[latintopxxx]

.....matty.....stop sulking...stop being so american....so "either u r for us or against us"....life is so much more complex...sex is not love...stop confusing the two...sex is sport...in fact one year in my early youthful years I won a bet with a very good friend who unfortunately is no longer with us, he succombed to auntie aida...who could fuck the most men in a year...I won...

[cdnmatt]

Sulking? What are you talking about? Give us one week with the same group of 20 19 year olds, then ask each of them who they'd prefer to live with. Guaranteed, I'll get the majority of the vote. More than likely, I'd get 100% of the vote, because as it turns out, you're an asshole.

[latintopxxx]

...matty....the naievite...astounding....some guys like to be owned/controlled...they are submissive...its a sexual preference...the ones that are in it just for the free stuff dont last...

[cdnmatt]

You just don't get it, no will you ever get it, hence no point in us talking.

[bucky13]

hence no point in us talking.

YAY !