bucknaway
August 16th, 2006, 07:49
Despite my best efforts, I have established some friendships with guys who were to be a one night stand. One guy in particular did everything he could to muscle himself into my circle of friends. When I first met him I told him he was too young for me and he assured me he was not. I told him he looked to be 16 and he promised me he was 25. I sent him on his way and he returned with his ID, work ID and school ID. He was 25 but still he was not my type for sex but ok for friendship.
We became friends. I did not pursue the friendship or encourage and with that in mind, when he would ask me a question about myself, my desires, my wants and my intentions in Thailand I would flatly tell him the truth. I do not want friends, I want to meet different guys for fun days and send them on their way in the morning to make way for a new stranger. I told him the truth in the hopes it would send him running. He didn't run and began to be fully honest with me. Most of the stuff he told me I already knew. He told me he wants to meet a foreigner who will send him money. He wants to find a guy to love before he is forced to be married or he will move to Australia and on and on...
Over time I came to value him and felt lucky to be his friend. He was still finding himself or still trying to fit in. He wanted to change his hair, add color to it, get a tattoo and pierce his ear. He asked my opinion and I told him the truth.
I told him that I understand his desire and need to stand apart from other Thai guys who are trying to catch the eye or a foreigner but if he makes the changes he wants he can only become a one night stand who must be hidden during the day. I also told him that as long as he continues to dress neat with neat hear, sharp and clean look; he can go anyplace with anyone at anytime and no one will fear being seen with him in the daylight. He was not happy with my advice but recently thanked me for the 2 year old advice... It made me feel good to know I was helpful.
What was his advice to me? He told me not to get fat! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v246/paulindelaware/badteeth.gif
We became friends. I did not pursue the friendship or encourage and with that in mind, when he would ask me a question about myself, my desires, my wants and my intentions in Thailand I would flatly tell him the truth. I do not want friends, I want to meet different guys for fun days and send them on their way in the morning to make way for a new stranger. I told him the truth in the hopes it would send him running. He didn't run and began to be fully honest with me. Most of the stuff he told me I already knew. He told me he wants to meet a foreigner who will send him money. He wants to find a guy to love before he is forced to be married or he will move to Australia and on and on...
Over time I came to value him and felt lucky to be his friend. He was still finding himself or still trying to fit in. He wanted to change his hair, add color to it, get a tattoo and pierce his ear. He asked my opinion and I told him the truth.
I told him that I understand his desire and need to stand apart from other Thai guys who are trying to catch the eye or a foreigner but if he makes the changes he wants he can only become a one night stand who must be hidden during the day. I also told him that as long as he continues to dress neat with neat hear, sharp and clean look; he can go anyplace with anyone at anytime and no one will fear being seen with him in the daylight. He was not happy with my advice but recently thanked me for the 2 year old advice... It made me feel good to know I was helpful.
What was his advice to me? He told me not to get fat! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v246/paulindelaware/badteeth.gif