catawampuscat
August 9th, 2006, 10:49
A friend from Pattaya called me with a dilemma.. It seems he was friendly with a Thai boy who works in a Sunee beer bar and saw the boy
at Jomtien gay beach ..He sat down next to the boy and the boy was with a farang.. My friend also had a boy with him and thought nothing of chatting
with the Thai boy and his farang..
A few days later, my friend saw the boy working again in the bar and asked him if his farang had left town...the boy told him, that the farang
was angry with him for talking to him and broke off their week long relationship.. My friend felt responsible for breaking the rule about
acknowledging a boy, if he is with another farang but under the circumstances didn't think it would be a problem..
I told my friend that for many if not most farangs, the fantasy that they are the one and only man in the boy's life is important and when the
reality that they are just another customer seeps in , often the farang will move on to fresher pastures to resume his fantasy life..
One should not think it rude if a boy ignores them when he is working with a customer as many farang are too fragile and self centered to handle it if
their boy even knows another farang..sounds like junior high school but it is reality .. :cat:
at Jomtien gay beach ..He sat down next to the boy and the boy was with a farang.. My friend also had a boy with him and thought nothing of chatting
with the Thai boy and his farang..
A few days later, my friend saw the boy working again in the bar and asked him if his farang had left town...the boy told him, that the farang
was angry with him for talking to him and broke off their week long relationship.. My friend felt responsible for breaking the rule about
acknowledging a boy, if he is with another farang but under the circumstances didn't think it would be a problem..
I told my friend that for many if not most farangs, the fantasy that they are the one and only man in the boy's life is important and when the
reality that they are just another customer seeps in , often the farang will move on to fresher pastures to resume his fantasy life..
One should not think it rude if a boy ignores them when he is working with a customer as many farang are too fragile and self centered to handle it if
their boy even knows another farang..sounds like junior high school but it is reality .. :cat: