Why I pay for sex with Asian money boys

[extronaut]

Basically, I can tell when they're having fun. Unlike women, it's harder for them to fake it. There's telltale signs, like erections, and stains on the sheets.

I aim for the 20-27 age range. I want someone with plenty of energy. But, any younger than twenty, and I find they can have a bad attitude, especially towards hygiene.

I find I can get amazing sex out of them. Especially when I let him know there's a chance of a bonus if he does a good job.

If he accepts those terms, I then go hell for leather to try and turn him on in bed. I will do things to him you haven't even seen in porn films. Whatever it takes. It's worth it, because he then feels he has to compete, in order to earn his bonus, and the fun just escalates.

I'm usually pretty honest with them. I tell them I'm not after LT. I'm traveling. I will leave. I don't tell them exactly when. Sometimes, they pretend to be heartbroken that I don't love them, but really they're just trying to manipulate me because they want to continue getting money out of me. And I like that! This isn't a serious relationship, and nobody gets seriously hurt when it ends. Everyone leaves (pretty well) happy.

I never tell anybody I know about my little dalliances while on holiday in Asia. Partly because I'm pretty sure nobody in the world wants to know. But also I'm a bit embarrassed, because it all just seems so sleazy. All the same, as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult, and as long as we're all having fun, is there any harm? Seriously?

[gerefan2]

I never tell anybody I know about my little dalliances while on holiday in Asia. Partly because I'm pretty sure nobody in the world wants to know.

True.

[arsenal]

Am I to understand extronaut' s post correctly. Is he saying he pays guys considerably younger than himself for SEX. This will have Mother Superior Scottish Guy harrumphing her knickers here to get all high and mighty. You have been warned. She'll be here soon.

[arsenal]

She didn't come. Surprising. No Mother Superior moralising about 'desperadoes' and sticking emojis into everything to show how hilarious.it is. Disappointed.

Anyway. For a start extronaut I doubt your friends would be that surprised as I dont think they believe you're spending your time shlopping around temples. It's the honesty at the start of the encounter that virtually guarantees a good off. What do you want and what will you pay means all business is done beforehand and then both parties can relax. Asian boys are particularly excellent in the gay for pay department and Thai boys are number one in my view.

[extronaut]

Anyway. For a start extronaut I doubt your friends would be that surprised as I dont think they believe you're spending your time shlopping around temples. .

Maybe. But it would be more true, if I did most of my travels in Thailand, which has that reputation. In the last five years, I've (officially) done Thailand a couple of times, but I've also been to China, Laos, Cambodia, and particularly Vietnam.

Vietnam is not a great sex tourism destination. It has that facility there, but it's really not ideal for it. I go there because I honestly like the place, the culture, the people, and even the language. I'm always boring people about it.

I think some of my friends secretly assume I'm a sex tourist, but it's mostly just guys who wish they were themselves, if they could just get away from the office,, or from the wife. They don't know what i get up to there so they fantasise. Anyone who knows me, also knows that I'm fascinated with all aspects of Asia.

[extronaut]

Am I to understand extronaut' s post correctly. Is he saying he pays guys considerably younger than himself for SEX. This will have Mother Superior Scottish Guy harrumphing her knickers here to get all high and mighty. You have been warned. She'll be here soon.

Why? What am I doing that's actually wrong? Someone tell me.

[a447]

extronaut wrote :


I find I can get amazing sex out of them.

I find 90% of my encounters reward me with amazing sex. But that's only because i can enjoy a much more powerful orgasm, as I'm turned on by Asian guys. Most guys I think enjoy the sex, in as much as they get to cum at the end of it. But to be honest, I've only met a few who actually love the various activities we get up to in bed. My guy in Bangkok is one of them - he definitely enjoys the sex and can't get enough. When I tell him I've had enough pounding for one day, he literally begs to be allowed to continue.

"More. Ok? Nit noy. Can I?"

I always give in to him. And because of that I'm now able to go for a lot longer.


I then go hell for leather to try and turn him on in bed.

I can only turn them on befire we get into bed. Then I put my wallet back in the safe.


I will do things to him you haven't even seen in porn films.

I'm not that adventurous, but he is. Every encounter has some kind of surprise, as he studies porn to get ideas.

When I was growing up there was no porn. But we had heaps of fun trying out the 48 sexual positions - shijuu-hatte- identified in Japanese classics. We had them on a set of cards. Others had them in the form of charts or booklets. In our case, the bottom would draw out a card and I'd attempt the position. It was hilarious but we both got really turned on. So who needs modern porn?


as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult, and as long as we're all having fun, is there any harm?

So long as unwanted pressure is not put on the guy to do things he is uncomfortable with, then none whatsoever!

Arsenal wrote:


Asian boys are particularly excellent in the gay for pay department..

You can say that again!

[arsenal]

Yes a447, I think I will. EXCELLENT. It cannot he stressed enough by both myself and a447 (seriously experienced connosieurs of Thai guys) how important it is to be totally upfront with the boy about what you want and how much you'll pay.

[extronaut]

It cannot he stressed enough by both myself and a447 (seriously experienced connosieurs of Thai guys) how important it is to be totally upfront with the boy about what you want and how much you'll pay.

The approach I tried on my last Asian sojourn was to offer a price range, say (the equivalent of) 1000-1500 baht for a couple of hours service, depending on how I feel at the end of it.

Not all boys were willing to accept those terms. But when they did, it seemed to work really well. Usually they got the full amount, unless they did something wrong, like cum all over my sheets prematurely.

Interestingly, they seemed more willing to accept these terms in Thailand than either Cambodia or Vietnam.

[arsenal]

That sounds fine extronaut. But presumably on the ocassions you pay at the lower end of the range it leaves the encounter somewhat soured.

[a447]

But presumably on the ocassions you pay at the lower end of the range it leaves the encounter somewhat soured.

I imagine it would.

My method is to reach an agreement in the bar - I usually offer just above the going rate - and then ask the guy of he's happy with the offer.

At the end, if I think the guy did a good job he gets a bonus. As it's unexpected he always leaves with a smile on his face.

[extronaut]

That sounds fine extronaut. But presumably on the ocassions you pay at the lower end of the range it leaves the encounter somewhat soured.

On those rare occasions, things would have to be pretty sour before I pay them.

I had a regular boy in Saigon, who one night, only lasted about 30-40 minutes before he stained the sheets, and then suddenly announced that he had to leave. No explanation.

He accepted that he was only getting minimal payment. He seemed a bit embarrassed.

I say he was a regular. It just so happened that the following three nights I was busy. He started to panic that I wasn't calling him, thought I was dumping him over the "incident". He either didn't understand, or didn't believe my explanation. Poor guy must have felt like a total loser.

Anyway, after that busy period, we got together again. All was forgotten. We had plenty more fun, and he got plenty more money out of me - before I suddenly left town, as I always told him I would, I just wasn't willing to tell him when.

[christianpfc]

It cannot he stressed enough by both myself and a447 (seriously experienced connosieurs of Thai guys) how important it is to be totally upfront with the boy about what you want and how much you'll pay.
I use the opposite approach. I don't discuss sexual activities in advance, rather see what happens when we get in bed. I don't discuss tips, but tip the going rate, and all would happily go with me again.

[latintopxxx]

you dont discuss sexual activities?? Can only assume you are totally versatile. If the MB isnt an eager bottom he's no good to me.

[paborn]

The approach I tried on my last Asian sojourn was to offer a price range, say (the equivalent of) 1000-1500 baht for a couple of hours service, depending on how I feel at the end of it.

Not all boys were willing to accept those terms. But when they did, it seemed to work really well. Usually they got the full amount, unless they did something wrong, like cum all over my sheets prematurely.

Interestingly, they seemed more willing to accept these terms in Thailand than either Cambodia or Vietnam.
I get your point. But, while ther's nothing wronf there, I prefer to set a price and pay it. How I feel at the end of it is as much about me, what i drank, ate, etc. as it is the guy. I may not take him again but the time was met , the act(s) done - so I pay the full amount. Just me

[nordicguy]

you dont discuss sexual activities?? Can only assume you are totally versatile. If the MB isnt an eager bottom he's no good to me.

I agree that it's usually not needed to disucss sex activities in very speicifc terms, but I always know if the boy is willing to bottom, if I'm in the mood for some Thai ass pounding (which is often the case, though not always). But beside the bottom thing, I usually don't feel a need to agree on an 'agenda' with the Thai boy. Sex feels better for me the less words and agreements that are made upfront, even though I fully acknowledge that some agreements are neede with pure money boys. But if you're a "regular" wihte top without too many kinks and special needs and fantasies, it should be fairly straight-forward most of what happens in a bed with a young slim smooth Asian boy, unless I have a feeling that he's lazy, unwilling and not in the mood at all.

[poshglasgow]

"If he accepts those terms, I then go hell for leather to try and turn him on in bed...'"

I'm more in danger of putting my back out trying to turn the light on in bed without the distraction of trying to find a MB's switch - but, I don't doubt that he has one!

Mind you, I understand that in the land of the breeders, the art to turning a woman on has much to do with locating her 'switch' but it is notoriously illusive, being somewhat well concealed. Apparently, it's in a bit, up a bit, to the left a bit, back a bit.........

[YNOT555]

Pick up a cute straight Vietnamese boy at Xlarge boy bar in bkk recently, ( I know Vietnamese boys has bad reputation in boytown, even mamasan don’t really recommend them) had a few eyes contact while he was on the stage . Not smiling, just stared at me, the stared really made me feel like he’s telling me he wants me and he is going to fuck me hard if I off him, so I call him to sit with me for a chat, not much English. Use the SayHi app to communicate, asked if he prefer ST or LT, he want 3k for LT, so off we go back to my room in bbb inn, not much talking but he is cute, slim, smooth white skin, pulled his pants down. His 6 inch slim dick is already hard and throbbing with pre cum, he asked me to dim the light, after dimming the light , he become wild and topping me in several positions until he finished it in my mouth, I can tell he is enjoyed it......
What happened next when we woke up in the morning really blow my mind off..... woke up about 6 am , he was already up laying in bed FaceTime with his girlfriend in Vietnam, so I quietly go under the sheet gave him a blow job, loved the smelly unwashed cockhead when he finished me last night, he is getting hard, really hard, things getting really hot when he finished FaceTime with his girlfriend. He dragged me out under the bed sheet, pushing me against the wall , spread my legs and shaft his hard dick into my hole, starting pounding my ass really hard while pulling my hair back, it likes he is telling me he is the man , I’m his fucking bitch, he cum but his dick is still hard, he wanted more fucking, I lay on my back , lift my legs up. Feel my hole getting pounded again, the bed is shaking and making so much noise, (luckily it is in bbb inn, next door guests used to hear this type of noise)this time he is on top of me, I looked at his cute face, sometimes we had a bit of eyes contact while I feel his dick getting in and out of me, I was so hard and cum without touching my dick, I was so willing to surrendered to this boy, let him keep pounding my ass until he cum for the second time, I wished he had sticks his tongue in my mouth and let me suck it, but hey he really satisfied my addiction so when he left, I tip him 1k more for the wild and wet sex that I needed so badly.
Life is like a box of chocolates, when you pick the right one, enjoy your pick and reward them for your enjoyment.

[scottish-guy]

... I quietly go under the sheet gave him a blow job, loved the smelly unwashed cockhead when he finished me last night....

At this point I lost interest.

I almost lost my dinner too

:bo:

[YNOT555]

Really? 555, sorry about you almost lose your dinner but I’m a sniffer, I love sniffing boys sneakers, dirty socks , dirty underwear, specially with the sweaty boy’s pheromones between their legs, Thai boy shower too much, shower before sex, shower after sex, shower in the morning....., I prefer the natural smell of boy’s sex pheromones. Just turn me fucking ON!

[latintopxxx]

extronaut...what a strange post, silly boy...you really believe you can turn a MB on with sex...just flash the cash...best foreplay ever...

[extronaut]

...you really believe you can turn a MB on with sex...

Yes. Unless they're somehow faking their orgasms.

Add the cash incentive into matrix, and the fun goes off the chart.

[YNOT555]

extronaut...what a strange post, silly boy...you really believe you can turn a MB on with sex...just flash the cash...best foreplay ever...

Yes, yes yes, latintopxxx, I’m absolutely sure I turned him on, how can he fake fucking me with his really hard cock and cum twice, I’m sure when he saw a young , slim, long hair 28yo mixed faggot with half Chinese half Portuguese boy walk into the bar and the way he stared at me, I instantly fell that he is the one , I want him....
Hahaha latintopxxx, u r really good, .... what a strange post, silly boy.....yeah! I’m not suppose to post this in sawatdee gay Thailand forum, but accidentally post it here while chatting in the DYM forum, I don’t know what has happened, must be the weird taste drink my roommate juiced for me is the culprit, FUCK ME .............
Is there anyway to edit my post here in SGT, Huhuhu, please help..:blush::blush::blush:

[latintopxxx]

extronaut..ejaculation does not equal orgasm..again silly boy

[latintopxxx]

...and ynot...you probably struck it lucky with s fresh off the bus MB...give him 6 months of wearily servicing anything that walks into the bar and he'll be popping viagra by the handfull

[AsDaRa]

True.


They know. Single men who go many times to Thailand: your family and friends know why you go. Trust me.

[Nirish guy]

Dont be so sure - my own mother and brother once tackled me about going to Pattaya so often and my mother said "dont think I dont know you know, I see all those women in the bars there in Thailand, I know EXACTLY what you're going there for you know !" - I did point out the whole "Hello GAY son here mum" thing but that particualr penny didn't seem to drop and she assumed I was away shagging bar girls - or so she claimed.

Actually in hind sight I think it was probably more a case whilst "being (fake) disgusted" the thought of me banging girl hookers there that was still infinitely better ( in her head) than me banging bar BOYS ! ( both in the sense of "boys" as we KNOW it and "boys" as she no doubt still thinks it ( as all gays are of course pedo's in her brain ! - but THAT as they say is and has been a WHOLE other conversation over the years for depending what mood she's in I guess.

[paborn]

Exactly, the straight world, often, has a hard time integrating their true - deep down - feelings about gay life and their love for a friend or family member. Even strangers prefer to deduce the possible straight answer rather than face the reality of GAY unless we are in their face.

For years, I have had quick holidays in Santo Domingo ( 90 minutes from my Florida home ) and have found that if I'm going to dinner with a black or obvious mulatto I get stares. If he is even passably caucasion it's nothing. Easier to assume he's a nephew or son ( OK these days grandson ) .

Besides many of us travel for business. For years I was as likely to be in Europe or Latin America, even had a client in Israe, as to be anywhere else. Who knew where or why I was anywhere. Far more likely to assume (1) bar girl, if they knew about Thailand ; because that's what they would do or (2) business trip. I never even had to lie.