3some

[ArtyGo]

I have a fantasy to have sex with two guys. Give a give a hint, how easy Thai guys do this, how much MB aske?

[arsenal]

If you're not fussy I can fix you up with Frequent and Latin. 500 baht all in.

[joe552]

I offed a couple of boys from Starboys, back in the day. They knew each other too well to have sex, so we just sat in the room, got very drunk and had a lot of laughs - all naked of course.

The 2nd time I tried, I said to my regular guy - we'll go to a go-go bar and you choose. I enjoyed a bit of fun with both, and even more so, my friend fucking the younger MB.

No idea how much I paid.

[gerefan2]

If the above idea revolts (and it should) ask any money boy whether he does 3 somes....
If he says yes allow him ( not you) to pick the guy. If you don’t like what he picks tell him to choose another.

Take him to another gogo bar to do the choosing as he won’t like doing it with a colleague.

On a serious note ....make sure he doesn’t pick ANY members from here....all fakes.

[frequent]

If the above idea revolts (and it should) ask any money boy whether he does 3 somes .... If he says yes allow him ( not you) to pick the guy. If you don’t like what he picks tell him to choose another.Really only apposite if you're in a bar situation. I recently asked a couple of boys independently on an App if they did 3sums and when they agreed showed them the other's pic as they asked. On that basis they came to my room. On arrival one went to shower and the other left!! He had never done a 3sum before and decided when confronted by the reality he didn't want to start. His by-line on that App now reads "No 3sum, no group". I like to think I've added to his education, if negatively. He still contacts me for a one-on-one

[frequent]

If you're not fussy I can fix you up with Frequent and Latin. 500 baht all in.arsenal hasn't made it clear - he's charging 500 baht (as the mamasans do) for pimping

[arsenal]

Yes. Tips are negotiated directly with the talent as per.

[gerefan2]

And, as you asked, the boys just charge the same fee,each, for 3somes.

Members here probably pay you ....

[samebb]

Some are into it .. some are not. Just ask.

My Birthday in Pattaya last October was a simple task. Asked my boy to go organize it. He knows what I like. Was great.
Other boy was tipped 1000. My (at the time) regular doesn't get tips. That wasn't our relationship, bar boy or not.

[werner]

I enjoy threesomes and will probably indulge in such during my trip to Bangkok next week.

Most of the MB do not seem to mind, although some want to go to another bar to pick the third guy..

Gay MB relish the idea, particularly if they can pick the 3rd guy.

Threesomes with two straight guys can also be fun, but in a different way.

[joe552]

I've no idea why you would want a 3sum with 2 straight guys.

[frequent]

I've no idea why you would want a 3sum with 2 straight guys.But we already know about your almost non-existent sex drive, Joe, so this should come as no surprise

[Oliver]

But does it concern you that the guys may find the experience disagreeable, even if it does pay well? Surely enjoyment depends to a large extent on the response of the partner or partners?

[frequent]

But does it concern you that the guys may find the experience disagreeable, even if it does pay well? Surely enjoyment depends to a large extent on the response of the partner or partners?Who can forget the very straight guy who worked at Nature Boys who like nothing more than rimming his customers!

[poshglasgow]

Who can forget the very straight guy who worked at Nature Boys who like nothing more than rimming his customers!

With or without SG's domestos?

[frequent]

With or without SG's domestos?I believe his saliva performed the same role

[werner]

But does it concern you that the guys may find the experience disagreeable, even if it does pay well? Surely enjoyment depends to a large extent on the response of the partner or partners?

Hmm--I do not think that most of the straight MBs are seeking "enjoyment" when they serve elderly male clients.

If they were seeking enjoyment rather than money, they would go with beautiful young women.

[frequent]

Hmm--I do not think that most of the straight MBs are seeking "enjoyment" when they serve elderly male clients.Right, so by that logic gay MBs could be seeking enjoyment when they service elderly male clients? Or you don't believe that any MB seeks enjoyment when servicing elderly male clients, and whether they're straight or gay is irrelevant?

[werner]

Right, so by that logic gay MBs could be seeking enjoyment when they service elderly male clients? Or you don't believe that any MB seeks enjoyment when servicing elderly male clients, and whether they're straight or gay is irrelevant?

Neither the gay or the straight MBs are seeking enjoyment when they service elderly male clients....

They are providing a service for a fee, and perhaps to find someone that can help them in other ways.

[Oliver]

I wouldn't enjoy having sex with an old woman; why should a straight guy enjoy it with us? He may, of course, pretend to do so and "enjoy" the fact that he's making good money. In which case, it's up to him.
Some young Thais do certainly enjoy it; I've had surprising experiences in Babylon et al which even now I find hard to understand. But you can be certain that the guys who go there aren't straight.
I'm not making a moral judgement, merely questioning whether or not the enjoyment of the other party has any influence on the quality of our own experience. For me it does,
Of course, there is the issue of bi-sexuality. One very popular (and successful) bar worker from about fifteen years ago and who enjoyed a long career in Pattaya was certainly bi; we discussed it a length. He did enjoy sex with older falangs but as a bottom not a top and was equally happy with a woman.

[werner]

I wouldn't enjoy having sex with an old woman; why should a straight guy enjoy it with us? He may, of course, pretend to do so and "enjoy" the fact that he's making good money. In which case, it's up to him.
Some young Thais do certainly enjoy it; I've had surprising experiences in Babylon et al which even now I find hard to understand. But you can be certain that the guys who go there aren't straight.
I'm not making a moral judgement, merely questioning whether or not the enjoyment of the other party has any influence on the quality of our own experience. For me it does,

When I off someone from a go go bar, I am seeking my own enjoyment, not his enjoyment. I provide generous compensation for his services.

Years ago, I discussed having a threesome with an attractive guy. He suggested that we have a threesome with a women, and that I watch.

I reluctantly agreed to this arrangement. He had a good time, but the experience was not the particularly enjoyable for me or for the woman......

[frequent]

Neither the gay or the straight MBs are seeking enjoyment when they service elderly male clients....

They are providing a service for a fee, and perhaps to find someone that can help them in other ways.Agreed but that means your original post is devoid of meaning

[scottish-guy]

If you're not fussy I can fix you up with Frequent and Latin. 500 baht all in

How much if you just put half in?

[Nirish guy]

All depends on whether it's the half with the Domestos on it or not !

[goodtimeth]

I have regular sex with two or three boys. I know two boys quite well and they find other boys among their friends. All straight boys, but they watch movies on their phones when they fuck me. Some have difficulties to stay hard, but all in all I like it a lot. But I guess what makes it successful is that the boys know eachother. And I am quite generous too.

[Nirish guy]

Why limit yourself to three is all I'd say on the subject :)

[bkkguy]

I have regular sex with two or three boys ... All straight boys, but they watch movies on their phones when they fuck me. Some have difficulties to stay hard, but all in all I like it a lot. ... And I am quite generous

for those of you still planning your first trip half way around the world to sample the delights of commercial sex with Thai guys, this may put a few scratches on your rose-coloured glasses

bkkguy

[a447]

It just proves that the journey is often better then the destination.

[sglad]

It just proves that the journey is often better then the destination.

Journey is such a poetic word, a euphemism for what I suspect the ONLY road that they CAN take. In other words, "I have to take that road even though the driver is watching straight porn on his phone to get me to my destination because it's the only road available to me" (how's that for mixed metaphors!). I guess that would also explain why some people would whinge, whine and bitch about Thailand (and the Thai people) which they would sneeringly refer to as that "Third World country" but keep coming back year after year because they know they won't go without as long as they have a few thousand Baht in their wallet.

But that's only my opinion. What really counts is what goodtimeth says himself and according to him, "all in all he likes it" so who are we to judge his liaisons? It's his money, his body, his life. If he likes it, he likes it and I would leave it at that. Different strokes for different folks. And welcome to the board, goodtimeth!

[goodtimeth]

Journey is such a poetic word, a euphemism for what I suspect the ONLY road that they CAN take. In other words, "I have to take that road even though the driver is watching straight porn on his phone to get me to my destination because it's the only road available to me" (how's that for mixed metaphors!). I guess that would also explain why some people would whinge, whine and bitch about Thailand (and the Thai people) which they would sneeringly refer to as that "Third World country" but keep coming back year after year because they know they won't go without as long as they have a few thousand Baht in their wallet.

But that's only my opinion. What really counts is what goodtimeth says himself and according to him, "all in all he likes it" so who are we to judge his liaisons? It's his money, his body, his life. If he likes it, he likes it and I would leave it at that. Different strokes for different folks. And welcome to the board, goodtimeth!

Thanks :)
Yes, I like it indeed. Very much. I have great time doing such group sex. But I am not someone looking for “love” or any type of relationship.
Having said that, apart from the bed, these guys are really nice and I enjoy their company. And the advantage of being generous is that the boys are always ready to come. It’s win win. I don’t think I would enjoy it as much with gay boys. Straight boys are more to my liking. But to everyone his own taste.

[sglad]

More power to you, goodtimeth! I like your positive attitude.

[goodtimeth]

Why limit yourself to three is all I'd say on the subject :)

4 would be too much for me. 3 is my limit :)

[goodtimeth]

More power to you, goodtimeth! I like your positive attitude.

:)

[arsenal]

goodtimeth wrote.
"Straight boys are more to my liking. But to everyone his own taste."

Yes, yes, yes. The sensuality of a Thai straight boy is off the scale and they also have a unique masculine charm.

[werner]

The sensuality of a Thai straight boy is off the scale and they also have a unique masculine charm.

Yes! And the same could be said of Thai gay guys.

[goodtimeth]

goodtimeth wrote.
"Straight boys are more to my liking. But to everyone his own taste."

Yes, yes, yes. The sensuality of a Thai straight boy is off the scale and they also have a unique masculine charm.

What I like with straight boys is that, besides the fact that I personally don’t like feminine boys, I also avoid the “gay attitudes”, and sometimes dramas, of the gay boys.
Straight boy do their job and that’s it. Seing them watch female porn movies on their phone while they take care of me is actually a turn on for me. Most will leave quickly after finished. But my two friends who look for other boys to join us sometimes stay for the night, and it’s nice to be with them, rather than with gay boys, at least for me. I find gay boys quickly boring. Not sure why though.

[a447]

I've never had a 3some in Thailand, but my ideal partners would be two straight guys "interacting" with me and also with each other. No gay/fem guys.

That's just a dream, of course, because although straight guys will perform one-on-one with a customer, I can't imagine they'd have it off together. Surely the other guy would have to be gay to bottom for them.

If you find two straight guys willing to "do everything", including with each other, please let me know!

[goodtimeth]

I've never had a 3some in Thailand, but my ideal partners would be two straight guys "interacting" with me and also with each other. No gay/fem guys.

That's just a dream, of course, because although straight guys will perform one-on-one with a customer, I can't imagine they'd have it off together. Surely the other guy would have to be gay to bottom for them.

If you find two straight guys willing to "do everything", including with each other, please let me know!

I guess that some may do it if you reward them enough. But I myself never asked any to do anything together. If they are friends they probably won’t like it.
Once I brought two boys and a girl. I let them play with the girl first, then it was my turn. That was quite nice too.

[groenthusiast]

I guess that some may do it if you reward them enough. But I myself never asked any to do anything together. If they are friends they probably won’t like it.
Once I brought two boys and a girl. I let them play with the girl first, then it was my turn. That was quite nice too.

I've never had a paid threesome that I would consider to be excellent. I also like hiring straight guys, and what almost always happened in my past experiences is that I become the "meat" in the sandwich, and the guys don't interact with one another. Also, one guy usually takes more of the lead and does more of the work than the other. However, all of these threesomes were with guys from the same bar, so in the future I will try what others have said and pick guys from different bars.

[goodtimeth]

I've never had a paid threesome that I would consider to be excellent. I also like hiring straight guys, and what almost always happened in my past experiences is that I become the "meat" in the sandwich, and the guys don't interact with one another. Also, one guy usually takes more of the lead and does more of the work than the other. However, all of these threesomes were with guys from the same bar, so in the future I will try what others have said and pick guys from different bars.

It must be a question of taste, I guess.
I have had many very good experiences already, but the boys also don’t interact with eachother. I am also the « meat in the sandwich » but I like it. And indeed there is always one taking the lead. With me, the two boys I know who « recruit » their friends to join are the leaders. But it is normal because they know how to please me, and they say to the others what I like and how to do.
My opinion is that it’s better to let one boy you like search for friends.

[sglad]

It must be a question of taste, I guess.
I have had many very good experiences already, but the boys also don’t interact with eachother. I am also the « meat in the sandwich » but I like it. And indeed there is always one taking the lead. With me, the two boys I know who « recruit » their friends to join are the leaders. But it is normal because they know how to please me, and they say to the others what I like and how to do.
My opinion is that it’s better to let one boy you like search for friends.

Out of curiosity, goodtimeth, how much do you pay to have one of these menage a trois? Must cost a bomb?

[goodtimeth]

Out of curiosity, goodtimeth, how much do you pay to have one of these menage a trois? Must cost a bomb?

The boy who bring friends gets 4000, but the other ones less.

[sglad]

The boy who bring friends gets 4000, but the other ones less.

Yikes! So that's 7000-8000Bt per session? My rent in CM was less than that!

[goodtimeth]

Yikes! So that's 7000-8000Bt per session? My rent in CM was less than that!

Not cheap. But I am addicted.
Boys in CM are very nice. I go regularly. You’re lucky to be there.

[scottish-guy]

8000B in Thailand is a bargain to get what you want and not (as at home) arrange two lads who are up for for a freebie 3sum and not to have to watch them all over each other and totally ignoring the old git - which has happened twice to "a friend" (of course)

:yahoo_mini:

[Nirish guy]

Over priced if you ask me ( compared to what a "friend" told me he once paid for way more than a 3 some........it's patts, everything is fluid, go with the flow and dont be throwing big money around just for the hell of it ( IMHO) - mind you I can think of many a night where I have too when I was young and green - but I've also had twice the fun at half the price too on occasions so the miser in my says just pay the going rate and not more. Ps that might have been like 1500 / 2000 for the long term friend / organiser and then 500 / 1000 max for each of the several participants thereafter - my friend told me - mind you I think in hind sight that was all as we'd had one hell of a night out and it wasn't so much payment as taxi money - or so I was lead to believe .....sorry I mean my FRIEND was lead to believe I mean !

[a447]

So, that guy I saw in Pattaya that night with all those boys in tow was your friend??

I thought it was your twin brother.

Silly old me!

A 3some for 8000 baht is a bargain. Try organising that elsewhere and see what you have to pay.

[Nirish guy]

A 3some for 8000 baht is a bargain. Try organising that elsewhere and see what you have to pay.

Why do you think that HE was my friend ! :-) And alas no that poor guy is no longer with us as all HIS (bareback) partying got the better of him very quickly unfortunately once he arrived in Pattaya and his light only shone for a few years - but boy when it was shone it was bright god (or Buddha) love him !

Lest any of us need a timely reminder to protect ourselves and inform and protect also the boys who just don't know any better ( or care) about the ravages of what goes around in Pattaya on a daily basis.

[bkkguy]

Yikes! So that's 7000-8000Bt per session? My rent in CM was less than that!

while many landlords do have a bad reputation I assume you are not expecting your landlord to fuck you (with or without the straight porn), so it is not really a fair comparison

bkkguy

[sglad]

while many landlords do have a bad reputation I assume you are not expecting your landlord to fuck you (with or without the straight porn), so it is not really a fair comparison
bkkguy

I was comparing the cost of the threesome to my relative spending power and not evaluating the price of the threesome itself. Rent was my biggest one-off expense out of my modest monthly stipend and 8,000Bt would have been a lot of money to me.

[goodtimeth]

I personally think that 8000 (actually for me it’s a bit more) to enjoy 3 boys at once is not so much.
I know that they maybe would do the same for less, but I don’t mind being generous, especially with the ones who look for friends to bring over. This makes so that when I want to see them they always show up. And with me being generous they are happy too.

[gerefan2]

My friend has many threesomes. All short time.
My friend pays each participant1500 Bt
My friend will continue to have threesomes and continue to pay 1500 Bt.per person.
My friend is generous but not silly.

[Nirish guy]

Your friend sounds like he's got it off to pat ! Good for you.....I mean him ! :)

[dorayme]

1,000 to 1,500 each is enough in Pattaya. More than that is ridiculous.

[arsenal]

I've never understood the appeal. I love both steak tartare and a knickerbocker glory but I don't want them at the same time as I would enjoy neither properly.

[a447]

...a knickerbocker glory...

What's that?

A hard-on in your undies??

[francois]

No, it is a confection of ice cream and other ingredients. Popular in the UK; naturally.

[arsenal]

Some menus will describe it as 'enough for two.' This is propaganda, have it all to yourself.

[goodtimeth]

I've never understood the appeal. I love both steak tartare and a knickerbocker glory but I don't want them at the same time as I would enjoy neither properly.

I prefer to put it this way: It’s gluttony.
It’s not about mixing steak and ice cream, it’s about wanting more than only one steak.
When I have sex with only one boy I have pleasure, but I would like more. So I usually ask boys to cum twice. But when I have three boys taking care of me I have enough :)

It’s like an ice cream with only one scoop or with three scoops :)

[goodtimeth]

I just had a very good time with 3 boys this afternoon, and once they left I was wondering why I have so much pleasure with group sex rather than one on one.
In fact, what I like is that they all take care of me at the same time, and because they know what I like, I get everything at once. Penetration, nipple play, kiss and suck. I like it so much that when I have sex with only one boy I have much less pleasure. It’s like an addiction.

[scottish-guy]

Welcome back Frequent - although your Status panel still says you are "Banned". What fun!

Then again I'm reliably told that you and others who are awarded the penultimate sanction for disobeying the extraordinarily fluid rules on this Board are not in fact banned but rather "Temporarily Suspended" so quite why your status should ever be displayed as "Banned" is a bit of a conundrum - but probably best just to let it slide and save Moses telling us yet again in some incomprehensible roundabout way that he pays the bills so go and get stuffed.

Anyhoo, we must keep on topic, so if Arsenal (highly respected by sex workers, as he says) is indeed the Mamasan involved in arranging any proposed menage a trois, the OP would be well advised (as always when dealing with such characters) not to rely on anything she tells you and also to check his change.

[scottish-guy]

Oh well - looks like I spoke too soon - not to mention not noticing that this thread had been bumped from 4 months ago

Still, any excuse to poke the bear....

:D

[arsenal]

Och, there ye are. Noo, I have here a list of demands which if not agreed to will mean I shall stop posting. Does thee want to take notes?

[nordicguy]

I've only tried threesomes with another Caucasian top and an Asian bottom (who got a little extra reward for that). This works really well, if you're on a trip together and know each other (me and the other European guy) and therefore don't need to coordinate things too to detailed in advance.

Arranging a threesome with three independent persons with three personal schedules is kind of a nightmare logistically, I think.

[Blacktouch]

Neither the gay or the straight MBs are seeking enjoyment when they service elderly male clients....

They are providing a service for a fee, and perhaps to find someone that can help them in other ways.

You are completely right. It's a form of income. Easy money and a form of living. Paying the bills etc.

But at the same time, you do get the gay MB who may enjoy the sex with an older male. Some do it just for the money and some do it for money and fun.

[Blacktouch]

It must be a question of taste, I guess.
I have had many very good experiences already, but the boys also don’t interact with eachother. I am also the « meat in the sandwich » but I like it. And indeed there is always one taking the lead. With me, the two boys I know who « recruit » their friends to join are the leaders. But it is normal because they know how to please me, and they say to the others what I like and how to do.
My opinion is that it’s better to let one boy you like search for friends.

What if the two boys you know pick a boy you don't fancy to take part in the 3some?

Do you go along with the 3some or tell them to pick/bring another boy?

[nordicguy]

You are completely right. It's a form of income. Easy money and a form of living. Paying the bills etc.

But at the same time, you do get the gay MB who may enjoy the sex with an older male. Some do it just for the money and some do it for money and fun.

Yes, some MBs really enjoy having sex with older white dudes - others can't even get a real hard-on while getting pounded and therefore always try to get away with BJs or even handjobs. It's easy to spot it he likes it or not with anal sex, whereas good actors can fool any farang with a good BJ.

Many farangs just claim that MBs are only in it for the money and denies that they actually like sex with (mature) white men. I think they are wrong - many of them like what they are doing with farangs in bed, but I actually think it's some sort of self-defense to say that it's only about the money for the MBs, because the worst thing you can be accused of as a supposedly mature, educated, independent white man is being this naïve, clueless farang who thinks the Thai boys really mean what they say and do. Then it's safer to just assume that all Thai MBs only care about the money they are paid (and that most Filipinos just want a marriage passport to emigrate to the west).

But there are really Thai MBs who enjoy sex with farangs (even getting fucked) just like there are really Pinoy boys who sincerely want to marry (even when it's a considerably older Caucasian guys). The thing is that it's just (for most western guys) really embarrasing to make a mistake here and actually believe what you're being told by the boy ....

[Blacktouch]

The boy who bring friends gets 4000, but the other ones less.

No wonder your straight boys like you so much and stay the night when getting paid that much!

[Blacktouch]

I personally think that 8000 (actually for me it’s a bit more) to enjoy 3 boys at once is not so much.
I know that they maybe would do the same for less, but I don’t mind being generous, especially with the ones who look for friends to bring over. This makes so that when I want to see them they always show up. And with me being generous they are happy too.

Each to their own. And your money, so spend as you please.

But one should always try and not inflate the price to spoil it for others, and the boys will expect the same amount of money from other customers?

I think a fair price to the friend/finder is 2000 and 1500 to the others. So not to inflate the price in Pattaya?

[Blacktouch]

1,000 to 1,500 each is enough in Pattaya. More than that is ridiculous.

This could also inflate the prices in Pattaya?

[gerefan2]

What if the two boys you know pick a boy you don't fancy to take part in the 3some?

Do you go along with the 3some or tell them to pick/bring another boy?

That adds up to a 4some!

Anyway, I always make sure the first boy is one I fancy. We then go out and he picks the other boy.

If this boy looks reasonable off we go. He does not have to be a Leonardo di Caprio!

If he indicates a boy that in my opinion is unacceptable, then I tell him so and we continue the search.

Its not really rocket science!

[dorayme]

You might like sweet-niceboy and his twin brother in Pattaya (on Romeo).They are very pleasing, work well together and might be happy with about 1,000 each.

[goodtimeth]

What if the two boys you know pick a boy you don't fancy to take part in the 3some?

Do you go along with the 3some or tell them to pick/bring another boy?

This never happened yet, because the one who brings his friends sends me pictures before to meet.

But yes, they already sent me pictures of boys I did not like. In that case I just say I don’t like and there is no problem.

[goodtimeth]

Each to their own. And your money, so spend as you please.

But one should always try and not inflate the price to spoil it for others, and the boys will expect the same amount of money from other customers?

I think a fair price to the friend/finder is 2000 and 1500 to the others. So not to inflate the price in Pattaya?

I never went to Pattaya, so you are safe. I won’t inflate the price there :)

I know that most boys would take less. Sometimes I am myself surprised that they ask very little.

But I really enjoy straight boys to fuck me. And it’s not easy to get the ones I like with small money. Because they probably would not be interested. And I need to give a bit more to the boys who convince their friends to join. So, sometimes it’s needed to give more.

[goodtimeth]

That adds up to a 4some!

Anyway, I always make sure the first boy is one I fancy. We then go out and he picks the other boy.

If this boy looks reasonable off we go. He does not have to be a Leonardo di Caprio!

If he indicates a boy that in my opinion is unacceptable, then I tell him so and we continue the search.

Its not really rocket science!

Indeed, it’s better to have a first boy that we already know who “facilitate” everything.

[christianpfc]

...straight boys... And it’s not easy to get the ones I like with small money. Because they probably would not be interested. And I need to give a bit more to the boys who convince their friends to join. So, sometimes it’s needed to give more.
I adhere to the opposite approach. When I propose straight boys who have no other contact to Farang (assumption based on the fact that I hunt away from tourist areas and they don't speak English), I offer 500 for wanking. The logic is the following: a boy who is curious about gay sex, or just doesn't care, will gladly accept as that's a good offer by their standards (300 THB minimum wage). But one who is either disgusted at the thought of gay sex (and won't be much use in bed) and is greedy will ask for 1000 or more. No thanks.

Details here: Dating Thai boys (61) Recruiting straight boys for gay activities
https://christianpfc.blogspot.tw/2017/11/dating-thai-boys-61-recruiting-straight.html

A Farang friend who had orgies with groups of boys in his room in Bangkok paid 500 for those who just join naked, and 700 for those who fuck him, and they were coming in droves and brought friends. However all very average by my standards.

[goodtimeth]

I adhere to the opposite approach. When I propose straight boys who have no other contact to Farang (assumption based on the fact that I hunt away from tourist areas and they don't speak English), I offer 500 for wanking. The logic is the following: a boy who is curious about gay sex, or just doesn't care, will gladly accept as that's a good offer by their standards (300 THB minimum wage). But one who is either disgusted at the thought of gay sex (and won't be much use in bed) and is greedy will ask for 1000 or more. No thanks.

Details here: Dating Thai boys (61) Recruiting straight boys for gay activities
https://christianpfc.blogspot.tw/2017/11/dating-thai-boys-61-recruiting-straight.html

A Farang friend who had orgies with groups of boys in his room in Bangkok paid 500 for those who just join naked, and 700 for those who fuck him, and they were coming in droves and brought friends. However all very average by my standards.

I guess that for whatever price there will always be boys ready to do it. Price is not really important to me, as long as I have what I need.

Tomorrow I will meet two boys I know, and one new that they bring with them. A cute student from a technical school who has a girlfriend. For me, that is priceless :)

[nordicguy]

The logic is the following: a boy who is curious about gay sex, or just doesn't care, will gladly accept as that's a good offer by their standards (300 THB minimum wage). But one who is either disgusted at the thought of gay sex (and won't be much use in bed) and is greedy will ask for 1000 or more. No thanks..

I subscribe to this logic. Fully straight boys don't exist, but some of the boys who culturally and socially regard themselves as "straight" are more open and curios than others to explore sex with (white) men, however small or large this hidden "gay corner" of their sexuality might be. The moment where straight Thai boys most directly reveal to a farang how open and curious they reallyare, is probably when they willingness is converted to an actual agreement to meet and an amount of baht. An initial agreement on a handjob han easily evolve into more as the straight Thai boy's level of excitement increases and his sex horizon becomes wider and wider along his journey into his own complex and mixed sexuality.

Thanks, ChristianPFC, you really write interesting things on this subject.

[nordicguy]

....A cute student from a technical school who has a girlfriend. For me, that is priceless :)

:-) .... I've tried straight Thai boys (who had girl friends too ) ... It feels a little like a conquest or a least a really nice catch to see and feel a straight Thai boy so eager and excited giving a BJ.

[goodtimeth]

:-) .... I've tried straight Thai boys (who had girl friends too ) ... It feels a little like a conquest or a least a really nice catch to see and feel a straight Thai boy so eager and excited giving a BJ.

Very exciting indeed. For me it’s super exciting to look at boys fucking me, knowing that their girlfriend is waiting for them.
Quite a number of them don’t want to suck though. But no problem.
The boys I prefer are not the professional straight bar boys. I prefer those amateur ones who need to watch porn to stay hard during sex. Very hot.

[francois]

. Fully straight boys don't exist,

Wrong! They do exist.

[nordicguy]

Wrong! They do exist.

Fully gay and fully straight are cultural categories that we use to navigate in life. This is especially true for younger guys, even though they on the surface tend to be very firm in claiming to be straight unless they are gay. Luckily, in Thaliand and other SE Asian countries, the gay/straight categories seem to be tight to the public image and not so much what you actually do in bed, e.g. the example of seemingly straight Thai boys with Thai girl friends accepting varoius offers from farangs to join them in bed for a small amount of pocket money. I personally believe that the money plays an important role in the this - the money can (totally unconsciously!) be a good psychological excuse for the Thais boy to join the farang in bed. It might not lead to a glorious money boy career for the boy, but it can serve as an opportunity to explore your sexuality.

I consider myself gay, but I know that it's not entirely true if I claim that I have only thought of boys and guys since my young teenage years, but it has MAINLY been guys and boys for sure, and over time I - knowingly or unknowingly - have developed an identity as being almost exclusively gay because that is just easier to manage and defend in public, especially in the west where we insist that there is a clear and consistent link between your public/family sexual identiy and what you actually are doing in bed. In SE Asia, they tend to be a little more willing to split up the public/family image (cultural institutions) and the bedroom reality and human sexuality (bodily physics, attraction, fun etc ) outside the gay/straight categories.

[paborn]

Fully gay and fully straight are cultural categories that we use to navigate in life. This is especially true for younger guys, even though they on the surface tend to be very firm in claiming to be straight unless they are gay. Luckily, in Thaliand and other SE Asian countries, the gay/straight categories seem to be tight to the public image and not so much what you actually do in bed, e.g. the example of seemingly straight Thai boys with Thai girl friends accepting varoius offers from farangs to join them in bed for a small amount of pocket money. I personally believe that the money plays an important role in the this - the money can (totally unconsciously!) be a good psychological excuse for the Thais boy to join the farang in bed. It might not lead to a glorious money boy career for the boy, but it can serve as an opportunity to explore your sexuality.

I consider myself gay, but I know that it's not entirely true if I claim that I have only thought of boys and guys since my young teenage years, but it has MAINLY been guys and boys for sure, and over time I - knowingly or unknowingly - have developed an identity as being almost exclusively gay because that is just easier to manage and defend in public, especially in the west where we insist that there is a clear and consistent link between your public/family sexual identiy and what you actually are doing in bed. In SE Asia, they tend to be a little more willing to split up the public/family image (cultural institutions) and the bedroom reality and human sexuality (bodily physics, attraction, fun etc ) outside the gay/straight categories.
I disagree. All my reading, including the Kinsey report, indicates that the current academic view is that human sexuality is a linear projection with absolute hetero at one end and absolute homsexuality at the other, along the line connecting the two are varying degrees of sexual desires. Bisexuality is in the middle - just a graphic way of looking at it. There are those men who would rather die than touch another man and those, like me, who can barely tell one woman from another. Seriously, when watching crime dramas with larrge casts I can get confused because I can't seem to remember the various female faces. We've all had the one who will let you touch them for cash , simply can't get hard, need to watch porn and forget you're there. This is not simply a way "to navigate life" is there position on the spectrum of human response to sex.

[Blacktouch]

I never went to Pattaya, so you are safe. I won’t inflate the price there :)

I know that most boys would take less. Sometimes I am myself surprised that they ask very little.

But I really enjoy straight boys to fuck me. And it’s not easy to get the ones I like with small money. Because they probably would not be interested. And I need to give a bit more to the boys who convince their friends to join. So, sometimes it’s needed to give more.

In that case, I fully understand your increase in fees to the boys. I guess if you want a certain type, you have to pay for it. Point taken!

[Manforallseasons]

Wrong! They do exist.

Pattaya is in the midst of low season and boys are anxious....Yesterday was at one of my favorite go go bars with all straight guys.....I know many well, I asked one who is quite well hung if he could top another guy I liked, after they had a brief discussion the 3 of us were together and one of the "straight" guys was the bottom....you can fill in the rest!

[Nirish guy]

[QUOTE=Manforallseasons;242705....you can fill in the rest![/QUOTE]

As the straight guy said to you after he came ?? :)

[gerefan2]

the 3 of us were together and one of the "straight" guys was the bottom....you can fill in the rest!

As the latest member to have a 3 some, we would love to know how much it cost...well I would!

[Smiles]

For those who care: I am a stalwart linear projection. At one time I seemed to be a leaning linear, but I put the kibosh on that after meeting a pure projection in a gay bar in Vancouver. I've never looked back.

Thank you and have a good day.

[Smiles]

Pattaya is in the midst of low season and boys are anxious....Yesterday was at one of my favorite go go bars with all straight guys.....I know many well, I asked one who is quite well hung if he could top another guy I liked, after they had a brief discussion the 3 of us were together and one of the "straight" guys was the bottom....you can fill in the rest!
Wow, that sounds almost too good. Just asking, but what happened when you came? Kick the door down?

[Manforallseasons]

Smiles do you think it wise for someone your age to be awake at this hour?

[poshglasgow]

If you're not fussy I can fix you up with Frequent and Latin. 500 baht all in.

I once knew a promiscuous young Italian waiter in Naples who answered to the name 'Frequent and Latin'!

[goodtimeth]

One of the things I would like to do,one day, is to have 4 or 5 cute straight boys fucking 2 bottom farangs.

I would be one of the two farangs, of course.

And the boys would take turns fucking us while watching porn on tv.

I have to find the right farang though, and 4 or 5 nice boys who accept to stay some time with us. Enough time to cum twice, once per farang. And why not one more time in the mouth :)

[latintopxxx]

will have to be a virile young guy on viagra motivated by straight porn thats gonna clamber onto the wrinkly old fossils on this site

[gerefan2]

Ah... the voice of experience ....

[latintopxxx]

nah...sorry not really...Im a top...remember. I think ive topped lotsa straight MBs but who the hell knows...they all tell fibs...like yeah...u r sooo big...

[frequent]

nah...sorry not really...Im a top...remember. I think ive topped lotsa straight MBs but who the hell knows...they all tell fibs...like yeah...u r sooo big...Where would you place these "straight" money boys on Kinsey's hetero-homo scale (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale)?

[frequent]

As the latest member to have a 3 some, we would love to know how much it cost...well I would!My latest (on the weekend) was 1000 baht per boy (Bangkok rates). They are regulars from my Little Black Book

[latintopxxx]

kinsey and his scales...who the hell knows...doesnt actually matter...I just like em masculine..gay or not...cant stand queenie flamboyant girlie stick figure guys...

[frequent]

kinsey and his scales...who the hell knows...doesnt actually matter...I just like em masculine..gay or not...cant stand queenie flamboyant girlie stick figure guys...But latin that's exactly my image of you, sweetie

[goodtimeth]

will have to be a virile young guy on viagra motivated by straight porn thats gonna clamber onto the wrinkly old fossils on this site

I know a few.
I think it’s more difficult to find another farang.

[werner]

Interesting discussion of 3somes.

I am glad that forum members are NOT prudish and can discuss such issues frankly....

[frequent]

This never happened yet, because the one who brings his friends sends me pictures before to meet. But yes, they already sent me pictures of boys I did not like. In that case I just say I don’t like and there is no problem.I'm finding this more and more common. Mention a 3sum via an App and the response comes back "I have friend". It was once the case that it was up to the customer to organise the guys; nowadays I'd have to say it's getting to 50% where "I have friend" is the reply. I'd organised a guy and his friend to come over on my birthday; at the last minute the friend cancelled. "Never mind, I have another friend" was the response. Speaking of birthdays a dear friend of mine (former money girl) had hers last Monday but I don't think she had a single companion to celebrate, let alone two. I had forgotten all about it and she lives up-country otherwise I might have baked a cake. Woe is me

It seems obvious the Asian guys are getting accustomed to these Western "perversions". I wrote in another post quite recently about boys now getting naked quite readily

[goodtimeth]

I'm finding this more and more common. Mention a 3sum via an App and the response comes back "I have friend". It was once the case that it was up to the customer to organise the guys; nowadays I'd have to say it's getting to 50% where "I have friend" is the reply. I'd organised a guy and his friend to come over on my birthday; at the last minute the friend cancelled. "Never mind, I have another friend" was the response. Speaking of birthdays a dear friend of mine (former money girl) had hers last Monday but I don't think she had a single companion to celebrate, let alone two. I had forgotten all about it and she lives up-country otherwise I might have baked a cake. Woe is me

It seems obvious the Asian guys are getting accustomed to these Western "perversions". I wrote in another post quite recently about boys now getting naked quite readily

Yes indeed. The “professionals” on the apps are often introducing their friends.
Recently one of them told me that he had a friend and I told him to bring him too.
And it was great because his friend was in fact much cuter than the other one.

But what I like the most is when they bring a friend that is not a pro, or one that never did it.
I like to find these ones most.

[frequent]

Yes indeed. The “professionals” on the apps are often introducing their friends. One interesting point - the initial contact usually suggests that he collects the money for both, and then he'll pay the second boy. You have to wonder how much he promised his friend, but it's probable that it's not 50% of the total; he'll be taking his "cut"

[latintopxxx]

frequent, u really are a silly old soul...western perversions..really...like the west invented sex and all its various permutations....u were still living in caves clothed in bark and animal skins while they (the east) were already doing it non stop on silk sheets

[frequent]

frequent, u really are a silly old soul...western perversions..really...like the west invented sex and all its various permutations....u were still living in caves clothed in bark and animal skins while they (the east) were already doing it non stop on silk sheetsThe sense of irony doesn't work in the Land of the Long White Shroud? You know the old saying about if you have to choose between a conspiracy and a cock-up, always choose the cock-up? In my case, if you have to choose between thinking frequent is being serious and frequent is pulling someone's leg, there's also an obvious choice. You'd think a bunch of carefree queens would understand that, but I suspect a bunch of ageing sex tourist sodomites isn't exactly the same thing

[dinagam]

Let's forget Old King Cole for a moment.
The introducer in the threesome is entitled to a commission for bringing his friends along voluntarily and casually. Everyone is pleased with the arrangement. There should not be any pettiness among friends.

[goodtimeth]

One interesting point - the initial contact usually suggests that he collects the money for both, and then he'll pay the second boy. You have to wonder how much he promised his friend, but it's probable that it's not 50% of the total; he'll be taking his "cut"

Yes the boy who introduces a second boy certainly gives less to his friend.
I am quite ok with it. Not my concern. I often even give the first boy an extra tip when he instruct the second boy on how to do. It’s part of the fun for me.

[frequent]

Interestingly one of my regulars came around yesterday with a “new friend”. After it was over my regular gave the “new friend” only 500 baht - poor performance!

[Oliver2]

My attempts at threesomes have been unsuccessful and ended about six years ago.
However, at much the same time, P and I were at Ambiance (he was about thirty at the time) when a single,youngish (late twenties), white American guy was a guest. One day there was a timid knock on my door. P was out somewhere at the time.
The young man said something along the lines of the following; " I saw you with your boyfriend in the lift yesterday and thought you looked very nice together. Any chance of a threesome?"
I could understand the reference to P "looking nice" (he still does); but me?
I was astonished and embarrassed. Sorry, I said and blamed my refusal on P''s shyness. A lie.
I was sorry for the young guy and later had a chat with him about Pattaya. He'd somehow got the wrong impression about the city; commercial sex was not his scene. I told him that there were many other places in Thailand where could meet up with guys who were not looking for money, both local and falang.

[Old git]

"My attempts at threesomes have been unsuccessful and ended about six years ago"

'Long time' threesomes are always a little tricky because with one person you can pack them off to the bathroom as soon as you get back to your room, and hide your cash and valuables before they come out again. With two bed mates this is harder.

With a threesome you also have to be careful not to leave one of them feeling left out.

But sex aside, waking up in a crowded bed, between young hot hard bodies - is a very pleasant way to start your day..

[BOY69]

In my upcoming trip I will stay first time at Jomtien complex
Is it possible to arrange 3 some with 2 boys from the bars there ?

[Manforallseasons]

In my upcoming trip I will stay first time at Jomtien complex
Is it possible to arrange 3 some with 2 boys from the bars there ?

You might have a problem arranging this as most of the “boys” working in the complex are silly queens.

[arsenal]

I've never understood the appeal of a threesome. I don't think you get the best of both boys I think you get the full enjoyment of neither. It's impossible to play football and cricket at the same time.

But MFAS dislike of twinkie winkie boys aside, of which Jomtien is their natural habitat the answer is yes. I'm sure other members can advise on how to proceed.

You know the Pattaya sex business doesn't offer buy one get free. Perhaps it should. Haha.

[BOY69]

I like twinks I don't like hunks so it won't be a problem if this the sort of boys in Jomtien complex.

[Manforallseasons]

I like twinks I don't like hunks so it won't be a problem if this the sort of boys in Jomtien complex.

Not sure what your performance expectations are but don’t expect the sissy boys to interact with each other if so it would be more like lesbian porn.

[BOY69]

Not sure what your performance expectations are but don’t expect the sissy boys to interact with each other if so it would be more like lesbian porn.

Ha ha...I understand so I will have to find 3some at other places :)

[Manforallseasons]

I understand so I will have to find 3some at other places :)

Actually, if your adventurous find a twink you like take him to a gogo and have him pick a boy, if you both agree you might have an interesting 3some.

[frequent]

As a long-time practitioner of 3somes I can say that MFAS' comments show his usual ignorance and general homophobia. It's impossible to generalise whether any one person will prefer any sexual position over another just by looking at them or even listening to what they say. I had regular 3somes with the same two bar boys over several years. The only "rule" I find is not to take two guys from the same bar - and even then you will find in larger bars that there are boys who will go with each other. Not having sex with a "friend" seems a universal preference the world over. I can't answer for Pattaya, which is merely a large country town, but in Bangkok on the Apps such as Grindr if I'm chatting to a guy or - more likely - he has sent me a message first, I say up front (as I did yesterday) "looking for bottom for 3some" (my regular "top/vers" was feeling frisky) and see where the conversation goes

As for having anyone sleep over - no thanks, Old Git

[chip]

Sleep overs just don't happen with me. Paranoia I guess, don't want to be murdered in bed, robed in bed or whatever else can happen to one with a stranger(s) inside the same room as I while I sleep. I have tried it in the past a couple of times in the past and a decent night's sleep never happens, just sort of doze waiting for the shoe to drop.

[Blueskytoday]

For me, I never have a sleep over...Also paranoia,,,,I don't know this guy at all......I would never get to sleep...besides for me...I don't need to wake up middle of the night for another sex romp....ONCE is enough hehe

[frequent]

Sleep overs just don't happen with me. Paranoia I guess, don't want to be murdered in bed, robed in bed or whatever else can happen to one with a stranger(s) inside the same room as I while I sleep. I have tried it in the past a couple of times in the past and a decent night's sleep never happens, just sort of doze waiting for the shoe to drop.I prefer the tried and tested guy but I don’t invite regulars to stay either. There are those who dislike the practice of hotel security demanding the boy’s ID card but I’ve always viewed it as a safety first mechanism

[frequent]

For me, I never have a sleep over...Also paranoia,,,,I don't know this guy at all......I would never get to sleep...besides for me...I don't need to wake up middle of the night for another sex romp....ONCE is enough heheYou've never had a matinee and decided after dinner you’re ready for an encore? I usually go for sex in the late afternoon or early evening - if the guy(s) works in a bar he’s got time to get to work. It also suits my own pursuits of being awake for the NYSE closing bell

[BOY69]

Sleep overs just don't happen with me. Paranoia I guess, don't want to be murdered in bed, robed in bed or whatever else can happen to one with a stranger(s) inside the same room as I while I sleep. I have tried it in the past a couple of times in the past and a decent night's sleep never happens, just sort of doze waiting for the shoe to drop.

I did it before but no more , hotel reception usually takes ID from the boy so there is no need to be panic no one will murder you overnight...
The reason I won't do LT anymore with boys sleeping with me overnight or couple of days is because most of the boys have bad sleeping habits they tend to sleep very long hours and wake up very late ( sometimes I wonder if the most popular hobby in Thailand is sleeping...) I like to wake up early eat my breakfast and then go to the beach,pool, shopping or other activities and it's very annoying to find yourself stuck with a boy sleeping in your room till late .

[arsenal]

Long time and short time used to cost about the same. Now long time is up to twice the expected tip of short time.

[frequent]

Long time and short time used to cost about the same. Now long time is up to twice the expected tip of short time.I’ve never understood the attraction of “long time”. What’s to discuss? The second law of thermodynamics? String theory? The role of the “Mia noi”?

[dinagam]

I look for two things before going long time - a long, thin, and smooth neck, and a smooth underbelly on a thin frame. There was a regular Khmer, a stall assistant who used to spend overnight with me whenever I came to Jomtian complex. He considered my gesture as a measure of helping him, monetary wise, and the joy of being ravaged. He left Pattaya for good after turning thirty.
Some boys will be willing to do it for around 1,000b when there is a mutual attraction /agreement, and bar boys will incur additional costs. But I always tell them that 90% of the fees is for the sleeping part(mostly apart, since I need a minimum of two hours of deep sleep without any distraction) , and the remainder for sex by any definition.

[gerefan2]

I’ve never understood the attraction of “long time”. What’s to discuss? The second law of thermodynamics....

The art of a failed troller? How to make friends and influence people?

[chip]

So your invited for a 3some, but the boys want you to go to their place and perhaps stay overnight. I would somewhat be hesitate to do this, I would not stay overnight, but a few hours of play not at my hotel might be interesting.

[frequent]

So your invited for a 3some, but the boys want you to go to their place and perhaps stay overnight. I would somewhat be hesitate to do this, I would not stay overnight, but a few hours of play not at my hotel might be interesting.The likelihood that you will be invited to a boy’s abode is vanishingly small. I can’t remember more than one occurrence in the past 30 years, and it turned out that he was house-sitting the condo of one of his “patrons”, it wasn’t his room at all. A friend of mine does visit his current catamite to consummate their love, but said guy is living in a guesthouse and my friend pays for the room

Most Thai regard interactions with older westerners as evidence of prostitution so having someone the neighbours will perceive as a “customer” turning up means a considerable loss of face, even if “everyone knows” the guy’s occupation

[chip]

One of the boys on Gay Romeo has suggested that i come to his place for a enjoyable 3some. I told him that it would have to be during the day time, as the "villains" seem to lurk more when it is dark. I am considering it, but have no expectations of a luxury condo or even air conditioning, I would be quiet surprised if it was.

I did meet a guy in Singapore, in fact two that were friends. When one of them went to the washroom, I was told by the other that I must choose between the two of them. When the other guy returned he knew what was up and decided to leave. I did go back to the other guys apartment and it was beautiful, then I found out that his "benefactor" was in the UK and he was able to live in this place in his absence. The benefactor also told him that someday he would be taken to the UK to live. I just smiled, as I did not want to burst the "bubble". He was a very hot Malaysian guy, early 20 with muscles to spare.

[frequent]

One of the boys on Gay Romeo has suggested that i come to his place for a enjoyable 3some. An "enjoyable" 3some - what would the criteria be for that in his eyes? Would you leave the money for both of them on the fridge, in two separate envelopes, or expect them to divide it up themselves? I find handing the money over is an appropriate signal for them to leave

As for Singapore or Malaysia - I've never paid for sex in either place, although Singapore these days is teeming with Thai, Chinese, Vietnamese and Indonesian money boys

[chip]

An "enjoyable" 3some - what would the criteria be for that in his eyes? Would you leave the money for both of them on the fridge, in two separate envelopes, or expect them to divide it up themselves? I find handing the money over is an appropriate signal for them to leave

As for Singapore or Malaysia - I've never paid for sex in either place, although Singapore these days is teeming with Thai, Chinese, Vietnamese and Indonesian money boys

I would find out how much the adventure was going to be and then divide it by 2 and give each their appropriate amount and if the guy that arranged this trio did an excellent job I would more than likely slip him an some extra baht.

Singapore these days is pretty much lots of $$$$, so in my last few visits I have skipped the boys and waited for Thailand.