Apps...Misleading Pics

[Manforallseasons]

As the scene in Thailand has migrated largely to the apps...Hornet...Blued etc. Profile pics are often misleading. My profile says no fem gay sissyboys, many pics look ok but in person YUCK......Buyer Beware!
Back to the go go bars only as you see what you get up front!!!!

[goji]

I meet all on line dates on neutral territory.

If they look significantly different to the profile photo, I have the moral authority to send them away. Particularly if I have checked that point in discussion before fixing the meeting.
If everyone did that with highly inaccurate pictures, the problem would correct itself. We don't have any obligation to complete dates with badly misleading photos.

The subtle cases are more difficult, e.g. aging a couple of years. Or those where I failed to spot those cute photos disguising a beer gut. Since there is no cheating, I find it more difficult to send them away.

Of course, the bars remove that problem, providing it's a gogo bar where he's almost all on display.

[arsenal]

Apps are for wimps.😎

[FarangRuMak]

Meeting the guy on neutral territory is a wise thing to do.
It does take away that magic moment when the door opens and your own private stunner walks in but it's better to be sure.
The most common trick is the time-lapse photo.
You're expecting lamb and aged mutton walks into your presence and you don't recognize him from the posted photo.
Awkward.

[joe552]

But, FRM, what did he think of you? I'm a traditionalist, only host bars or (rarely nowadays) go go bars for me. Like to have a bit of conversation before we seal the deal.

Of course, this next trip I've set up to meet 2 friends. It'll be fun seeing how they interact with each other.

[latintopxxx]

I dont discriminate between commercial and non-commercial dates....if what appears is not as advertised I very firmly tell it to leave....only exception is if its" do-able" and its commercial then I negotiate a discount taking great pleasure in pointing out the defects....can be real fun dates.
I always insist on full body pic...front and rear....no beer bellies or saggy bitts...that is a MUST...NO exceptions....ever.
Joe...I really dont care what he thinks of me as my pics are fully up to date...so unless he's as blind as matty there are no surprises.
When it comes to buying online dont assume anything...ask and check...be specific..about time frame and activities /services expected....on more than one occasion I have stopped a session because all of a sudden he decides that a previously agreed upon activity is no longer possible..

[arsenal]

A sudden attack of good taste perhaps. The activity is perfectly possible, just not with you.

[scottish-guy]

.. my pics are fully up to date..

How come they're in fucking sepia then?

5603

[latintopxxx]

if I'm paying...need I say more?
And if its just a regular date and he's availing himself of my excellent techniques...

[latintopxxx]

scatboy...I shudder at your fetishes..I have to wonder what else is lurking in your pc. Think I need a shower now..

[scottish-guy]

..Think I need a shower now..

I've thought you needed one for a long time

[FarangRuMak]

But, FRM, what did he think of you? I'm a traditionalist, only host bars or (rarely nowadays) go go bars for me. Like to have a bit of conversation before we seal the deal.

Of course, this next trip I've set up to meet 2 friends. It'll be fun seeing how they interact with each other.
Guess what? I've never been turned down.
This always amazes me because I would never go with me if I were he.

[joe552]

Now there's an honest answer. Truth be told, I wouldn't go with you either - apparently you're over 40!

[FarangRuMak]

And 20 more on top of that!

[joe552]

Will you come to my 62nd birthday bash in Sunee Plaza? Venue to be announced later.

[latintopxxx]

FRM..I assume u r referring to MB when u say that u have never been turned down. I would say that you would have to be an absolute ogre to be turned down judging by what I see offing MB on soi twilight in BKK.

[FarangRuMak]

FRM..I assume u r referring to MB when u say that u have never been turned down. I would say that you would have to be an absolute ogre to be turned down judging by what I see offing MB on soi twilight in BKK.
Yes money boys.
I recall attending a promotion in Bangkok organised by a farang friend of mine (and many others) to sell yachts to super rich Thai spoiled brats. The sales company was Turkish actually.
One of these rich kids caught my eye because he was so cute and his father had just bought a yacht.
I went up to him and asked to come with me to the BB Inn on Rama IV for 2000 baht short time and he actually turned me down.
Never before had I ever offered anyone 2000 baht for short time and this guy refused.
How crazy was that?
It was MBs only for me from then till now.

[gerefan2]

One of these rich kids caught my eye because he was so cute and his father had just bought a yacht.
I went up to him and asked to come with me to the BB Inn on Rama IV for 2000 baht for short time and this guy refused.

OK I will bite...

WTF makes you think a "rich kid" whose Dad had bought a yacht, would go with you for a measly 2000 baht. I bet he wouldn't go for 20,000.

Give them some credit. He obviously was not an Isaan farmers boy FFS.

[FarangRuMak]

As sure as ram is mutton I'll never trust anyone again but a moneyboy.

[FarangRuMak]

Will you come to my 62nd birthday bash in Sunee Plaza? Venue to be announced later.
If I'm in Thailand I'll be there.
Thanks for the invite.

[Manforallseasons]

Joe as you haven't been to Pattaya for sometime expect current day Sunee to be a shocker!

[arsenal]

Latin wrote.
"FRM..I assume u r referring to MB when u say that u have never been turned down. I would say that you would have to be an absolute ogre to be turned down judging by what I see offing MB on soi twilight in BKK."

This is compared to the catalogue model good looks you possess no doubt.

[joe552]

Joe as you haven't been to Pattaya for sometime expect current day Sunee to be a shocker!

I'm intrigued - is that a good thing or a bad thing? And about that birthday invitation, you do actually have to be in Pattaya on 9 January to take part. Which bar in Sunee would you recommend? Apparently, Ting Tong Red only does German food, so I'm not sure about that.

[latintopxxx]

arseTroll....Im fucking gorgeous...'andsome man"...so I've been told by all the MB I engage...they moan and ooo with pleasure when Im with them...now would they lie???

[joe552]

Thanks MFAS. As long as there is at least one bar open on 9 January (did I mention it's my birthday?) we'll do okay. If you're around, just look out for all the balloons and the boys in white swim gear.

[Manforallseasons]

One note of caution Joe...Yes there are still bars open in Sunee but many many have closed, keep your expectations low and you will be be just fine afterall you have something else to look forward to.

[arsenal]

I'm very sorry to have to tell you this Joe and it breaks my heart to do so but, January 9th is not a Thursday and so the meatloaf supper will not be available on that, your most special of days.

And Latin. I am more gorgeous than you. Fact. Because I pay more and so in Thai MB law/lore that makes me lots and loads more gorgeouser.

[joe552]

MFAS, I only need one bar to celebrate my birthday in, and to enjoy the meeting of my best friends. hehe, can't wait for that. Since Gary left All of Me, I was going to have to find a new place anyway. We'll see how it goes. Will you be around on January 9 (did I mention that it's my birthday?)

[a447]

I'll be away for Christmas and New Year but if I get back in time, I'll definitely do a quick trip to Pattaya on Jan 9.

And why that day in particular? Is it your birthday, or something?

[latintopxxx]

relax..if sunee is not up to your standards...mosey off to jomtien...

[joe552]

sorry a477, I thought I'd mentioned this before, but apparently not. I arrive in Pattaya around 5pm on 9 January - WHICH IS MY BIRTHDAY. The plan is to get settled into Yensabai Condo (thanks again, gerefan) and be having a beer or a red wine in Sunee at 5.30ish. I plan to just wander around and see which bar takes my fancy. If you're passing by, you'll recognise me as the farang who looks a lot younger than 62. And I won't have a tan.

[a447]

Ok. Got it!

As I am not a drinker, may I suggest that you hold your party at Goodboys?

That way, you can have your hand around a Singha and I can have my hand around something much more interesting. And just as big.

[joe552]

I can't abide the notion of having to pop out for a smoke every so often, while you get to samoke to your heart's content. So it's a beer bar for me.

[Manforallseasons]

Ok. Got it!

As I am not a drinker, may I suggest that you hold your party at Goodboys?

That way, you can have your hand around a Singha and I can have my mouth around something much more interesting. And just as big .

Good luck a447!

[a447]

Good luck a447!

No luck required.

They've got some guys there who would give a vodka bottle a run for its money!

[joe552]

Now that just sounds perverted, a447,

[scottish-guy]

It's those Mr Magoo specs a447 wears - they magnify everything by a factor of 10.

:D

[christianpfc]

On the apps there is indeed there is a lot of:
not the picture of the profile owner (some even say so in profile text),
no pictures at all (when they write to me I first ask for pictures and refuse to engage in any conversation until I get a face pic),
poor pictures.

I prefer to chat on Line anyway, and try to quickly move the chat to Line, best followed by a video call.

[tip]

On the apps (http://onenightstand1.com/sexdating-sites/) there is indeed there is a lot of:
not the picture of the profile owner (some even say so in profile text),
no pictures at all (when they write to me I first ask for pictures and refuse to engage in any conversation until I get a face pic),
poor pictures.

I prefer to chat on Line anyway, and try to quickly move the chat to Line, best followed by a video call.

I agree with you, also prefer Line....

[latintopxxx]

i gotta get line...catch more fish with a new net..